Reading Notes

Years are quiet, only book companions!

Manic indifference, ups and downs!

Strange, inexplicable life!

If you have few intimate friends, you will get drunk!

You have to stop writing for a long time before you want to start writing, but there is always an exit, so you must never give up the habit of writing.

For example, the first book I/kloc-completed in 0/8, The Past at the Bottom, was the first book I read with so many comments. I heard at first, of course, because of Luo Ji's thinking. I talked about it in Kan Kan, which is very fat. I believe this book is very helpful to improve the level of copywriting. In fact, from the description level, it can indeed be used as a reference for writing materials, but there will still be a few parts that are not suitable for teenagers. That I gave up the belief of recommending to children.

The past by the trough is mainly divided into three parts: a bowl of arsenic for the soul, the king of dark cooking, and the sunset is always outside the castle peak. He Caitou narrated a lot in the form of essays, talking about life, food and hometown. I'll talk about my life and hometown here, because there are so many delicious things to say.

Of course, my favorite part of this book is about life, which is the most empathetic and low-key, but the brushwork is powerful and should be regarded as an evaluation of it.

1. Growth:?

? There are too many good stories, but how many good experiences can fall on you? This is not a factor of self-confidence, but the longer you will find that "it is more difficult not to do what you don't like than to do what you like!" "Personally, it's embarrassing to say. Most of the things I like have nothing to do with making money, so I can only make a living by what I don't like enough. Many years ago, I always thought that making money was for a better life, but now I understand the sentence "making more money is to give you a choice capital!" " "

I especially like a sentence in the book, "Growth is a process of gradually increasing high points and gradually reducing punchline". The former makes you indifferent to everything and concentrate on doing things; The latter makes you sit in front of the TV, and the leader can laugh off his teeth when telling jokes. This is sad, but it is also helpless. What a pity it is to grow up.

2. excuse:

In the face of life, we always have many reasons to prevaricate. Although the final result of prevarication will still be passed on to yourself, there is a reason that is better than not letting yourself feel better.

It seems that this is the thing in this world. When things are going well, you will take everything for granted, because you are smart and handsome, and God's preference takes care of you. When something goes wrong, find a scapegoat. In the words of Chinese cabbage, it means "never take responsibility, put the blame on others." "

I don't think it's a bad thing to admit that you are an idiot once in a while. At least I won't always be blindly optimistic, knowing that I'm not always good, and I can't always be favored. People often say "blessed are the fools", probably because fools think they are not smart, so they can't find many reasons that suit them.

3. Learning:

The education we received from childhood tells us that "we should have a plan in life and a goal in the future". However, the results of big data statistics tell us that there are always many possibilities in life. Walking on thin ice may not be the first place, but unexpected gains can often be extraordinary!

Everyone in that foreign country once said: genius has its own way out, and fools are hopeless. So he came to the conclusion that education is only aimed at people in the middle group, and our education of China people pays too much attention to the cultivation of professionalism and morality, which is very bad to cultivate people who can't socialize and can't start swimming immediately. This requires us, in addition to exam-oriented education, to learn to keep the habit of learning, just as naturally as we like to accept new things, but few people can do this.

In addition, it is also the most important to know what kind of people to learn from. He Caitou said, "If a person has blood on his hands and sweat on his body, then you'd better listen to his advice." I think this suggestion is very pertinent. Only those who have really experienced it and have the ability to do it can have a personal understanding of your problem.

4. Dream:

Speaking of this topic, the most familiar sentence is "the dream is still there, what if it comes true?" Yes, as long as there is desire, the world will be full of vitality. People always have to walk a long way to distinguish what is "desire" and what is "dream". Desire makes people feel important, while dreams make people feel light and hesitate to take any measures. If you only have desires and no dreams, the best way is to put them out. Only desire makes people only do multiple-choice questions, and dreams make people only do proof questions.

5. Friends &; Old classmates:

One stupid thing you should never do is not to try to show your strength in front of your friends. There will only be two results: you fail or your friends have nothing to do!

It is a happy thing for old classmates to get together, but after years of neglect of contact, they live their own lives, and there is not so much overlap. Let's push a cup for a change. It's old times again. Everyone raised their glasses and laughed their heads off, saying the most serious things with their greatest strength and playing the innocent audience with their greatest strength. There is obviously a kind of sadness here. After more than ten years, everyone finally learned to tell what they were afraid to say by telling jokes. Cups are broken dreams.

6. Workplace:

Don't try to change others, let alone distort your heart, but you can try to change your environment, find a superior who likes you and appreciates you, and work there, so that fewer people will get cancer because of work.

After entering the workplace and obtaining the game qualification, there are actually only two points to examine your personal ability: one is the execution ability, and the other is the ability to coordinate and distribute interests.

Many times in the workplace, it is the same as the emperor's rule. I always think of a good method, but I can't carry it out. Even people have selfishness. Wrong, no one can say it, because no one wants to be a bird, and who knows whose interests will be triggered by your casual kindness.

Poor communication in the workplace is also common. I want to say that listening requires some patience, but it should not be patience itself. Many times everyone is thinking about what you should do, but few people tell you why, because you don't understand and it's not smooth, but no one has the heart to adjust this state. Everyone is asking others. From the perspective of interests, selfishness is human nature, but so is everyone. When talking about the future, only a few people are so annoying. A few mouse droppings ruined a pot of porridge.

How expensive the truth is, how cheap it is!

7. Advice for children:

Don't watch TV and eat less snacks, which won't affect your growth. Don't just ask your parents. Do whatever you can for them, and they will be satisfied.

When one day, you grow up and leave home, get married and have children, and get married. Your parents come to your home to help you take care of your child who is only a few months old. When they got home, the first sentence was "it's better to stay at home, that's the children's home, not mine." This is the saddest and most helpless thing I have ever heard.

Speaking of hometown, as a person who has never been far away, I probably don't have as many feelings as Caitou, but my love for my hometown will not be reduced by one point. Why else have you been staying in this place? Since I don't feel much, share a few favorite words!

1. My hometown is the starting point of my own world at the moment. There are good memories, waiting families and reasons for leaving. My hometown will eventually become the forefront of my own world in the future, so that every departure will become a return.

We don't have such luck, so we can only sit opposite each other in a dark bar and count the scars left on our bodies over the past year. There is no such opportunity to witness each other's many struggles and fragility, and see how you and I fell into the mud and tried to stand up. We are just strangers in the crisscross of time and space, and we can't recognize each other when we walk face to face.

3. Some people are like this all their lives. When they look at the lights from a distance, they will feel unusually warm and eager to get close. When I approached it, I was driven back by the heat and fled just visible. Coming and going, a lifetime has passed.

4. Need a kind of fairness, don't ask a foreign land for the kind countryside that it can't give, and don't ask your hometown for the moments that you didn't spend together. Need a kind of reconciliation, and yourself. Understand that fate is like this, life is like this, and there will be no place where you remain unchanged in a changing world.

5. Try to learn to forget nostalgia and alienation, and learn to jump!

I also love my hometown, clear water and blue sky. I love it when the smog is full; Dark wounds, old memories also love; Full of unknowns and love. In any case, it carries your past, even your future, just because it is your hometown and a place where you can be calm and down when you go back.

Seventy cents of arsenic and thirty cents of hometown have been shared. I wonder how many people can see the end. If you can see here, I want to say congratulations. Please like it if you like it! May everyone have a home to go back to, a hometown to remember and a dream to come true!