People who are not afraid of jokes when eating.

If you can do three things, you can avoid getting cancer: don't worry, don't be afraid and be shameless.

This is not a medical problem, but a person's living condition.

The first two points are actually not difficult, and they can basically be handed over to time. With experience, knowledge and skills, you can naturally calm down.

But it's hard to be shameless.

What people in China pay attention to is that people want face and trees want skin.

Being a man with no face and no skin is generally disapproved.

But in fact, many times we really need a little shameless spirit.

On the first day of the college entrance examination, four people in the dormitory went out to eat hot pot.

I thought we were brothers after eating hot pot and singing.

As soon as I sat down, a northeast classmate raised his glass: "Come on, boys, let's go!" "

"Come, tea instead of wine, take one." Another classmate and I are from the south. We have been obedient children since childhood and have never had a drink.

"Grandpa, what kind of tea do you want?" Students in the northeast are very contemptuous.

"I really can't drink." We defend.

"Meet for the first time, give elder brother a face. Come white. "

"It's not a matter of face ..."

Before we finished a sentence, the northeast students left: "I won't eat this meal!" " "

Leaving us looking at each other.

In the future, we will understand. In his value recognition, not drinking with him at the same table means not giving him face.

And he always thinks that life and death are small and face is big. I don't want my face. Why are you still alive?

In fact, sometimes if you can be shameless, you can not only look more atmospheric, but also make others feel more comfortable and comfortable.

Face-saving people always pay attention to giving others face.

However, if you save face for others, others will appreciate it; But if it is imposed on others, others may not enjoy it.

Still this northeast classmate.

Invite everyone to dinner for their birthday. The rice was eaten, the wine was drunk, and the cow was blown away. If you give up, you will only have fun.

Just when everyone was about to end the song. The buddy shouted to the proprietress, "Two more dishes and two bottles of wine."

A group of people who had enough to eat and drink had to continue to sit down, boasting and drinking two bottles of tired wine.

Some people can't drink well, so they are persuaded to break their glasses and leave angrily.

Everyone broke up in discord.

The next day, he himself was admitted to the hospital because of alcoholism and stomach bleeding.

When taking care of him in the hospital, advise him not to do such a thing in the future.

He plausibly said, "People came to my birthday party to give me face. Then I can't give people face? "

"Are you giving people face or losing face?"

"I have to give others face, whether it is someone else's business or not."

Confucius said, "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you."

So is the face. Wishful thinking is imposed on others, but it is not necessarily a burden on others.

If some faces are taken at the expense of others, it is better not to take them.

Born in a remote rural area, I walked out of the mountains for the first time and got on the train when I was in college.

After graduating from college for nearly ten years, I have been traveling between major cities, and the means of transportation is still the train. Accustomed to "beer, drinks, mineral water; The sound of peanut and melon seeds eight-treasure porridge.

Finally got a chance to fly.

Try to pretend to be an old driver.

Check-in, baggage check-in, security check, boarding ... every link, carefully observe what others do. Make sure that you have mastered every detail before you put it into action.

Everything went well and was a success. Until the stewardess came to deliver the drinks.

Sorry not to say anything, it seems so corny.

Have a cup of coffee. It's better than mineral water.

But the question is, how much is this cup of coffee?

Ask? Awkward.

I was smart enough to take out 100 yuan.

I am secretly proud that it is always possible to let the stewardess change.

The moment when the air freezes is the most embarrassing.

Later, I once invited a client to a very high-end western restaurant for dinner.

The names of western food are difficult to understand, and some restaurants are even more difficult to understand in pursuit of art.

When a customer orders, she will ask the waiter in detail and directly for every dish that she doesn't know and is interested in: What is this dish? How did you do that? What's the smell? ...

The waiter answered patiently, and finally she also ordered her favorite dish.

I remembered my first experience of flying.

Digging into my heart, I screwed up my work at the last second, not only losing face, but also losing a clean foundation.

Will you die if you admit that you don't understand?

Confucius said, "Knowing is knowing, not knowing is not knowing, but knowing."

Be shameless, face your ignorance frankly, and you can be yourself easily.

At this time, not only will it not lose face, but it will radiate the light of self-confidence and wisdom.

A friend joined the army to buy toilet seats in Japan and found a fully intelligent toilet seat worth nearly 10,000 yuan.

I studied the translation software with the instruction manual for a week before I understood the usage of this high-tech product.

One day, another friend came to visit and went to the toilet.

After solving the problem, I was blindsided: faced with this high-tech gadget without Chinese label, I didn't know how to deal with the aftermath.

I wonder, isn't it shameful that you can't even flush the toilet? Let's find out for ourselves. How advanced can a toilet be?

