What relationship does bosom friend refer to?

A confidant is someone who understands you, a confidant is someone who pities you, and a confidant is someone who loves you. A bosom friend is good to you, unconditionally; A confidant is sincere to you and will not cheat; A bosom friend is good to you and has no purpose; A confidant hurts you, not to take it. Knowing yourself is a very subtle relationship, between love and friendship, then lovers, and then strangers. A bosom friend is when you are in trouble, you can get it off your chest with him, and another person will become your listener. When you are at a loss, you can communicate with him to seek answers and solve mysteries, which can make your mood suddenly clear. When you encounter difficulties, you can get his encouragement and enhance your motivation to move forward in life. 1, a true confidant is to stay with you no matter what happens, and never leave because of the trough of life. The true confidant is not romantic, not husband and wife, but better than husband and wife; Not relatives, just like relatives. A true confidant, like another self, has a heart in his heart and will always give you the best comfort and encouragement. 2, bosom friends, not necessarily husband and wife, can not get along with each other day and night, but heart and heart together, far away, but also close at hand. I miss each other, but I understand each other better than preventing each other's happiness. Understanding is a sentence, but it often takes a lifetime of feelings to explain. That kind of spiritual connection is that you don't say it, he understands it; If you say it, he will know all the secrets in your heart. Of course, he knows everything about you, but don't worry about being ridiculed or rumoured. The best relationship between the opposite sex is to become intimate friends, who can confide in each other and feel like brothers. Both men and women are eager to meet bosom friends, and that kind of spiritual companionship is to know each other better than love. How many people have been looking for a bosom friend all their lives, because they are looking for another self ..... How many people, in the troubles of life, have a heart, but there is nowhere to tell, and there are sad things, but no one understands. Just like a strong man, friends who drink and eat meat get together every day, but no one can understand themselves, and what's more, they take part in accidental amusement. When you are really down and out, no one even helps you. Sometimes, when you say what's on your mind, others will think it's a joke or ignore it. Some people, with sympathy, simply comfort you, in fact, that is perfunctory, just polite. Only the opposite sex confidant, because there are admiration elements, but also emotional * * * sound, which is to help each other learn from each other's strengths and help you find a balance point in life. He knows all the secrets in his heart, and all the secrets in his heart are guessed. You can chat anytime, anywhere, say anything, there is nothing to hide, even a lot of words, it doesn't matter if you blurt them out. Even better, what you say will not be regarded as a joke, but will be listened carefully and give you the most real comfort. All this is what you want. When chatting on WeChat, I will reply in time anytime, anywhere, that is, I am really busy, but I will not neglect anyone. A sincere heart makes my life feel warm. Perhaps, the content of chatting with each other is very simple, just ordinary greetings, or trivial matters of life, but they all feel that they will not be upset. A true confidant of the opposite sex can't be inseparable, but has a heart in mind. "What are you doing?" "How are you?" Make you feel satisfied. A true confidant of the opposite sex is the companion of the soul and another kind of eternity. There may be love, but this kind of love encourages each other, pours out feelings, respects and understands. I don't want to be together all my life because of love. If anyone destroys friendship through the fate of bosom friends, then often even friends can't be made. In fact, distance produces beauty, because we are not far from each other, so we have been appreciating each other, caring for each other and thinking about each other all our lives. That feeling is like a shadow, we meet and know each other. It's just that feelings are getting more and more sincere, regardless of romance, age and distance. When you meet a bosom friend, you should cherish it. Is the most beautiful fate. What is the relationship between bosom friends? Lan Yan's confidant, also known as Toler's confidant, originated in the late 1990s and refers to a male friend who is spiritually independent, spiritually equal to women, and can reach a profound level. Because of the particularity of men and women, it is called a fourth emotion that is divorced from affection, love and friendship. Its semantics are still somewhat ambiguous, sometimes referring to male lovers, but more often referring to men who live near or far away from women and have relationships with lovers and friends. The word "blue confidante" came into being in the late 1990s, and its meaning is still vague. Sometimes it refers to male lovers, but more often it refers to men who live near women or far away and have relationships with lovers and friends. The word "blue confidante" was created through antonym analogy on the basis of the existing "red confidante". Since its birth, language forms have not been completely unified. Some people write "blue confidante", some people write "male confidante", and some people write "blue (male) confidante". The