Classic Quotations: You don't have to explore people, but you complain more when you explore them.

Guide: Many people always regard their friends as glass, and they are afraid of breaking them carefully. Sometimes you are obviously dissatisfied with your friends, but you dare not express it, for fear of conflict and hurting your feelings. Real friends are not made of glass. If friends are really like glass, you are not allowed to touch them. If such friends are broken, they will be broken.

1. A person's life is neither so good nor so bad as imagined. Behind everyone, there will be sadness and unspeakable difficulties. Everyone will have their own tears to wipe and their own way to go. Just remember to add a coat to yourself when you are cold; Buy yourself a loaf of bread when you are hungry, and give yourself strength when you are hurt; If you fail, give yourself a goal. If you fall down, get up in pain. Give yourself a tolerant smile and move on, and be your truest self.

2. Don't ask others by your own standards, and don't look at people with colored glasses. Because everyone has his own preferences, personality and value. What you don't like is not necessarily bad. There are thousands of understandings of happiness, and everyone has different interpretations. The greatest happiness in life is being yourself. Believe in yourself, follow your heart and intuition, don't blindly follow the creed, and don't blindly compare with others. You are the happiest. Gold is not barefoot, no one is perfect, because we are not perfect, we are the truest.

3. Happiness is accumulated bit by bit and managed day by day. Don't hurt the person who likes you, and don't let the person you like get hurt. No matter how good a person is, but he doesn't want to accompany you to the old age, then he is a passer-by. No matter how many shortcomings a person has, he can tolerate you everywhere and be willing to accompany you to the end, which is happiness. Everyone wants to find a perfect lover, but there are always shortcomings. Love is mutual tolerance, mutual sincerity, and a lifetime. The goal of life is to have someone who will make you happy all your life.

4. When all possession and persistence become a kind of injury, giving up is the best destination. Who can understand who's suffering; Who can understand who's pain, tears, not hanging on whose face, who does not know its cold; The injury is not in anyone's body, and no one knows its weight. Perhaps, you can see the tears in your eyes, but you may not be able to understand the sadness in your heart. Perhaps, you can see the scars on your body, but you may not be able to understand the sadness in your heart. Turn around and leave before you cry, leaving a gorgeous back and let your heart go easily.

5. When you meet more people, you will know the value of friendship. You will know the value of understanding when you encounter many things. If you fail more, you will know the value of your mentality. You will know the value of courage if you succeed more. If there are many contradictions, you will know the value of your mind. If you don't like it much, you will know the value of cultivation. You don't know the value of sincerity until you compliment more. Only when you have more fame and fortune can you know the value of calmness. You don't know the value of purity until you have more entertainment. How many greetings do you know the value of persistence!

6. When I was young, I didn't understand; In middle age, I can't bear it; Some things are boring when you have them completely; Some things are precious only when you lose them forever. Life is too short to stop what you want, and you can't keep what you want. Between gains and losses, as long as you have cultivated, sown and watered, how much you have gained is not the only criterion for success or failure. What is important is the painful and unforgettable experience that you have hidden in the details.

7. Life is like a door. Some people are pessimistic about the darkness inside, while others are optimistic about the tranquility inside. Some people are worried about the wind and rain outside the door, while others are happy with the freedom outside the door. In fact, many things in life are not the best, as long as you think they are worth it. Success and failure, happiness and misfortune will have different definitions in their own minds. The key is how to grasp what you want, don't let it pass you by, and don't let yourself have too many regrets. People live in a state of mind and mood. Keeping a good state of mind makes life a happy paradise.

8. Friends with deep feelings and deep kindness, far apart, will gradually fade away. This is the way things are in the world. Many familiar people fade away if you don't take care of them. Many familiar things fade away if you don't remember them. It's not that our hearts have changed, nor that we no longer treat each other as friends. It's just that we are far away, and we can't enjoy our joys and sorrows. The wind of years can not only dilute the feelings in your heart and mine, but also cool the righteousness in yours and mine. The hand of time can not only blur me in your eyes, but also dilute you in my heart. If you don't walk on a familiar road, you will be unfamiliar. This is life.

9. It often takes years or decades to make a friend; It may only take a few minutes or one thing to offend a friend. The worldly glitz, the complexity of people's hearts and the sensitivity to some small things have all hindered the development of friendship. Perhaps it is only because we are friends that we have less worries and respect for each other. Sometimes friends get too close, the relationship will become complicated, too far away, and we will lose contact. Don't insist on friendship, cherish and care for a friendship with your heart. Even if it won't last forever, at least it used to be.