I found a button that looked like a flush and pressed it back and forth several times. The water came out, but it won't wash off.

Over and over again, the water overflowed Jinshan and the house was full of filth.

This result is not too bad, more like a joke, but also quite embarrassing.

But not everyone is so lucky, and everything will end in comedy.

Borrowing a car between two friends.

The borrower is unwilling to ask more questions because of his good face, and the borrower is afraid to say more because he takes care of his friend's face.

As a result, the car was seriously damaged because of improper operation, and the friendship between the two people came to an end.

Everyone likes to associate with honest people and try to avoid hypocritical people.

True good friends often say "shameless", which is not a curse, but an expression of love.

Shameless friends are more honest, more lovely and more caring.

When I first joined the work, the leader assigned tasks. Obviously, I don't know much about many places, but I always agree. Because I'm always worried that if I ask some questions, I'll be too ignorant.

Later, I brought my own team. What I hate most is such a person who pretends to understand.

The team received the biggest project ever, and everyone was very nervous.

When assigning work, let new colleagues take charge of relatively simple market segments, and repeatedly emphasize that if you have difficulties, ask first and ask questions at any time. He showed complete understanding.

Asked about the situation several times in the middle, he said, "The leaders can rest assured and guarantee to complete the task."

There are still two days to report to customers, and everyone will hand in their own results.

The market research done by the new colleague is a complete piece of shit. Asked why, he found a lot of reasons: "I'm not sure about this", "I've never done this before" and "I thought ..."

It's no use cursing him to death, no matter how severe it is.

The death of a new colleague saved the whole team's efforts for two weeks and all expectations were dashed.

Team leaders don't mind being asked childish questions. It is the responsibility of leaders to help and guide them or adjust their work arrangements. I won't look down on people who don't know anything at first. What leaders really value is the result of their work.

Don't put on a long face, ask all the questions you don't understand from the beginning, and the leaders know exactly what to solve, adjust and remedy.

Such people are more conducive to improving the efficiency of team work, and leaders prefer them.

Shameless is a state of life, what is needed is courage.

If paying too much attention to face is the external reason for the lack of such courage, then the gap between yourself in reality and yourself in expectation is the internal reason.

Anyone who has consulted has a deep understanding. When facing customers, you must pretend to be an expert in the industry, as if all the problems of customers are in your hands.

In fact, many times, I don't have any good ideas. The good situation is an armchair strategist. The bad news is that I talk about Silas and confuse my customers.

This is not only the need of work and business, but also the greater reason is that the consultant sincerely hopes that he is an expert who knows everything and can easily solve customer problems.

It's just that there is always a gap between facts and expectations.

Just like Wu Dalang walking down the street with the burden of selling baked wheat cakes, everyone will say, "My brother is Song Wu who killed the tiger on Jingyanggang". Unrealistic boasting can not only satisfy your vanity, but also give yourself some comfort.

Life always gives us some illusions that are far from reality. Many times what we expect is not necessarily what we really want.

Think hard: Is this really what you want?

If not, you might as well be shameless, not only see your own advantages, but also face up to your own shortcomings, be yourself and be comfortable and confident.

Take off your disguise and be a shameless person.

Shameless. Unloading the burden of hypocrisy will make you look generous and free.

Shameless, give others less unnecessary burden and make others more relaxed.

Shameless, you don't have to pretend to be so tired, and you have more confidence and calmness.

Shameless, friends will have less misunderstandings and more understanding and intimacy.

If you are shameless, your work will be less unnecessary communication costs and more efficient.

Shameless, ...

Shameless, a state of life, belongs to those who have the courage to face life and themselves. Last year, my husband's uncle Jinmen was seriously ill, so I went to the hospital to visit him.

When my husband and I rushed to the hospital, at one end of the corridor, my uncle's daughter was cursing his brother angrily in a low voice: "My dear father is sick and can't get money, and he is not afraid of jokes!"

My uncle's son is over forty, but he has been muddling along for most of his life. He drinks when he has some money, and the couple can cope. The daughter-in-law not only did not object, but also accompanied him to drink, and the life was very hard. They had only one son, dropped out of school early, wandered around the world, was in his twenties, and had no serious job. When I fall in love with a girl, people run away when they ask about their family situation.

Seeing that we were gone, brother and sister stopped arguing and accompanied us to the ward to see our uncle.

My uncle has been sleeping, afraid to disturb his rest, and after a few words of comfort, my husband and I quit.

