How difficult is it to get married in the countryside?

It is really difficult and a big problem to get married in rural areas now. There are more than 30 million bachelors in China, most of whom are in rural areas. So how difficult is it to get married in rural areas? Let me talk about my personal feelings.

Now there are many boys left in the countryside, but they are not married at the age of trial marriage because they can't find a failed girl. This is related to the early patriarchal thinking, which led to boys in every family, but not enough girls. So today, there are many more boys than girls, so it is conceivable that it is very difficult to get married because there are no girls of school age.

In the countryside for the New Year, there are blind dates. The matchmaker took a dozen boys to a girl's house, then let the girl meet the boys alone, and then choose the boys she likes. Then, a dozen people can only choose one, and the remaining dozen people can only go home and wait for the next blind date.

In rural areas, there are fewer girls. Another reason is that many girls go out to work now, some fall in love directly outside, and don't go home to find someone at all. As a result, there are fewer and fewer girls of marriageable age in a village, and there are none at all.

Another most important issue is the bride price. Now the bride price in rural areas is very serious. There are not only houses, but also buildings, a car and hundreds of thousands of bride price. These are a lot of expenses for many male families. If you can't get the money, you can't find a girl to marry. Who can have such conditions? Anyone can get married, so it seems really difficult to get married in the countryside now.