Some people talk too much and it's just a joke.

There's nothing you can do about it. Empathy is not something everyone can do. If you want to share, it is very important to find the right person. If you just want to talk to someone, you are telling a story. What's more, you haven't experienced it. Isn't it a story to listen to others' stories? Be a joke, that is, the object you choose is not good. When the story is normal, it is too mean to be a joke.