In a long-distance relationship, is it really because the other person is too busy at work that he doesn’t take the initiative to contact you?

Although love is beautiful, long-distance relationships are full of bitterness and longing. We love each other in our hearts, but we can only express our love to each other in front of a cold screen. You cannot truly feel each other's feelings. You can't know his happiness, anger, sorrow, and joy by looking at his expression. You can only rely on words to infer whether he still has you in his heart.

Distance can produce beauty and longing, and sometimes it can also make the relationship between two people become unfamiliar. For many loving couples, their relationship is not defeated by time, but by distance. Once upon a time, the relationship between two people is lost. The vow of eternal love has become a joke today. The sentence "Wait until I marry you" may make a woman wait hard for an uncertain future, but when the relationship goes off the rails, that promise has become insignificant.

When any relationship faces a breakup, there will be a process. The most obvious one is that it starts with the sudden loss of contact. You think he is busy. Maybe he is busy with others, so he has no time for you. No. He will not bother to communicate with you because of his energy. A man who truly loves you will not let you worry about gains and losses and think randomly all day long. He will care about your feelings and give you enough sense of security. Whether he loves you or not is actually the most real thing about your own feelings.

Xu Ya met Liu Feng in college. The relationship between the two has always been very good. Their high-profile show of affection once made many people envious. Many people thought they could make it to the end. Liu Feng He also said to Xu Ya more than once: Once we graduate and our jobs are stable, I will marry you. This sentence convinced Xu Ya, but what people didn't expect was that the two finally broke up.

After graduating from college, they started a long-distance relationship because of work. The temporary separation did not make them alienated. On the contrary, it made them miss each other even more deeply. They kept talking about each other every day. Life and the interesting things happening around me are like returning to the period of passionate love.

In fact, Xu Ya still felt uneasy in her heart. After all, it was easy to have random thoughts when she was not around. Fortunately, Liu Feng would comfort her every time: After we get over the long-distance relationship, let's get married. Every promise gives Xu Ya new expectations for the future.

But the reality is cruel. The pressure at work also makes the relationship between the two people begin to become unfamiliar. Xu Ya is wronged and will blame Liu Feng for not being with her. When she feels unwell, She could only look at Liu Feng's words of comfort and concern. What she wanted was Liu Feng's company and care. The two began to have conflicts over various trivial matters. Although Liu Feng would always apologize and admit his mistakes afterwards, the recent conflicts were More and more.

Liu Feng no longer takes the initiative to chat with Xu Ya, and no longer cares about her daily life. The previous greetings, good morning and good night all suddenly disappeared during this period. Xu Ya is still full of joy sometimes. They took the initiative to look for him, but every time Liu Feng either took a long time to reply, or his attitude was very perfunctory, and his enthusiasm for Xu Ya also faded a lot. Xu Ya just regarded it as because she was under too much work pressure and had no time to accompany her. And there is something wrong with me that I often get angry with him. I just need to get over it for a while.

After two months like this, Liu Feng's attitude was still cold and perfunctory. Xu Ya finally couldn't stand it anymore and called directly to ask: Do you remember that you have a girlfriend? Does it mean that if I don’t look for you, you won’t take the initiative to look for me?

But before Xu Ya finished speaking, Liu Feng interrupted her and said: Let's break up, I already have someone I like. Xu Ya didn't know how she hung up the phone. The man who said he wanted to marry her countless times finally left her. Soon after, Xu Ya saw Liu Feng's friend circle updated with a photo with another girl. , the two held hands and smiled so sweetly.

Although she couldn't let go for the time being, Xu Ya still chose to let go decisively. Even if she rushed to the other party to vent her dissatisfaction, what would change? It just adds to the worries. Looking back on the sudden lack of contact during that period, it was actually not because he was busy with work, but because he had someone more important to accompany him.

Long-distance relationships are always full of various tests. You can’t see or touch them, and you don’t know the other person’s true thoughts. You can only guess each other’s feelings through words, but when the relationship comes to an end, , sudden no contact is the most straightforward way to break up.