Examples of how to be confident (two positive examples and one negative example from celebrities)

1. Encourage confidence

Once, he suddenly stopped the rehearsal and said: "This scene is the key to the whole play; if the heroine still performs so poorly, the whole play will be ruined." We can't go any further!" At this time, the whole place was silent, and his eldest sister didn't speak for a long time. Suddenly, she raised her head and said: "Rehearse!" She swept away her previous inferiority complex, shyness and restraint, and acted very confidently and realistically. Stanislavsky said happily: "We have a new performing artist."

2. Napoleon inspired the soldiers

Napoleon was France's first *** The first ruler of the Republic of China, he was the most outstanding statesman and military strategist in French history. The confidence he showed has always been admired by future generations.

Once, a soldier rode a horse to deliver a message to Napoleon. Due to the emergency, the horse ran a long distance and was too fast, so he fell to the ground and died after arriving at Napoleon's camp. After receiving the letter, Napoleon immediately wrote a reply and gave it to the soldier, asking him to ride on his horse and quickly return the letter to the place where it came from.

When the soldier saw the strong war horse and its surprisingly luxurious decoration, he said to Napoleon: "No, general, this is just a mediocre soldier, and he is really not worthy of riding this strong war horse. "

Napoleon replied: "There is nothing in the world that French soldiers do not deserve."

3. Stick to yourself

Seiji Ozawa. Is a world-famous symphony conductor. In a final competition of a world outstanding conductor competition, he conducted the performance according to the score given by the jury, and keenly discovered the discordant sounds.

At first, he thought the band had made a mistake, so he stopped and played again, but it still wasn't right. He thought there was something wrong with the music score. At this time, the composer and the authorities present on the jury insisted that there was absolutely nothing wrong with the score and that he was wrong.

Facing a large number of music masters and authorities, he thought again and again, and finally said loudly and resolutely: "No! The score must be wrong!" As soon as he finished speaking, the judges on the judges' bench immediately stood up. , gave him warm applause and congratulated him on winning the competition.

4. Wang Xiaoya calmly faced his mistakes

Once, during a national lawyer debate competition, Wang Xiaoya went to interview a famous barrister. When she walked up to him, Wang Xiaoya sat down naturally. Unexpectedly, the chair was not placed properly. With a "pop", she sat down on the ground, and the whole audience burst into laughter.

The most disgusting thing was that the barrister she was going to interview didn't reach out to help her. Instead, he laughed next to her, and he laughed the loudest. Wang Xiaoya was really embarrassed at that time. But there is no other way. If you fall, get up by yourself.

She joked: "I fell too badly. I must pay attention to my posture next time I fall." She picked up the station, smiled nonchalantly, and started the interview.

Afterwards, Wang Xiaoya told everyone: "To be confident, sometimes you need to learn to laugh at yourself." In fact, Wang Xiaoya's self-deprecation just showed her self-confidence.

5. Han Yuzhen, who is not confident

Han Yuzhen, my country's early table tennis player, won many domestic matches. Once, when she represented the national team in the World Championships, the night before the game, she was worried about gains and losses and could not bear the psychological pressure. She cut her wrist with a knife, lied that someone had stabbed her and ran away.

As a result, this matter was found out and became a major international scandal. For this reason, the national team expelled her from the team. But in the subsequent domestic competitions, she won again and again. In order to give her a chance, she was called back to the national team.

In a major international competition, the opponent’s Japanese athlete had never beaten her before. At first, Han Yuzhen won two games in a row. After the opponent caught up by a few points in the third game, Han Yuzhen's confidence began to waver, and she lost three games in a row. Foreign media comment: Han Yuzhen lost not in technology, but in confidence.