The eldest sister sent it out and complained to us as she walked: "Do you say there is such a son?" My father can't get a dollar from the hospital. He even asked me for money to buy food, saying he had no money. You said that the couple had been lazy for half their lives and wanted to sleep at home every day. There is no savings at all. Their son is so old. See what they can get for their son to get married and buy a house! "

Not long after, my uncle died. According to the custom of my hometown, the funeral money was paid by my son. But the couple have no savings for half their lives, so they are scratching their heads.

Someone advised my sister to help me and then put some money in front of me. But my sister is exhausted, saying that her family is also greedy for life from morning till night, and there is no rest day all year round. Their family is harmonious, how can they live comfortably? She paid for the old man's illness and didn't get a penny as a son. At that time, she didn't want to care about it. She treated her father and paid for it, and now she wants money, not a penny!

Sister said very decisively, and others could not persuade her again. Everyone accused the couple of being too disappointing and unworthy of sympathy. Later, my uncle's nephew and nephew saved money together and simply arranged for the elderly.

Some time ago, there was a very popular article with the theme: The older you get, the fewer people will forgive you for being poor.

In fact, this kind of poverty is sometimes not due to the subjective reasons of the poor, but to some helpless objective factors, such as bad luck, such as illness.

There is nothing unforgivable about poverty itself, and many of them are caused by life experiences. What is unforgivable is poverty caused by laziness.

Before moving, the neighbors across the street often quarreled at night, and I woke up from my dream several times. I was born with neurasthenia and have been in a light sleep state. It's basically difficult to fall asleep when it's noisy in the middle of the night.

After being awakened again, I knocked at the door angrily. The female neighbor opened the door and saw me. At first she looked embarrassed, then tears welled up and said, "I'm sorry to disturb you." My family really can't live any longer. Otherwise, who is noisy in the middle of the night every day? " He is a man in his thirties. He didn't earn much money these years. He wants to do business and has no money. Working for others is either too dirty or too tired. He asked people to find a job all day, and then found that he didn't go for a few days. "

"My house was bought by mortgage. I earn more than 2000 a month in a fast food restaurant. Except for the mortgage of 1000, the rest are expenses and dare not spend money. Children are getting older and parents are getting older. Where do you need money? Look at your big brother. He went to work in a down-to-earth manner. Even if he can't make a fortune, he can support his family with you. Which woman wants to be with such a poor and lazy man? "

I looked at the man, with a black face and a stalk on his neck, and shouted, "Women have a bad life. It's better to look at other men all day. Have the ability to find a divorce ... "

I felt that the more I got involved with them, the more noisy they became, so I went home. My husband is waiting for me on the sofa. Did you ask for advice? I said bitterly, "I won't advise you, it's time to go!" " This kind of man is simply! "

Yes, not everyone was born with a golden key. Being poor is not your original sin, but being poor for too long is your fault.

I often get some messages complaining to me, saying that I was born in poverty, with no skills, no education, and I can't climb out of the bottom of society if I work hard. It's no use trying again. ...

That's not true.

In this era, although there are many legendary counter-attacks who quickly enter the rich class, it is still an eternal truth to get rich through hard work.

There are many relatives in my hometown, and there is no culture or technology. I came to work in the city a few years ago, and I worked hard. Although I earn hard-earned money, the income of blue-collar workers is not low now. In recent years, I have watched them buy cars and houses, and they have a well-off life all the way, and their days are booming.

Poverty and weakness are only temporary absences and reincarnation. As long as you work hard with hope, time will always give you what you want. However, if you just daydream in bed, you just want to think.

In fact, human nature likes ease, but everyone has two ways to go at the beginning of his fate, one is necessary and the other is desirable. You must take a beautiful road before you are qualified to take the road you want to take.

Laziness will make you feel that kind of ease and relaxation, like a powerful magnet, which will take you down. When you feel particularly uncomfortable there, you are already struggling. At that moment, you will taste the eyes of the whole world, including the closest people, and it is difficult for you to win their sympathy!

Fate is so snobbish. When you are powerless, it will knock you down and set foot on the other foot.

And taking the only road, no matter who, will feel particularly heavy.

But when you try to go up day by day, you will feel that your steps will get lighter and lighter, until one day, you feel like you are flying.

At this time, fate will be like a long-lost friend, hold your hand tightly and climb the steps of life one after another.

This summer, Jason Wu became popular with Wolf Warriors 2.

Many people think that he is angry because of luck and opportunity, but why is he so angry among so many people in this world?

I once read an article about the story behind Wolf Warriors 2. After reading it, I felt: If Jason Wu is not on fire, it will be unforgivable.

In a diving operation in Wolf Warriors 2, Jason Wu jumped 26 times and was rescued by lifeguards because of exhaustion.

He filmed the underwater scene for half a month in the first 6 minutes of the film, and the actor spent more than 10 hours in the water every day.