1. What makes women forget is feelings, and what makes men forget is feelings. Feelings slowly precipitate over time, and feelings gradually disappear over time. Maybe you can get love, marriage and a superior life; But if you don't feel safe, what's the use of everything? It is better to live in a stable poverty than to live in fear of abundance. Happiness is not trying to love, but living with peace of mind.

11. "Know" is the most affectionate and profound word in the emotional world. Knowing is to use my eyes to soothe your sadness; To know is to compare my heart with yours; To know is to listen to the voice of your soul without words; Knowing is that you will always be in my eyes, and knowing is to love as much as I can. A sentence of "I know you" can melt an iceberg, make a desperate situation climb the vine of love, and make a withered heart full of flowers. Because only by "knowing" can we be calm and relaxed. If you know, please cherish it.

12. If you pull the bow of life too much, people will be tired, and those who are dissatisfied will fall behind. People who regard life as a journey will always encounter scenery, which is light and far away; And those who regard life as a battlefield will always encounter struggles, which are exciting and fierce. Life is like this. You will meet whatever you choose. There is no right or wrong, only bear it or not. Learn to let go of things that make you unhappy, and learn to let go of people who make you humble. As long as there is tomorrow, today will always be the starting point.

13. People have four pains: First, they cannot see through. I can't see through the entanglement in interpersonal relationships, the hidden injury after the struggle, the dullness in the hustle and bustle and the tranquility after the prosperity. The second is reluctant. I can't bear the wonderful and untimely years, and I can't bear the vanity and applause when I was high. Third, I can't afford to lose. Can't afford to lose a period of emotional loss, can't afford to lose a piece of life. Fourth, I can't let it go. I can't let go of people and things that have gone far, and I can't let go of the right and wrong that have long been dusty.

14. You don't have to explore people, but if you explore them, you will complain more. You don't have to finish what you say, but you have no friends when you finish what you say. There is no need to be harsh on others, and being harsh is far away. You don't have to be humble to respect others, and being humble is less bone. People don't have to retreat, and it is difficult to retreat. Feel the deception of others, not angry at words; Being insulted by others, not moving in color; Examine people's mistakes and don't praise them; The benefits of giving others are not remembered; Be grateful to others, remember in your heart; Do what is difficult, be strong and lifeless, and those who are in trouble should know without saying anything.

15. Life is the accumulation of bitterness and joy, and there is joy in bitterness. Life is the gathering of sadness and joy, and there is joy in sadness. In ordinary days, we all have our own worries, and in ordinary life, we all have our own trajectories. Whether we are happy or sad, we are planning our own future and exploring our own future. On the road of life, not every sunny day warms people, not every cloud rains, and we can't control the direction of our destiny, only we can walk through every day calmly.

16, don't live in your own world, blindly arrogant; You don't have to live in other people's world and lose yourself. The sun will not rise tomorrow because of your disappointment; The moon won't stop setting tonight because of your complaints. Even if you blindfold yourself, it doesn't mean that the world is dark; Even if you blindfold others, it doesn't mean that Guangming belongs to you. Don't take yourself too seriously to ignore the achievements of external factors; Don't take yourself so lightly that you become a pedal for others. Live in the present, live yourself, live with your heart, and keep yourself.

17, don't cry poor, because no one will give you money. Don't shout tired, because no one will help you. Don't give up, because no one wants you to win. Don't rely on others, because only you are the most reliable. Don't cry, because everyone is waiting for a joke. Don't beg, because some people want you to be a beggar. Don't be down and out, because a bunch of people are waiting to hit people when they are down. Don't look back, because things are terrible. Don't be sad, because you will only frown but go to your heart. Don't bow your head, because there is no gold on the ground, only stones. Don't force it, because the twisted melon is not sweet.

18. Life is a journey. From the day you put on your first pair of shoes, you are doomed to a bumpy and extraordinary life. There are too many uncertainties in the road we are going to take. A word of advice from others, a flash of thought from ourselves, and occasional gains and losses will change the direction of fate. You never know, you don't have to be too persistent when you encounter something, so why bother with someone, a moment or something? Instead of showing people with a down-and-out face, it is better to replace it with a fresh and clear image, which will make people trust and get more opportunities for growth. Changing a mentality can change a way of life.

19. After a certain period of life, the rhythm of life has smoothed away sharp edges and corners, the passion for dancing has gradually subsided, and sad eyes have begun to understand life. Life is like a wandering, only when you wander can you know the beauty of stability; I didn't know the original beauty until I experienced it. Sometimes I want to stay away, but after a while, I find that I have returned to the original point. Sometimes I want to turn around, but after turning around, I find that there is no way to go behind me.

