"After eight years of marriage, can't you treat him as your own son?" What if I suddenly find out that the baby is not yours?

I saw such a question on the Internet: What would you do if one day you suddenly found out that your child is not yours?

Of course, this problem is naturally the problem of most married men.

But a strange question is that most of the answers are answered by the hypothetical person of this question.

In other words: many people assume this question, but there are few real cases.

And there is another strange thing: most of the favorable answers are "transferring property". First of all, this is a hypothetical answer, and secondly, this answer can't help but make me a little uncomfortable.

Why has money become the god of the world? Shouldn't the first time be asking about the situation? Of course, this practice is understandable and correct.

The son is not his own. This question is essentially about whether women's infidelity should be punished.

However, for the Chen family, it is not a hypothetical question. He experienced such an event personally and was at a loss.

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Mr. Chen and Ms. Zhang are high school classmates. As early as high school, Mr. Chen adored Ms. Zhang and launched a fierce offensive against her.

In the face of Mr. Chen's courtship, Miss Zhang nominally did not agree or refuse. She always accepts gifts from teacher Chen, and sometimes asks her out to play, and Miss Zhang won't refuse.

However, the relationship between the two has been at the stage where the paper has not been punctured, which makes Mr. Chen very helpless.

In his eyes, although Miss Zhang promised him to go out to play every time, once Mr. Chen did anything out of line, Miss Zhang became very angry and even ignored him for several days.

This allowed Mr. Chen to maintain this hazy relationship with Miss Zhang within three years.

When I arrived at the university, I went to different schools because of different grades, and Teacher Chen gradually let go of this relationship.

But when she returned to her hometown, Miss Zhang asked Mr. Chen to have another dream.

This makes Mr. Chen very entangled. Do you want to restore that relationship with Miss Zhang?

Just when Mr. Chen hesitated, Miss Zhang began to chat with Mr. Chen intentionally or unintentionally, and even made it clear that she was lonely.

In order not to repeat the previous state, Mr. Chen asked Miss Zhang to publicly admit that she was his girlfriend. In order not to lose Mr. Chen, Miss Zhang had to agree that the two were together under such long-lost feelings.

02、

Mr. Chen was very happy after he got his first girlfriend.

But it didn't last long. After the enthusiasm of the previous two days, Miss Zhang stopped responding to everything.

Mr. Chen looked for Miss Zhang on WeChat several times and didn't reply. It took a day or two, or even several days, for Miss Zhang to reply to his message, which made Mr. Chen very sad.

It was not until three months later that he finally couldn't stand Miss Zhang's cold violence and broke up.

I thought Miss Zhang would stay, and even a little regret made Mr. Chen more comfortable.

However, Miss Zhang did not stay, but decisively deleted Mr. Chen's WeChat, just like deleting a stranger.

Desperate teacher Chen never had close communication with female friends during her college years. He didn't find a girlfriend until he graduated from college.

Two years after graduation, Mr. Chen's work gradually improved, but his parents began to worry about his marriage.

Mr. Chen's requirements are not high, and he knows that he is not so lucky, so he let love come to him and simply listened to his parents' arrangements and went on a blind date.

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However, what Mr. Chen didn't expect was that his first blind date was Miss Zhang.

When they met again for the first time, both of them lamented how time flies. Of course, Mr. Chen is very happy. Even on a blind date, he can meet his first girlfriend, which is the fate given to him by God.

Over the years, Miss Zhang has gradually become mature and intellectual. She is no longer the girl who treats feelings casually.

She told Mr. Chen that she regretted breaking up with him very much. She always thinks that Mr. Chen is a good man.

The two rekindled their old feelings under their own fantasies and entered the marriage hall.

After two months of marriage, the hospital found out that Miss Zhang was pregnant, and Mr. Chen and his parents were very happy.

After their son was born, their marriage became happier and they raised their son together.

However, when my son was eight years old, a blood test found that his son and his blood type did not match at all.

Miss Zhang is type O, Mr. Chen is type A, but their son is type B. God, this joke is so big that Mr. Chen doesn't know what to do.

Mr. Chen looked at his son and thought about everything before Miss Zhang and herself got married. He suddenly understood why Miss Zhang was in such a hurry to get married. It turned out to be a tape wedding.

This has greatly hurt Mr. Chen's self-esteem.

On the way home, he was suddenly very mean to his son, and even lost his temper for no reason. The son doesn't understand why his father suddenly changed his mind. Only Mr. Chen knows his helplessness.

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When he got home, Mr. Chen began to question Miss Zhang's son and said to Miss Zhang, "Whose son is it?"

At first, Miss Zhang played the fool. Later, when she saw that the paper could not hold fire, she confessed directly, and even said something that made Teacher Chen speechless.

Miss Zhang said, "We have been married for eight years. Can't you treat him as your own son? "

After this sentence came out, Mr. Chen was completely angry and very chilling. He doesn't understand why Ms. Zhang cheated him.

Finally, they quarreled, and Mr. Chen's parents became even more angry and went to the hospital.

The family was frightened at once, because of this hospital laboratory sheet, and even caused a quarrel between relatives of both sides.

In the end, there was no quarrel, so we had to discuss divorce.

It can be seen from this story that Mr. Chen got married hastily because he loved Miss Zhang, which led to his being cheated. Because feelings blinded his eyes, he ignored the deception that Miss Zhang had deceived him.

Later, because Mr. Chen loved Miss Zhang, he was patient everywhere. Mr. Zhang is still full of confidence after learning the truth, which shows Mr. Chen's love and concession to Miss Zhang in his marriage life.

Miss Zhang has always regarded Mr. Chen as a spare tire, enjoying Mr. Chen's kindness to her without paying her feelings.

Miss Zhang also arranged the blind date. She found out about Mr. Chen. At this time, only Mr. Chen will want him.

If you can't marry the person you like, cheat someone who likes you to marry. This is obviously Miss Zhang's conspiracy.

In essence, it is a story about a woman cheating money and feelings.

Now more and more people are beginning to cheat their feelings. Feelings are not as tangible as money, so you can file a case, so management depends more on the moral sense in everyone's heart.

Back to the question of the netizen above, what should you do if you find that your son is not yours?