My wife wants a divorce to save her life (chatting in the process of saving her life)

What is the most hurtful thing in chatting? Maybe it's your choice of words, but he just replied coldly, "hmm, oh, okay."

Getting along with the opposite sex, being able to talk and chatting, is simply a world of difference. If you don't master it well, you will probably talk to death or be accosted. I finally found the topic, but the other party hasn't responded yet, and I can't find the other party's interest. Minutes are very worrying.

Have you ever met a situation where you thought you were having a good chat with the other person, but in fact the other person didn't want to talk to you for a long time?

The reason is that you stepped on a bomb in the chat:

Girls are often nervous and sensitive when chatting with people they like. No matter what the other person says, reply "mm-hmm", "oh" and "haha".

Your reply will make the other person feel bored and lose the desire to chat with you in an instant. Maybe it's because girls are shy, but the other person will directly think you are perfunctory.

When two people are not very familiar with each other, it is impossible to inspire each other's sympathy.

If you pretend to be weak and pathetic with each other and hope that they care about you, it is a big mistake. This will only make men think you are melodramatic.

For example, when you meet for the first time, you can walk to a place within a few steps. You said you were scared and hoped that the other party would pick you up. Now the boys will think it is completely unnecessary, but they think you are a bad girl.

When we chat with each other, we all hope that the other party can reply to the message in time and hope that this chat can remain smooth.

If we are suddenly busy with other things in the process of chatting, it is easy to make the other party feel very lost and make the other party feel that you don't take the other party seriously.

The use of Yan characters in the process of chatting is skillful, and when to use them and when not to use them is very particular.

When the chat atmosphere is awkward, we can use an expression pack to ease the atmosphere at that time.

But if the other person is telling you something seriously, you can't use the expression pack at this time, otherwise it will appear perfunctory.

Because the expression pack is not a real response, this does not allow you to continue to extend this topic. Therefore, after the expression pack, it is best to add words and give the other party a topic to continue.

Learn to keep looking for topics from the chat process, such as "I went to the movies with my friends today." Some people may reply "hmm" and "haha" when they see this sentence, and they will be embarrassed by your reply.

At this time, we can expand the keyword "movie" to reply, such as "which movie did you see today?" "What's the story in the movie?" So we can extend the topic.

For example, on the topic of eating, don't ask him if he is delicious, you can ask him what kind of food he likes. At this time, he is answering your question under a kind of thinking, not replying whether it is delicious or not.

Praise the other person appropriately, thus increasing the other person's desire to continue chatting.

When the other person tells a story that he is very proud of, we should give him some feedback and praise.

If your relationship is not very close, praise can make your relationship develop faster.

Praising each other with a sincere attitude can not only show your self-cultivation and friendliness, but also win each other's goodwill, make them feel recognized, and think that something in your heart resonates with you.

Many times, everyone has more opportunities to chat online than in reality, but everyone ignores the small detail that brings them closer: praise.

Praising each other's circle of friends every day can increase the feelings of both sides.

Some people will choose to use the voice bar, but if you distinguish between time and place.

When you want to send a voice to the other party, you should consider what the other party is doing and whether it is inconvenient. If the other party is inconvenient and you still send a voice, then it is normal for the other party not to reply to you.

Few boys don't like playing games. If you use "game" as a topic to start chatting, and it happens that you have played the same game, the natural chat will continue.

Everyone can't live without mobile phones and computers. Movies and music are the main ways for modern people to relax. You can talk about your favorite movies and music and ask him to recommend some songs, which can quickly enliven the atmosphere.

If there is delicious food in our city, I believe many people will be interested. Send some food photos when necessary.

The charm of language is that it can comfort you when you are lost, give you courage when you are lost, and give you direction when you are confused.