2. It's a level when speaking, and it's a kind of cleverness when being dumb. Doing what you should do is a kind of ability, and retiring when you should do it is a kind of cultivation. It is a kind of wisdom to show when it is obvious, and it is a kind of talent when it is hidden. The roar is a kind of dignity, and the slip is a kind of strategy. Flexibility is a kind of maturity, and eating and sleeping peacefully is a kind of temperament. As the saying goes: "You can't have the heart to harm others, but you can't have the heart to prevent others." This shows a simple truth: to be a man, you must have a little calculation. "calculating" is not a trick or sophistication, but a kind of wisdom and strategy for being a man. With it, you will be able to meet your needs, be comfortable and be invincible forever.

21. In front of some people, the closer you are, the more you show concern, which will ignite their arrogance and indifference, and the more worthless you will be; In front of some things, the more you want to solve them, the more urgent you are, which will often backfire, and the more urgent you are, the worse it will be. When dealing with people, be calm and right. You don't have to lose your character to please others, nor lose your pleasure to be a man for the sake of fame and fortune. Don't give up easily what belongs to you, pursue blindly what you have no chance of, live up to the sky and look down on others.

22. The same thing will have different results from different angles. Doing the same thing with different attitudes will have different results. Sometimes, the difference is not the thing itself, but people's mentality and way of doing things. Hating someone, the advantages will be regarded as camouflage, and liking someone, the disadvantages will become beautiful. No one is perfect, we should also think about our own shortcomings while asking others. Don't be in a hurry to express yourself, and don't be in a hurry to correct others. Listen again, look again and ponder again.

23. There are many misfortunes in the world, all of which occur in the process of being eager to prove themselves to others. There is nothing wrong with "proving yourself". What is wrong is that many people are just struggling to "prove themselves to others". Life is your own, and you don't have to frame your own life by other people's standards. If you want to please everyone and meet everyone's standards, you will eventually lose yourself. Trying to make everyone like you is futile and irresponsible to yourself. Don't get lost in other people's comments, just listen to your inner voice and be yourself.

24. Many times, we always hope to get the good of others. I will be grateful at first, but it will become a habit after a long time. If I get used to a person's kindness to you, I will take it for granted. One day when others are not nice to you, you will have resentment. In fact, it is not that others are not nice, but that our initial requirements have changed, and we are always used to getting it, but we forget to be grateful. Only by living with gratitude can you feel the beauty of life.

25, the most exhausting thing is often not the distance of the road, but the depression in your heart; The most decadent thing is often not the bumpy future, but the loss of your self-confidence; The most painful thing is often not the misfortune of life, but the disillusionment of your hopes; The most desperate thing is often not the blow of setbacks, but the death of your heart; Therefore, we should look down on everything, let our hearts go a little, and everything will get better gradually

26. Only when we taste the pain can we cherish the happiness that we have neglected; Only when you appreciate the ordinary will you collect the happiness that was discarded at the beginning. Without pain, the feast of life will be dull; Without the ordinary, the picture of life will be shallow. It's no use complaining, whether you laugh or cry, no one will listen to you; Fantasy is useless, whether you go or stop, what we have to face is bloody cruelty in reality.

27. Some things are destined to be stories, some people are destined to be old friends, and some roads are destined to be taken alone. Some people, some things, broke into life, gained, lost, yesterday's sadness, today's happiness, joys and sorrows should be remembered. When all this becomes a memory, what will be left in our memory? A lot of things have passed, and many people have left and experienced more, so their hearts will be strong and their roads will be solid.

28. Most people, most of the time, can only rely on themselves. I don't have any background, I haven't met any noble people, and I haven't attended any good schools. These don't matter. The key is which way you are determined to go, what kind of person you want to be, and how you are prepared to take a hand in your laziness. Go forward, believe in your dreams and stick to them. Only in this way can you have a chance to prove yourself and find the dignity you want.

29. Before I met you, I thought that love was earth-shattering, and love was vigorous and lingering. I thought that love is soul-stirring, and love is full of blood and happiness; I thought love was suffocating madness, and love was hot coals. Married life hand in hand through ups and downs, warmth and hardship, I began to understand that love can stand the dull fleeting time.

3. If you don't give up, it will be over on the spot. If you don't cry, you will only provoke others to sympathize with you. When you want to cry, laugh; Don't resent, don't compare yourself with others, no matter how small, pursue your ideal happiness; Don't be angry, don't be angry with others. Now my life is all my own responsibility.

Editor's note: People's sufferings in their lifetime and when they were young are just a springboard. The most difficult thing for people on the springboard is the struggle and helplessness in their hearts before jumping off. I hope all the burdens will be turned into gifts, and the suffering will light up the road of confusion in the future. You don't have to explore all the people you know, but you are suspicious if you explore all the people

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