Children don't like to "stink" in kindergarten.

I saw the above questions on the internet these two days and read some answers. I think every child is different, but the result should be similar. Let me share Simon's performance.

Simon always lets us go out first when he goes to the bathroom at home. If he wants to pull it out, he will say, pull it out, I pull it out badly. Besides, if we adults use the toilet inside when he wants to take a shit, he will wait a while before going in. I said, aren't you in a hurry Why don't you go in and use the toilet? He said he was afraid of bad smell.

Simon has been in kindergarten for over two years. Usually he has to solve it at home before going to school in the morning. Sometimes he doesn't solve it at home in the morning and will come back at night to stink. We will ask him why he doesn't stink at school. He will say that he wants to have a stinking desire. I don't think it's possible, so I asked him if he was holding back. He doesn't feel bad. Sometimes I really worry that he will suppress himself.

I once had a parent-teacher meeting and took the opportunity to go to the bathroom in my class. There is a small toilet in the toilet of my class, but it is not independent. Girls can go, so can boys. When urinating, boys use urinals and girls use toilets.

Combined with his school situation and his usual performance at home, I guess he doesn't want to stink at school, just like when we were young:

1. I don't like the stink.

He thinks it is not a good thing that he stinks, because it will stink to others, so he is a little disgusted.

2. Afraid of others laughing at him

There is no separate toilet in the school environment, and every child can use a small toilet. But boys see more girls sitting on the pony barrel to pee. Are they embarrassed to sit on the pony barrel and stink because they are afraid of jokes?

Step 3 feel ashamed

We usually wipe his ass after going to the bathroom at home. For them, shit belongs to their privacy.

In their hearts, only close people can know that they have to pee and poop to wipe their ass. Is he embarrassed to admit that the teacher wiped his ass? Later, we asked the teacher. The teacher said that the middle class taught the children to wipe their own bottoms, but Simon didn't want to.

Looking back on primary school when I was a child (I can only remember the situation when I lived in primary school), I was very reluctant to shit at school, and I would only endure it if I really couldn't hold it back.

At that time, I didn't want to go to school There are probably these points:

1. The environment is poor and the taste is strong.

At that time, the toilet in the school was not as advanced as the toilet now, and it smelled very strong;

2. Pay more attention to your privacy

At that time, there was no door in the school toilet, and others could see it when they went to the toilet. Sometimes I'm embarrassed.

3. Psychological reasons

There is a long pit under the school toilet, and each pit is connected. I'm afraid I'll fall down accidentally.

I wonder if other parents were like this when they were young. I was the same when I was young. Maybe this is a kind of inheritance! When I am older, I am used to going to school, and the reluctance to take a large size at school is gradually decreasing. Parents don't have to worry too much, just let their children get used to it!