What is the emotional problem between He Han and Tang Jing in the TV series My First Half Life?

The biggest problem in the relationship between He Han and Tang Jing is that they are uncomfortable.

He Han knew that Tang Jing was satisfied with him for so many years. After so many years, Tang Jing is used to it. He is good at solving other people's problems and constantly tries to solve his own and Tang Jing's problems, but what he didn't expect was that the more problems he solved, the more. Just like a doctor treats a headache and a foot pain, when the head doesn't hurt, he starts with an arm pain, and when the foot doesn't hurt, his stomach hurts. I still don't know what the problem is.

He Han seems to love Tang Jing in action, but her love for Tang Jing is not from the heart, and Tang Jing actually loves He Han from the heart, but she is smart enough to obviously feel that He Han is "missing something" for her. This explains why she did it, because she was very concerned about this "missing thing", so she had to keep encouraging and testing, but He Han really didn't give her what she wanted.

Think about what He Han gave Zijun. He has real feelings and impulses. His attitude towards don is not at all right. What he did to Zijun, if he can unite, is actually what Tang Jing wants.

I believe what she was moved at that time was true. After all, in her opinion, He Han gave up his high-paying and high-quality job and his own resources and status for her. But the pressure she felt was also real, not to mention the truth of the last thing. What He Han showed at that time, seemingly for her sake, reconciled with her, actually drove her to a corner of no way back, forced her to make a choice, and gave their relationship a definite answer.

Because the subtext of He Han is that after all I have done for you, shouldn't you do something for me? Or to put it more deeply, he thought, if you don't promise to make this sacrifice for you, it's too sorry for me.

The most enviable emotional state is natural, but you don't care much about the reciprocal relationship between pay and return, and you won't feel lost and uneasy because the other person can't meet your expectations of pay. It is true that love needs to be managed, but what is needed more may be a heart that does not ask for returns. If you have someone who cares enough, it doesn't matter if you love more.

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