What should I do if someone jumps off the building?

Some people may say: Since the more you are afraid of death, the sooner you will die, and the less you are afraid of death, the harder it is to die, then why do people who commit suicide die if they are not afraid of death? This sounds right. It seems that the first law of not fearing death is wrong. In fact, psychological things are all contrary. It’s not that the first law of fear of death is wrong, but that this sentence is wrong. The mistake is that most people think that a person who commits suicide is not afraid of death. How can he still be afraid of death after he has died by himself? Would he die on his own if he was afraid of death? This sounds right, but whatever feels right is wrong, and whatever feels wrong is right. In fact, it is not that people who commit suicide are not afraid of death, but that they are most afraid of death. It is precisely because they are most afraid of death that they have to die. It is precisely because they are most afraid of death that they force themselves to death. This is that the more you are afraid of death, the faster you will die, and the less you are afraid of death, the less likely you are to die. The first law of not being afraid of death is an unbreakable truth. A rural woman wanted to hang herself in the field. When she put the rope on a tree and was about to hang herself, she suddenly saw a swarm of wasps in the tree. She was so frightened that she pulled off the rope and ran away. From now on, she never committed suicide again. idea. If she wasn't afraid of death, was she still afraid of wasps? Can a wasp sting to death? If she could be stung to death, wouldn't it save her the effort of hanging herself? Some people may say: "This kind of person doesn't really want to commit suicide at all! He just wants to scare people." If she wanted to hang herself in public, she might be threatening others with death, but if she secretly went to the fields to hang herself alone, who would she be threatening? Some people may say: "She is not afraid of death, but she is afraid of pain." This is all based on feeling. If you are not afraid of death, pepper water, and tiger stools, why are you afraid of wasps? Only cowards will think that the pain of wasp stings is It is unbearable, and even those who are not afraid of death will not feel the pain even if they are cut by a knife or burned by fire. How can a person who is afraid of pain not be afraid of death? This kind of lack of fear of death is all fake and an excuse for those who are afraid of death. There is a story in the Hong Kong TV series "Love Is Always Love". A pair of lovers who eloped were chased by their creditor with a gang of gangsters armed with knives to collect the debt because they owed a large amount of gambling debt. They fled into a house and were really desperate. They decided to Commit suicide together. But what is the best way to commit suicide? Hang yourself. It’s too scary. Or take poison. It’s too painful. Finally, you decide to cut your pulse. But when they all showed their wrists, picked up knives, and were about to commit suicide, the gangsters who suddenly demanded debts arrived and shouted at the door. Suddenly the two of them were frightened out of their wits, and said with great fear: "What should we do? If they rush in, they will kill us!" Since they were ready to commit suicide, were they still afraid of killing? If you really weren't afraid of death, wouldn't being killed by gangsters save you the trouble of doing it yourself? In fact, people who commit suicide are not afraid of death, but they are most afraid of death. People who think that people who commit suicide are not afraid of death follow their feelings, but psychological things are contrary. If the feeling is right, the fact is wrong. Thinking that a suicidal person is afraid of death just feels wrong, but what feels wrong is actually right. When a suicidal person commits suicide according to the suicide method he chooses, he is only immersed in the events he faces without thinking about the horror of death. The extreme pain caused by the psychological crisis temporarily masks his instinct of fear of death, and then he feels that he can actually commit suicide. . But when he is about to commit suicide according to the method of his choice, and another way of death suddenly appears, the instinct of fear of death will suddenly be exposed. The strong fear of death can inspire him to suddenly think hard, and this sudden sudden thought, It will make him suddenly realize the horror of death, and he will not dare to mention death again in the future. Since he does not want to die, he will take the initiative to find reasons for not dying. When he takes the initiative to find reasons for not dying, he will forget everything he can't think about. , so I completely gave up the idea of ??committing suicide. Because people mistakenly believe that suicidal people are not afraid of death, and even think that suicidal people want to die, people persuade and guide people who have attempted suicide. They always tell the patients how beautiful life is and how important life is. Are you stupid? Damn it, why are you so confused? In psychology, intervention and prevention of suicide mostly focus on guiding and persuading patients not to commit suicide, and passively eliminating conditions that facilitate suicide. In fact, they also prevent suicide in a positive direction. However, under the influence of the law of reversal, the result is more and more serious. If it is prevented, the patient's suicidal thoughts will become stronger.

No matter how beautiful life is, he won't believe it, because he feels that life is not beautiful. It's useless if you say life is important. He thinks his life has no meaning. From the perspective of a normal person, suicide is stupid. It's stupid, but people with mental disorders see things in the opposite way. They don't think suicide is stupid or stupid, but think it's right. Therefore, the best way to prevent suicide is to target the suicidal person's fear of death and adopt a counterproductive approach. Instead of trying every possible means to persuade him not to die, he should try every possible means to let him die. Instead of using life to cure death, he should use death to cure him. Its death. When a person is about to commit suicide, the best way to completely dispel his suicidal thoughts is to suddenly face another way of death. For example: when a person is about to jump into a river, if a vicious dog is suddenly released to bite him, he will run away to escape death. He would never think that it would be better to let the dog bite me to death, which would save me from jumping into the river and die, so he just stood there and let the dog bite me. He would never jump into the river immediately and seize the time to die. Instead, run away to a safe shore to escape death. If he could escape the vicious dog, he would never have the thought of suicide again. However, although the dog bite method is good, it is too restricted by conditions and rarely used. However, as long as the psychological characteristics of the suicidal person's fear of death are mastered, the reversal method is much more effective than the forward prevention method. For example: when a suicidal person is about to jump off a building, the more he yells not to jump, the more likely he is to jump. If you ask him to jump instead, he won't jump. If he knows a close relative, he can say: "You jump! You deserve to fall to death!" This is playing hard to get. The more you let him jump, the less able he will be to jump. If it's someone you don't know, don't try to save him at all. Instead, make jokes, sarcasm, and scare him. You can say: "Look how stupid this person is! He wants to jump off the building. If he jumps, wouldn't he fall?" His brain will burst and his body will be shattered. Let him jump, and none of us will stop him. Let's see how he falls to pieces." Repeatedly saying this will make him stop jumping. It's just that this method is not yet accepted by others. You should advise him not to jump. Even if he is sent to hell, there is no sin. However, this approach will not save people. If one of them fails, he will not be able to bear the consequences. Go, because even if the obedient method harms others, people are willing to do it; even if the unfavorable method saves people, people will not tolerate it.