Huang Xiaolei: Rejected Du Chun, chased Zhang Wei, married for 38 days, and offended Disney for her daughter.

In the book "Don't lose, don't forget", there is a saying:

Everyone has his own story, and there is unspeakable bitterness behind every story. Some people choose to live in the past, while others boldly embrace the future.

People who are not afraid of life, accept pain and move forward boldly are more likely to get happiness.

Just like Huang Xiaolei.

198 1 year, a premature baby who only stayed in the womb for seven months came into this world.

Mother wanted her daughter to be in bud forever, so she named her Huang Xiaolei.

Huang Xiaolei was lively and active since he was a child, and his personality was vigorous. Even if her parents divorced, she was not too sad. On the contrary, during her foster care, she learned to read people's minds and make people happy.

This childhood without parental care made Huang Xiaolei tough and resolute, fearless in times of trouble, and not afraid of stage fright in front of others.

/kloc-when she was 0/2 years old, Huang Xiaolei was sent to learn dancing, but the teacher saw the girl's talent in acting and suggested that she learn acting in college.

Huang Xiaolei, in full swing, applied for the Beijing Film Academy without thinking. After entering the school, the teacher asked the students to do animal simulation performances;

Huang Xiaolei imitated a little turtle, and his slow behavior successfully caught the teacher's attention.

At the stage of whimsy, the teacher asked for an unforgettable performance. Huang Xiaolei bent down and played with organic fertilizer.

Speaking of this, Huang Xiaolei's strength has been recognized by the teacher, and because of her good Tibetan dance, she has become the first in the performance class and a good student in the teacher's heart.

From then on, whenever a director came to the school to look for an actor, the teacher would be the first to recommend Huang Xiaolei.

The teacher's approval, lively and cheerful personality and generous attitude soon made Huang Xiaolei stand out in the class. At the age of 265,438+0, she performed the first costume drama "Love Collection".

Although he is a supporting role, Huang Xiaolei has a strong interest in the entertainment circle.

In the second year of her debut, she played "Silly Aunt" in The Legend of the Condor Heroes starring Zhou Xun and Li. This is an image-damaging role that a young girl who loves beauty is unwilling to play.

However, Huang Xiaolei, who has no idol burden and fearless image, is very devoted to the interpretation of "Silly Aunt".

It is this positive attitude that makes Huang Xiaolei a hot spot for this role.

In The Condor Heroes, Huang Xiaolei continued to play the role of "silly aunt", and in the third part of Ji Xiaolan with iron teeth and copper teeth, he played a crazy thinking.

Three consecutive silly roles made the director and audience remember this generous girl successfully, thus gaining more performance opportunities.

In those years, Huang Xiaolei was far away from all kinds of supporting roles, and his acting career was flourishing.

But naturally noisy, she was not satisfied with this and set foot in other fields.

After thinking that the hosting industry was good, Huang Xiaolei plunged into the variety show, hosting anhui tv's Super Winner and Tianjin Satellite TV's Variety 18th Street successively.

Feeling that singing was exciting, she prepared a nursery rhyme to interview the record company. After some tossing, she also became a singer and tried pop, bel canto, rock, hip-hop and rap.

When she didn't want to mix in the circle, she also worked as a teacher, a dance teacher, a line teacher and a performance teacher, but unfortunately they were all unsuccessful.

Huang Xiaolei, who is naturally noisy, explained with his own experience that life lies in tossing.

Emotionally, Huang Xiaolei is also eager to talk about a vigorous love, but the result is too generous, and everyone around him has become buddies.

When she was in college, Du Chun liked Huang Xiaolei very much, and once asked her to make a confession on the playground.

Huang Xiaolei couldn't refuse clearly, so he directly dragged him to run on the playground. After running, he said, "We will be good friends in the future."

Du Chun was heartbroken. He got as drunk as a fiddler that night and slept in the dormitory corridor, which provoked a burst of jokes from his classmates.

Later, after entering the entertainment circle, Huang Xiaolei turned his attention to Zhang Wei.

It's not how much she likes Zhang Wei, but that her mother likes this boy with high emotional intelligence and regards him as a son-in-law standard.

At the urging of her mother, Huang Xiaolei approached Zhang Wei, sent flowers and invited her to dinner, which was very considerate.

Finally, one day, Huang Xiaolei seized the opportunity to confess:

This words say, Huang Xiaolei's fighting spirit was ignited again. In order to catch up with Zhang Wei, she studied English for several years and kept in touch.

Many things happen. Zhang Wei saw Huang Xiaolei's efforts and took the initiative to ask her out.

Just when Huang Xiaolei thought that love was about to sprout, Zhang Wei had no idea at all, just wanted to talk to her about work.

Knowing that there was no chance, Huang Xiaolei stopped asking for trouble and gave up his pursuit.

After that, Huang Xiaolei began to choose suitable objects from the men around her, but all she could find were: some were married, some regarded her as a buddy, and there was no spark of love at all.

In desperation, Huang Xiaolei started dating, dating frequently.

On a blind date, Huang Xiaolei met a man named Liu Lei.

This man is a foreigner, engaged in the financial industry, and they have known each other for 38 days before getting the license.

After getting the certificate, they hurried to prepare for the wedding. Finally, from 2065438 to July 2004, Zhang Guoli, as a witness, and Liu Lei happily held a romantic and beautiful wedding.

Only four months after the wedding, Huang Xiaolei gave birth to a daughter.

Huang Xiaolei has been in high spirits since she became a mother, but she devoted more time and energy to her family.

There are few plays, and I'm not in a hurry to toss. I changed from a noisy girl to a mature woman.

Huang Xiaolei, who struggled alone in the first half of her life, finally felt protected in the besieged city of marriage, and when she became a mother, she had a person who wanted to protect more, that is, her daughter.

20 17 in may, Huang Xiaolei took her daughter to visit Disney. When my daughter wanted to play the project "Seven Dwarfs", the staff said that her daughter could not meet the height requirements and was not allowed to play for safety reasons.

This move directly touched Huang Xiaolei's temper switch. The next day, she sent a long letter accusing the Disney staff of deliberately making things difficult.

The staff also responded quickly, pointing out that Huang Xiaolei was entangled in it because of safety considerations, and refused to play because he could not meet the height requirements;

Huang Xiaolei not only didn't understand, but scratched the staff and disturbed the order of the meeting, demanding an apology for this behavior.

The two sides held their own words, which triggered a heated discussion among netizens. Some people think Huang Xiaolei is too picky, while others think there is something wrong with the attitude of employees.

In the end, Disney blacklisted Huang Xiaolei and Huang Xiaolei sent a long letter of apology.

For the first time in her life, Huang Xiaolei paid for her impulse, but her original intention was for the children.

Sending a long article is to protect the rights of children, and apologizing is not to put the daughter under the pressure of public opinion.

Sure enough, children are always the weakness of mothers.

Huang Xiaolei, who grew up in a single-parent family, knew the importance of parents to her children, so she put away her sharpness, learned to be gentle, put down her restless heart, and went back to her family to find the role of mother, which was more important.

Looking back on the first half of Huang Xiaolei's life, she was not born at the end, but lived her own value with a bold attitude.

In childhood, she put away her tears and learned to be strong; During her work, she concealed her cowardice and went forward bravely; Emotionally, she knows how to stop loss in time and cherish what she loves.

Mother named Huang Xiaolei because she wanted to be in bud like a small bud. Therefore, for 40 years, she never bloomed brilliantly, but never withered.

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