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My children don't say anything when they meet and stay alone quietly. What should I do?

Introduction: Many parents feel helpless when educating their children, because children are usually unwilling to communicate with their parents, which may be caused by their personality. If children like to say nothing and stay alone when they encounter some difficulties or are very sad, then parents must not disturb their children rashly, which is likely to cause greater emotional fluctuations.

First, don't disturb the children. Many children adjust their emotions by thinking alone or digesting their negative emotions. If parents come to disturb their children at this time, they may feel annoyed and disgusted. Therefore, when children miss someone, parents must not disturb them or force them to do things they don't want to do. At this time, it is likely to cause their mood swings.

Second, strengthen communication with children at ordinary times. If parents want to know more about their children, they should strengthen communication with their children in peacetime, instead of communicating with their children after they have problems. At this time, the child may not want to communicate with anyone. Usually, parents can often chat with their children, exchange studies with their children, or talk about their work, instilling some optimistic and positive outlook on life in their children, which is helpful for their future growth, instead of ignoring their children at ordinary times and educating them after problems, which is likely to be counterproductive.

Third, get used to the way children vent their emotions. Many people have their own ways to vent their emotions. Some people will vent their emotions by making a scene or crying and throwing things, while others will use extreme language to vent their emotions. Parents should get used to the way their children vent their emotions. Maybe children prefer to be alone to digest their negative emotions. After their emotions are digested, they may become positive and sunny, so parents need not worry too much.