Why is Tanchun so indifferent to Aunt Zhao?

Jia Tanchun is the third lady of the Jia family and the daughter of Jia Zheng. She is gentle and quiet, gentle and courteous to others, and has a cheerful nature. Although her poetry and writing are not as good as those of Daiyu and Baochai, she is still above ordinary people. He has the talent of a steward, but he will not bully others. There are thousands of good things about Tanchun, but there is one thing that Tanchun has been criticized for, that is, she is relatively indifferent to her biological mother, Aunt Zhao.

Tanchun is not a child who is naturally arrogant, shows off to his subordinates, and is unfilial to his elders. In fact, she is very polite and filial in daily life. She gets along well with her brothers and sisters. She is respectful and polite to Jia Mu and Mrs. Wang. She also takes good care of her servants. She has never been indifferent or rude to others. Why is this only true for Aunt Zhao? Because everyone misunderstood Tanchun, she was not indifferent to Aunt Zhao. On the contrary, she loved her mother very much, but on the surface she could not treat Aunt Zhao like her mother.

First, Tanchun did not agree to Aunt Zhao’s request, but showed up immediately when she was bullied

Everyone thinks that Tanchun is indifferent to his biological mother, Aunt Zhao, because of Zhao. The aunt wanted to ask for extra burial expenses for her brother, but Tanchun didn't give it. However, this was not Tanchun's fault. There were regulations for rewards for servants, and it was not Tanchun's decision alone.

Tan Chun said with a smile: "That's why. I said I didn't dare to break the law." He sat down, turned the tent over and showed it to Aunt Zhao, read it to her, and said: "This is an old rule from our ancestors. Everyone follows it, but I can't change it? Not only Xi Ren, in the future Huan'er will accept the outsiders, and naturally he will be the same as Xi Ren. This is not a matter of fighting over the big and the small. It's not a matter of shame. He is my wife's slave, and I am following the old rules.

Aunt Zhao is making trouble unreasonably, but Tanchun is not only not angry, but also angry. She was explaining the reasons to Aunt Zhao bit by bit. If she didn't respect her mother, it would be completely unnecessary, as long as she ignored Aunt Zhao, but she didn't do that.

Tan Chun. It also invisibly elevated Jia Huan's status. Jia Huan was just a third young master from a concubine, and many people looked down upon him. However, as long as Tanchun was around, Tanchun would let everyone treat him equally and protect all his rights. . This principle also exists for Aunt Zhao. Tanchun will definitely help her family, and she must make it impossible for others to fault her. Few people can see her difficulties. She is determined to do a good job. Few people can see the hard work that goes into a housekeeper's duties. If Tanchun violates the old rules in order to satisfy Aunt Zhao's vanity, then just 20 taels of silver will ruin Tanchun's career as a housekeeper. Moreover, both the servants and Mrs. Wang will see Tanchun's jokes. Tanchun can no longer help Aunt Zhao openly or secretly.

Tanchun's heartache for Aunt Zhao is reflected in countless small details. Inside, Tanchun saw Aunt Zhao crying with tears and runny nose, "I don't understand who Aunt Zhao is talking about. Who stepped on my aunt's head? I'll vent my anger on my aunt's behalf. "This was Tanchun's statement to her mother, and she did it in the same way.

Tanchun did not agree to Aunt Zhao's request, but she would show up as soon as Aunt Zhao was bullied. Aunt Zhao was there The Jia family is a relatively embarrassing existence. Half master and half servant are not respected by others, and sometimes they are not smart enough. They are often used as spearheads. If Tanchun is not the housekeeper, how can the little actor Fang stand up for her. The officials can contradict Aunt Zhao at will, but Aunt Zhao can do nothing but fight with the other girls. Everyone present is laughing, and only Tanchun will really help her. He will stabilize the situation and let Aunt Zhao vent her anger, and then let the servants find out the cause, process and results of the matter, and finally handle the matter properly.

Secondly, the rules of the Jia family do not care about Tanchun's biological mother. No matter who she is, she can only respect Mrs. Wang as her mother

If Tanchun didn't love her mother, Aunt Zhao, then she wouldn't have to worry so much about her affairs. Tanchun couldn't admit Zhao in front of everyone. My aunt is my mother, because this is the rule of the Jia family.

Tanchun was brought up by Jia's mother since she was a child. Mrs. Wang is her legitimate mother. Whether she wants it or not, she can only respect Mrs. Wang as her mother. Moreover, Mrs. Wang has never treated her harshly and asked her to take charge of the family affairs. , this kind of friendship also makes Tanchun have to call her his mother.

It was selfish of Tanchun not to call Aunt Zhao mother, and not to call "Zhao Guoji" uncle, but what did they do for Tanchun? What have you done for Jia Huan?

Tan Chun said: "I am accustomed to respecting these relatives more and more. In that case, why did Zhao Guoji stand up and go to school with Huan'er when he left? Why didn't he show his uncle?

This is all due to fate. Tanchun is the third lady of the Jia family. She has ambitions and abilities, but just because she is a woman, she cannot get out of the big family of Jia family. Fan Rong, if she had the chance, she wouldn't want to stay here, but they didn't have the chance to choose. They had to adapt to the rules of the Jia family to survive here well.

Tanchun has understood this truth for a long time, but Aunt Zhao doesn't understand it. That's why she comes to Tanchun again and again to make trouble. If Tanchun really doesn't love her, why should Tanchun bother to explain to her again and again? The reason is that she has to listen to her noises again and again. It is not that Tanchun is not as fierce and refreshing as Wang Xifeng, but her toughness can be used against outsiders like Wang Shanbao's family, but she will never be against her own mother.

Third, Tanchun's "mother" when she got married was the true expression of her and Aunt Zhao's mother-daughter relationship

Tanchun's long-distance marriage was the most helpless thing about Tanchun. For so many years, she could not simply call Aunt Zhao mother. Only at this time could she call her mother in a dignified manner and cry together. Only in this last little time can Tanchun be with Aunt Zhao without any scruples. Together.

For Tan Chun's distant marriage, the royal reward, the ten-mile red dress, and the huge scene, many people congratulated her, but only Jia Zheng and Aunt Zhao were really sad for Tan Chun. Zheng was distressed but could not disobey the emperor's orders. Aunt Zhao was distressed but could only stand in the distance and cry silently. She was not even qualified to stand in front of her to say goodbye or give instructions. Aunt Zhao understood her distress, so Tanchun looked back and paid her respects. She will always look for her mother when she is leaving her family. I am afraid that no one will be able to see her again. Her tears are reluctant, and her smile makes her feel at ease. This scene is the true expression of the mother and daughter's love for so many years. .

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