The film is usually finished in three or four months, and thousands of people spent 10 months in the harsh conditions in Africa.

This kind of effort has created this military legend.

Someone asked Jason Wu why Wolf Warriors 2 was so successful, and he said:

Have you ever heard the sound of bullets going through your ears?

I've heard of it;

Do you know what it feels like when a tank runs over you?

I feel it.

When a person is crazy about his dream, he has no reason not to succeed, because as long as he works hard, he will definitely get the highest return in the world.

Now that I have reached the crossroads of my life, I know which way is right, without exception, I know it all.

But I never left. Why?

Because it's so fucking bitter.

In fact, everyone knows what they want and how to get what they want.

But we all failed in the end, because we couldn't stand the pain of this process.

Han Han said: after listening to a lot of truth, it is still not good.

That's what it means, because we are eager to be lazy and playful, and we miss many opportunities to change our destiny.

Choosing to be lazy when working hard is a person's stupidest performance.

Liu Yuanyuan, the second season champion of Super Speaker, was admitted to Peking University from a mountain village.

Stumbling all the way to become the champion of super speaker, she made unimaginable efforts in the process.

In the face of everyone's praise, Li Yuanyuan said:

You have to believe that fate has given you a lower starting point than others, and I hope you will spend your whole life fighting for an absolutely counteroffensive story, instead of standing still and coveting enjoyment.

In the program, even Le Jia, who has always been sharp and calm, was deeply moved by her speech. He said:

No matter what the result is today, you have successfully made many people regret it, and you have unlimited potential.

There is a lazy horse effect in economics:

There are two horses each pulling a truck to deliver goods to their owners. One horse walks fast, the other one walks slowly.

So in order to hurry, the shopkeeper had to move all the goods from the back to the front.

The horse behind smiled happily and said to himself, The horse in front is too stupid to understand the basic truth that the harder you work, the more you lose.

After arriving at the destination, the master thought, since one horse can pull a cart, why should we keep two horses?

Finally, the lazy horse was slaughtered and eaten.

There are many such people in life. They are smart and opportunistic, thinking that they have got a bargain.

But I don't know, he dug a big hole for his future, and once he got into it, he could never escape.

You, me and the young people around us all have a dream that our hearts are higher than the sky:

I hope that one day, I can do nothing and have a successful career.

We never consider giving, we are always lazy, and our days are just muddling along. There is a saying in the TV series "Soldiers Assault": There is still something to be done between thinking and getting.

I don't deny that this is a fast-paced era, and everyone wants to realize their dreams with no effort.

When encountering setbacks, instead of trying to solve them, comfort yourself with Ah Q-style spiritual victory method.

When peers succeed, we only see their glamorous appearance, but we can't see the efforts behind them.

Many people fell asleep in bed when others were struggling to move forward.

There is a saying: I went to Wan Li in my dream last night and woke up in bed. "

It is probably these people who describe their grand dreams with others every day, but they have been standing still.

Because they can't stand suffering, it is difficult for them to persist. Because they want to be lazy and enjoy themselves, they can always find thousands of reasons for not insisting.

If you don't work hard for your dream and always want to be lazy and enjoy it, you will be punished the most severely in the world.

/kloc-When I was 0/5 years old, I found it difficult to swim, so I gave up swimming. 18 years old, meet someone you like and ask you to go swimming, so you have to say I can't.

18 years old, found English difficult and gave up English. At the age of 28, I had a great job that required English, so you have to say I can't.

This passage is true, profound and true. Many opportunities in life are missed because they were lazy before.

In modern times when information is updated rapidly, it is no longer how much knowledge he has mastered that can widen the gap between adults.

It is the ability to absorb new knowledge quickly, and lazy enjoyment will only make the gap between yourself and others bigger.

Lazy people like to stay in their comfort zone, and they will never let themselves suffer because of their dreams.

Everyone has only one life, and we are fully qualified to live the life we want.

But most people are afraid of success and dare not try. How can a person who has never experienced failure be worthy of success?

In a big city like Beishangguang, it is actually very simple to destroy a person.

A quiet and narrow space, a network cable and a takeaway phone are enough.

If you take a good look around, you will find a phenomenon:

Anyone who has achieved something is very diligent, and they even think about their work in a daze.

As the saying goes, young people who don't work hard are sad.

However, how many people can stand the piercing of the hanging beam, and how many people can stand the tempering of digging the wall to borrow light.

Your hard work for your dream will always pay off, and the hardships you have experienced will make you shine one day.

People who are lazy and opportunistic in life will one day lift a rock and drop it on their own feet, so you should work harder while you are young.

Because everyone who is lazy steals a hole for the future now.