Your mother doesn’t love you anymore! Why is this the worst joke adults should make with children?

Many adults like to use the phrase "Your mother doesn't love you anymore" when joking with their children. "Are you picked up by your mother from the trash can?" to make jokes. But this is the last joke that adults should make with their children, especially with the opening of the two-child policy. Such jokes can cause great psychological harm to children. It is very likely that children will mistakenly believe that this is true, especially the eldest children in many second-child families. When faced with the arrival of their younger siblings, they often think that their parents give most of their love to their younger siblings. No, Love yourself now. If adults use such jokes with children, it can easily cause psychological harm to the children.

Nowadays, many families are very distressed, and some parents choose not to have a second child to consider their children's mood. Most parents will want to have another child to accompany them after the second-child policy is opened. children. But they don't consider their children's thoughts. Such parents can be said to be very selfish. Many children will resist when their parents give birth to a second child. Because in their perception, their younger siblings will take away their parents' love for them. If parents neglect their eldest child after giving birth to a second child at this time, it will also be very detrimental to the growth of the eldest child.

Even in families without a second child, we can still see this kind of joke, which is very harmful to the children's soul. Many children are more or less cautious when dealing with things on their own. If an adult jokes to the child at this time that your mother doesn't love you anymore, it will undoubtedly cause serious psychological trauma to the child. Because of family planning, many families now have only one child. After the two-child policy is liberalized, these children may feel insecure about their parents. Especially when they are alone enjoying their parents' care, these children often feel uneasy. Because their parents may be very busy with work and have neglected their growth, making such jokes with their children at this time can strengthen their inner thoughts and make them doubt themselves.

I hope that adults will try to make as few such jokes as possible while accompanying their children to grow up, as it will have a great psychological impact on their children. In the process of getting along with their parents, children also need to believe in their parents' love for them. Trust your parents, and at the same time express your filial piety to your parents. The love between parents and children is mutual. On the basis of mutual understanding and trust, we must also respect each other's choices.