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How would you feel if your parents asked you to borrow money?

How would you feel if your parents asked you to borrow money? Don’t ask yourself to answer: Listening to the woman’s words, how can he be a husband if he is a well-behaved person? If he values ??goods and wealth but does not have parents, then he is a son of a human being in vain. Should there be any talk of borrowing money between parents and their children? A lamb kneels to nurse and a crow feeds back, let alone a human being? The wind is still, the trees are moving but not stopping, the child wants to be raised, don't wait until the parents are not here! Baiwei salt is the first, Baishan filial piety is the first! If salt loses its taste, how can it be called salty? If a man loses his filial piety, he is no longer a son of man!

This is very worthy of everyone's attention: If parents borrow money from their children, I feel very sad. Why?

As children, it should be a very shameful thing for us to not even be able to take care of our parents’ daily life. It means that our children have no idea about their parents’ warmth and real life situation. Isn’t it their fault? Our parents raised us up. No matter how we are raised, our children must never forget the kindness of raising us, and they must also fulfill their obligations as children. Caring about parents, understanding whether parents have pocket money, parents' health and diet, and other daily life situations.

Parents borrowing money from their children shows that they are absolutely in dire straits, and may even be penniless. Only when there is no other way will one reach out to borrow money from his children, otherwise he will never borrow money casually. When parents ask to borrow money, I think as a son or daughter, they should feel very uncomfortable. Deep down in their hearts, they should feel pain, guilt and self-blame, and reflect on whether their usual care and care for their parents is adequate.

Honoring parents is the obligation of children, and filial piety comes first!

Of course, I immediately felt guilty and felt that I did not care enough for my parents. If the money was not large, I would definitely give it to my parents immediately and ask my parents to forgive their children for their negligence. To borrow it would be equivalent to scolding their children; but If the amount of money is large, then you must ask your parents for the ins and outs. If your parents help others solve their problems out of good intentions, they will be willing to help others. If you are deceived, it is not a matter of money, but a huge blow to your parents, which will seriously affect them. If you lose your physical and mental health, it won't be worth the loss; instead, it will harm your parents. In short, as a child, you should contact your parents more, care more, and spend more time with your parents to fulfill your filial piety.

Children should know everything about their parents. When their parents encounter difficulties, it is natural for their children to help their parents; as long as they are not gamblers. My second brother got married for the first time in the Yunnan Army and his father had no money. At that time, I had a loan I had just taken for business, and I gave it to my father without any hesitation. Let me talk about my feelings: My parents raised me to get married and start a family. Even though I supported the family when I was ten years old, it was a difficulty that I should share with my parents. My father brought me into this beautiful world and I will repay the favor throughout my life as a son. I can't live up to my parents' kindness. My youngest uncle is one year younger than me. When we got married, my grandfather had no money to build a house. My father had a major surgery in 1980 and 1981, and I spent all the money for people coming and going; When my brother-in-law built a house and got married, I took all of my father’s share. There is nothing to say, it’s what I should have done.

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Let me answer this question, how would you feel if your parents asked you to borrow money.

Generally, parents will not easily ask their children for money. Sometimes parents will encounter difficulties if they ask for it. I believe it is impossible for parents to borrow money to play cards and gamble. Such things happen, but A few. I personally think that I still don’t care enough about my parents. Most of today’s young people are busy outside, and their parents have little financial resources at home. Some families spend a lot of money on gifts. If my parents ask me to borrow money, it will prove that they are doing well. My children are particularly losers. Every time I go home, I give them a few thousand apiece, and it’s the same when I go home during the Chinese New Year. I don’t care how much my brother gives me. Personally, based on my conscience, I don’t think parents can borrow money from their children. They don’t have enough money, so I can I just ask my children to give them money. They say that raising children is for old age, so that they can have someone to take care of them when they get older. There is another possibility that if my parents ask me to borrow money, someone else must ask my parents for help and act as a middleman. That is understandable. .

As long as it is not a pyramid scheme or buying some health products, just take it

In fact, I think there is no excuse between parents and children. Parents will not easily ask their children for money. Children should take the initiative to give their parents some money every month as a token of appreciation. If one day your parents take the initiative to ask you for money, and the amount is huge, as a child, you must ask your parents what they use it to prevent their parents from being cheated.

I think I would be very sad because it was my incompetence that caused my parents to borrow money to spend. If I had the ability, I would give my parents more money so that they could live a prosperous life. , so that my parents will not ask me to borrow money to spend.

Another possibility is that you have never taken the initiative to give money to your parents. If your parents were not at the end of their rope, they would not ask us to borrow money. In this case, we should reflect on ourselves, why do our parents Will you ask us to borrow money? If we often give money to our parents, how can they ask us to borrow money? So I said, this feeling is that we as children feel sad because we have wronged our parents.

"A son wants to be raised but his relatives are not." Think about this sentence carefully. If the money is gone, you can earn it again, but if the person is gone, it will be gone forever. Don't wait until we regret to think of filial piety. Parents, at that time, even if you had money, your parents couldn't spend it anymore, so while we were still young and could still make money, we gave more to our parents. It was not easy for our parents to support us all our lives. Now that we can't make money, isn't this the right time? When we honor them?

If parents come to borrow money, it is tantamount to a slap in the face. The reason why they borrow money instead of asking for money just shows that parents have low self-esteem in front of their children and act cautiously; but asking for money is different, it means they are very confident and take it for granted.

One word, two situations. It can be seen from this that children usually either ignore or have very strict rules towards their parents. Unless it is absolutely necessary or there is an emergency, parents will not break the rules and be cowardly and come to borrow money.

Perhaps, there are several meanings here:

First, it is indeed to borrow money;

Second, because there are other things, I can’t Dare to speak out and ask for help, and in the name of borrowing money, test it out first, which is a tactful notification;

Thirdly, I am not short of money, it is just because I am too lonely and miss my children and grandchildren. Deliberately finding an excuse to visit;

Fourthly, it is purely to increase the sense of presence, not just for busyness, but also for the sake of my own little family and a pair of old parents alive, who also need love and care.

Based on this analysis, the parents borrowed money, not rashly, but after planning for a long time. They didn’t know how long they considered, struggled, and hesitated before they dared to muster the courage to go to the door to "make mistakes."

As for whether it means the above-mentioned meanings, it is not important. What is important is whether the money is borrowed or not, and whether it is given or not. But there is an obvious fact: if you lend it, don't expect to pay it back. Considering the actual situation of the old parents and parents, it is estimated that it will be difficult to pay it back. After all, he is getting older and his physical condition is no longer suitable for working as a cow or a horse, and he is working hard to make money, so how can he pay back the money.

It’s just a matter of this matter. Whether to borrow this money or not, you have to think about it yourself and decide what to do! Remember: Don’t forget to discuss it with your other partner, otherwise, you will be responsible for the consequences.