How to find a topic to chat in love? Chatting skills in love

Speaking of straight men, all brothers will begin to sigh, because in our fixed thinking, straight men in the love world are very unpopular with girls, but can straight men really not get their own love? Actually, this is not the case, because in love, as long as you have the methods and skills.

Even a straight man can still move a girl's heart. Therefore, even if you are straight, it will not affect your pursuit of love. As long as you learn these three ways to chat with girls, you can keep your topics flowing, even upgrade your relationship quickly and even become lovers.

Bian Xiao didn't know how to fall in love before and had a falling out. She was single until she was 27 years old, but fortunately she accidentally read a book that taught people to pick up girls-Zhuge's secret skills of falling in love, which talked about a lot of dry goods. By learning the content, I won two girls in a week. Brothers are highly recommended to have a look. There are e-books on the Internet. You can find them by searching.

First of all, don't feel inferior

Why do straight men always fail to catch up with the girls they like, and why are they always silent when chatting? In fact, the most essential problem is still on yourself-"inferiority complex". I always feel that my value doesn't match that of girls, and I can't compare with girls at all. Even before I started, I thought girls would definitely not like themselves.

Dude, how do you know that girls don't like you before you start acting? Remember a word, as long as she doesn't refuse, you have a chance. Therefore, when a straight man pursues a girl he likes, don't set limits for himself in advance when chatting with her.

Don't give yourself too much pressure. The more you think you don't deserve her, the more limited your thinking will be, and your performance will be terrible in the whole process. Then, if you break all these restrictions on yourself, you will find that you are comfortable in chatting.

Step 2 take the initiative to find a topic

When chatting with girls at first, everyone still belongs to the stranger stage, so at this time, we must take the initiative to open the topic first, so as to communicate and get familiar with each other. With a sense of security, girls are willing to let go of their vigilance.

Then no matter what topic you talk about, you just need to talk about girls. Let the girls talk first. If the girl's reaction to you is not bad at first, then she suddenly becomes less enthusiastic or even cold, which means that this topic may not be her favorite. Just change the subject at the right time. Anyway, remember that no matter what you say, you must guide girls to talk more, so as to make each other's feelings deeper and closer.

3. Reasonable praise

Straight men are too straight to joke with girls when chatting, but you should know that our goal is to become lovers, and a series of operations before becoming lovers are to do a good job, including chatting and dating, and the most important thing in this process is "comfort". If you always talk to girls in a serious tone,

She may think you are polite at first, but as the timeline continues to lengthen, she will think you are rigid and boring, and gradually reduce the frequency of chatting with you. But if you can mobilize the atmosphere, make her feel comfortable chatting with you, especially praise her and give her affirmation, then she will definitely like chatting with you more.

However, the brother remembers that he praised her for her active atmosphere, praised her with reason and refused to lick the dog.

Communication between people is actually a process, so the chat process between boys and girls can be divided into "strangeness, familiarity, ambiguity and lovers", all of which are essential. If brothers want to catch up with their favorite girl, they might as well try the above three methods to make her talk about everything and fall in love with you as soon as possible.