On Jiangge Case: Liu Xin is as antisocial as Chen Shifeng.

Condemning Liu Xin is of little significance.

For Liu Xin, it is very likely that she will not think that she has done anything wrong until she dies.

Because Liu Xin has many antisocial personality traits.

When it comes to antisocial personality, most people may think of the images of high IQ, indifference and cruelty in movies. Therefore, if we say that Chen Shifeng is antisocial, most people may agree.

But Liu Xin is actually more antisocial than Chen Shifeng, and to some extent she is more cruel than Chen Shifeng.

Judging from all kinds of evidence and reactions, Liu Xin entered the house safely and locked the door first, which led to Jiangge's failure to enter and was hacked to death by Chen Shifeng outside. This matter can basically be concluded to be a real hammer.

A demon who is ready to kill with a knife is hateful, but an angel who has the ability and opportunity to protect the victim has not given it protection, so this angel is actually twice as cruel as this demon.

The first and most obvious feature of Liu Xin is that he has no sense of guilt and shame.

If she was afraid based on such a special situation, she did not open the door out of self-protection instinct, which is actually understandable.

But after so long, she still didn't feel any guilt about her behavior and seemed to forget it completely soon. Then this usually shows that this person is really heartless, and she doesn't even have the most basic "compassion".

Followed by a high degree of self-interest.

From beginning to end, all Liu Xin's performances and everything he did were actually just one thing: protecting himself.

When Chen Shifeng came with a knife, she locked Jiangge out to protect herself.

The police investigated her in order to clear up the relationship, and did not cooperate with the police to collect evidence, in order to protect themselves;

Hypocrisy talking to Jiangge's mother is also to protect themselves;

In Liu Xin's world, only herself is the only thing that matters from beginning to end. This is a rule rooted in the bones and subconscious. With this standard, everything can be ignored by her.

The third is no sense of responsibility.

No responsibility and no responsibility are two completely different things. A person who lacks a sense of responsibility may only say that this person is too irresponsible, but a lack of sense of responsibility means that this person may have personality disorder or mental illness.

No sense of responsibility, that is, for this person, in her world, there is no such thing as "responsibility", and this concept is a fart to her. Or even worse than fart, at least fart still smells.

She may not be able to understand the meaning of "responsibility". So it is almost impossible for Liu Xin to think that she is responsible for Jiangge's death, because she may feel that she is not responsible for anything.

The fourth is the injury of conscience.

First of all, Liu Xin's overall indifference and avoidance in this incident;

Secondly, in order to protect herself, she did a second injury to Jiangge's family.

In other words, she didn't realize how her actions hurt others.

Injury not only means that you stab others with a knife, but also includes our own behavior considerations in specific situations.

It's nothing to tell a joke, but it's mean to tell a joke at someone else's funeral;

There is nothing wrong with your happy New Year, but you are happy to make friends while the people involved in your death and other family members are still grieving. This is despicable;

So, I suggest you stop condemning Liu Xin. Because our condemnation is meaningless, it is impossible for a person like Liu Xin to feel ashamed and uncomfortable because of being scolded by so many people.

Don't forget, she personally experienced locking her roommate out to protect herself, listening to the screams of her roommate being hacked to death from beginning to end, and until now there are still people who have any guilt and consciousness. So a few words of condemnation on the internet are not important to her at all.

Moreover, on the internet, it is difficult to maintain the heat of any hot event for a week.

If we don't take advantage of this heat to punish Liu Xin substantially, then once the heat passes, everyone's anger on this matter will disappear, and no one will care about this matter in a few days. By then, everyone's attention will be attracted by other hot events.

I think the best way is to rely on the power of public opinion and call for a more detailed investigation of Liu Xin himself and the Jiangge incident at this time.

Look at what Liu Xin did in this incident. She should be punished legally, and then let her be punished as soon as possible. This may be our real efforts to comfort the spirit of Jiangge.

Don't try to punish a person by condemning him for making him feel guilty and ashamed, but human beings have many psychological defense mechanisms to ensure that they avoid suffering.

Let him go to prison, confiscate his property, let him be known by everyone, especially those around him, let him lose the space to live in this society, and let him not find a job and get married. This may be the truly meaningful punishment.

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Author Feng Xu, psychological counselor.