My husband bought a coat for grandpa, and grandpa was not happy to wear it back. I didn't understand until I saw my sister-in-law's circle of friends. what do you think?

There are many left-behind children there, and I was one of them when I was a child. My parents had to go out to work in order to earn money to support their families, so they left me in grandpa's care.

I am the first child in that family, so grandpa loves me very much. On our side, grandpa's generation actually has a very serious feudal idea of preferring sons to daughters, at least other old people in the village do, but grandpa is an exception, treating me like a grandson hurts, so I am particularly happy to meet such a good grandfather and am very attached to him.

I have cousins below. It is said that the palms of the hands are full of meat, but grandpa still loves me the most. He also saved snacks for me first. Maybe it's because my parents have been working outside and spend too little time together, so my relationship with grandpa is relatively close.

Later, I was admitted to a foreign university. On the day I left, grandpa made me my favorite candied tangerine peel and sent me to the village entrance. After getting on the bus, I saw him standing at the entrance of the village for a long time, unwilling to leave. At that time, my tears could not help rushing down, and I saw him wiping his cheeks with his sleeves.

After graduating from college, I stayed in that city to work and met my later husband. He is a local and registered in the city. In fact, I am grateful that he stayed with me despite the opposition of his family. His parents and sister both dislike me, saying that I am from the countryside and my family conditions are not so good. The husband replied, "I don't care about other people's property." Why do I need such good conditions? " ! "

To tell the truth, I was very moved when I saw that he was so kind to me, and I decided that he would never marry in this life.

We had a banquet in our hometown first, but his parents and sister were not used to rural roads, so they didn't follow. On the wedding day, according to the local custom, he and I were going to offer tea to Grandpa and his parents, but somehow we couldn't find Grandpa.

When we were leaving, grandpa hobbled home with a basket on his back. It turned out that he went to the back hill to collect medicine. As soon as I coughed when I was a child, my grandfather went to the back hill to collect medicine for me. He also joked: "My granddaughter sticks to me, and only the medicine I receive can work. Hua tuo is helpless in the world. " Strangely, every time I cough, I just take his herbs, and other cough medicines are not good.

Grandpa's eyes were red and swollen, and he was laughed at by his neighbors for a long time. "Old man, I don't have the heart to marry my granddaughter. Did you secretly go to the back hill and cry? " Grandpa looked up embarrassed by their laughter. I know, it must be like this. So I was very sad at that time.

I often tell my husband about my life with my grandfather when I was a child. He was very moved and said that we would treat him and my parents well in the future.

Once, my husband was going to work near our hometown. I asked him to drop in on my grandfather and buy him some nutrition. He readily promised me. After returning home, I asked him what he bought. He said grandpa likes smoking, so he gave him an expensive cigarette.

Later, I'm going home to visit my relatives, and I'm going to buy a coat for my grandfather. My husband gave it to him voluntarily. The next day, he brought back a coat and asked for 600 yuan.

I took my coat home. It fits my grandfather very well. It's easy for me to ask my husband if the cigarette he bought last time was a cigarette. Grandpa took out a cigarette from the drawer and said that there were too many people to send it, and he hadn't had time to smoke it. Although I don't understand, I still know that cigarettes are cheap. I didn't think much about it either. I thought grandpa made a mistake.

There happened to be a relative's birthday that day, and grandpa wore a coat and went to dinner happily. He was unhappy when he came back. As soon as he got home, he dragged his coat and threw it on the stool. No matter how I asked him, he kept silent.

Later, I accidentally turned to my nephew's circle of friends: "My brother is so funny. A few days ago, he suddenly asked me to buy him an old coat, saying that he would give it to an old man in the countryside and buy something that looked expensive but was actually very cheap. " He found the right person. I bought him one for sixty dollars. As a result, my brother transferred 600 yuan to me. Haha, what a difference. I'm considering whether to make a purchase. "

Strangely enough, the son of a relative happens to work in that clothing wholesale market. He knows exactly which store this coat belongs to and its price. So he told grandpa.

It turns out that all those good things are superficial. In fact, he looked down on my family just as he looked down on theirs.

What filial piety and empathy are actually fake. It seems that your family still loves you very much, so don't expect the other half to be as filial as you.

It's just that I don't know how to face him next.