meaning of a bosom friend is to let the other person know himself very well. A woman can tell this man what she can't tell her husband, or she can cry out the injustice that a man has suffered for herself. Because she is a bosom friend, she will think of you, speak for you from your point of view, give you a warm hug when you are hurt, and give you a hug without any passion. Lan Yan's bosom friend is an important friend of women. Even people who have never met before can tell each other's stories on the phone and on the computer. Blue confidante, which is what we usually call "the fourth emotion", is a useful supplement to love and friendship and a new expression of interpersonal feelings. It is an emotion based on rationality and mutual respect, understanding and recognition among subjects. With the deepening of mutual understanding of emotional subjects, mutual admiration and emotional dependence gradually emerge. This dependence comes from people's pursuit of self-knowledge and rational expectation that the subject will be recognized and accepted by the outside world, that is, people's self-questioning of "who am I". With the help of each other, both sides saw themselves and walked into their hearts. Blue confidants are based on mutual cognition, which has more rational elements than love. Their feelings come from their love and appreciation for each other. The nobleness of this kind of feeling lies in that it is not based on sexual life and is not produced to satisfy people's instinctive desires. It is the spark of two spiritual needs, which comes from both sides' yearning for simple and beautiful feelings. Therefore, the fourth emotion is caution about sex. Generally speaking, there are two kinds of blue confidants. The first is that there is no shortage of excellent spiritual love, and both sides have love and asexuality. Both sides of the opposite sex not only keep a proper distance, but also have a high degree of understanding and boredom with each other. They talk about everything and can be called red (blue) confidants in each other's life and work. This spiritual asexual emotion is a platonic love and a sublimation of gender emotion. Usually it only happens to high-quality people, and it requires very high control and rational grasp of both sides' emotions. People who lack a high degree of control and * * * thinking are hard to maintain this kind of affection for love, and it is easy to fall into the second type. Second, falling into the secular world is the unity of lust, love and sex. Both sides of the opposite sex are quietly dedicating their hearts and themselves, pursuing both spiritual beauty and physical pleasure. This "desire" comes from the instinct of human beings and animals, and "love" comes from the sublimation of primitive vitality, which is a real feeling of love. What is the relationship between bosom friends? The best relationship between the opposite sex is to be intimate friends, like brothers and sisters. Both men and women are looking forward to meeting bosom friends. With that kind of soul, they understand each other more deeply than love. Many people have been looking for a bosom friend all their lives, because it is looking for another self ... Some people have worries in their lives, but they have nowhere to tell them, and they are sad, but no one understands them. Just like a tenacious person, he is with his companions who drink and eat meat every day, but no one can understand himself or even play with the world. In the real ups and downs, no one can even lend a helping hand. Sometimes, when you say what you think, others will think it's a joke, or don't analyze it. Some people, with sympathy, simply comfort you, but they are just prevarication and courtesy. Only friends of the opposite sex, due to the factors of admiration and emotional understanding, can complement each other and help you find the balance point in life. He knows all the secrets in his heart unless you tell him, and all the secrets in his heart are guessed. You can talk anytime, anywhere, say anything, there is nothing to hide, even a lot of words, it doesn't matter if you blurt them out. Even better, what you say will not be regarded as a joke, but will be listened carefully and give you the most real comfort. All this is what you want. At the moment of WeChat chat, the real-time reply from the city anytime and anywhere means that you are really busy, but you will not be depressed. A sincere heart makes life warm. Perhaps, the content of chatting with each other is very simple, just a popular greeting, or trivial things in life, but they all think that they will not be anxious. A true bosom friend of the opposite sex can't go hand in hand, but the heart is in the heart, and the moment you never forget is in your heart. Say "What are you doing" and "How are you?" You will feel satisfied. A true bosom friend of the opposite sex is the companion of the soul and another kind of eternity. There may be love, but this kind of love encourages each other, pours out feelings, respects and understands. I don't want to be together in my life because of love. If anyone damages friendship through the fate of a confidant, then often even his accomplices can't do it. In fact, the distance is beautiful, because we are not far from each other, so we have been browsing, caring and remembering each other all our lives. That kind of emotion is inseparable, and we meet and know each other again. It's just that feelings are getting more and more sincere, regardless of romance, time and distance. When you meet a bosom friend, you should cherish it. Is the most beautiful fate.