I went to my boyfriend's house for the first time and cooked in person. When I came out for dinner, I found there was no room for me on the table. What should I do?

Later, you finally understand one thing: some people can only walk side by side with you for a while, but not for a lifetime. In this world, there are too many things that can hinder two people from being together, and the most helpless thing is illness and death.

The most touching thing is that the little things that you didn't care about once became the fuse of your final separation one day. You stand on the day of separation and think back on the first day, but it becomes a sentence that you have no chance in your life.

Believe it or not, some people's lost fate is a man-made accident. You love each other, so what? Love sometimes comes and goes quickly.

After four years together, Su Hu officially broke up. When she finally told her boyfriend the idea after careful consideration, she clearly saw the surprise in her boyfriend's eyes: "What's the matter, why did you suddenly say such a thing?"

Su Hu shook her head. She didn't know what was wrong with her. There seemed to be a moment when she felt that their feelings were so strong. She was obsessed with the person she wanted to be with, and suddenly she didn't want to.

But if you really let her tell the reason, Su Hu also feels that there is nothing to say. She thought for a moment, sighed and said slowly, "Forget it, I don't want to be with you."

Her boyfriend is still puzzled: "Didn't he go back to see his parents last month and agree to get married?" I told my mother that I would definitely marry you home. "

Speaking of meeting his parents, he suddenly remembered something: "I see, are you still angry with me because of that thing at the dinner table?" I told you, it's just that many people didn't notice it. Don't take it personally. "

Just like before, he thought that after saying these words, Su Hu would nod and the two would make up. But this time Su Hu made up his mind: "With you, have I said goodbye before?"

He said, "No." These years together, but he is immature and broke up several times. Su Hu said slowly, "so, I'm serious this time. Let's break up. "

He opened his mouth and said nothing, but his eyes were full of surprise.

02

One sentence is right. There is no parting without reason, and there is no leaving without reason. All the departures seemed hasty, but in fact they had planned for a long time, and Su Hu was no exception.

Although, at first, she was actually the one she loved deeply.

She still remembers seeing him for the first time, when she was in the third year of high school, attending a high school classmate party. He followed a friend to join in the fun, but he didn't expect Su Hu to fall in love at first sight.

Of course, Zhong likes his humor rather than his face. Although everyone says that he is a master of silence, those cold jokes are really easy to catch up with, but Su Hu likes them. When he opened his mouth, Su Hu was very happy.

He joked that he had met a bosom friend and insisted on adding Su Hu's contact information. Su Hu is very popular. In fact, she has been thinking about it. How can she quietly ask him for his phone number in the future? Now that he has taken the initiative, everything is just right.

However, when they began to fall in love, it was Su Hu's first appearance. They can talk endlessly. When they are free, they talk several times until dawn before going to bed. Su Hu thought it was like it.

Therefore, seeing that he didn't confess for a long time, Su Hu also put forward the meaning of being together first. He was really stunned at that time and reluctantly agreed, probably for fear of losing this friend. Su Hu later said:

After they got together, Su Hu played many roles in this love. Sometimes she is a girlfriend, and sometimes she is like his mother. He is really childish, so Su Hu makes him do anything.

In fact, during these four years, he did a lot of things that disappointed Su Hu. He is not a good boyfriend, and even seldom takes the initiative to care. He was used to accepting Su Hu's kindness and went on this relationship in a daze.

Sometimes, when he is unhappy, he will break up.

03

In fact, many people in life are obsessed with a love that outsiders think is incredible. In the final analysis, the reason is that the person who pays more in love refuses to let go.

They are used to persuading themselves to stick to it by moving themselves, and finally they can only be moved by themselves. So is Su Hu. In this love, she paid a lot, so she didn't want to let go easily.

But sometimes, the more you pay, the more you persist, and you just get deeper and deeper in this quagmire. The longer it takes, the harder it is to get out. Many people finally come out and need help from outside.

For Su Hu, her external force is her mother-in-law.

When Su Hu talks about his mother, he still can't change his fixed thinking. He will say mother-in-law at the first time. After all, they are ready to get married. Her boyfriend took her home and said that she wanted to meet her parents, and then she could prepare for the wedding.

Su Hu is a man of noble character. She usually likes to cook in the kitchen, so she does well, which is what her boyfriend said. So when she went to his house, she also said that she could cook. His mother was polite, but her boyfriend said, "Mom, let her come. The food she cooked is delicious. You should try it first, but you have to do it later. "

If you listen to this sentence carefully, it is easy to misunderstand. But Su Hu was very busy at that time. Without careful consideration, he went to the kitchen to get busy. After a while, some guests came to the house, and her boyfriend's mother went out to entertain guests, leaving Su Hu alone.

When she finished everything and finally came out of the kitchen, she saw the scene in front of her and couldn't tell her feelings: "The first time I went to my boyfriend's house, I made it myself. When I came out for dinner, I found that there was no room for me on the table. "

Yes, the table is full. There is no room for her. She was embarrassed. After all, it's my first time here, and I don't know how to speak. The last girl stood up and moved a stool for her to sit next to. Later, I learned that the girl was her boyfriend's cousin.

She re-examined their relationship for the first time, the boyfriend who never paid attention to her, and his family didn't pay attention to her.

04

Every girl, in fact, is eager to play a protected and favored role in love, and also hopes that her love can be faithful to the end, so there will be many incredible persistence.

Even later, maybe they don't know themselves. What they cling to is love itself, this person, or refuse to give up their persistence?

But countless facts also illustrate a truth: inappropriate love, no matter how well you disguise it, no matter how you lie to yourself that you are happy, will eventually break up one day.

Disappointment has accumulated a lot, and one day I don't want to continue. No matter how much you once loved, it was only a moment of relief. Su Hu's boyfriend, after failing to recover, began to blame her, saying that she had changed and would not be so stingy as before, that her mother was not the kind of person she said, that everything she said was her fault, that she was picky and that she should apologize to her mother.

Su Hu got a fright. What did I do wrong and need to apologize?

If Su Hu were asked to answer a question: At which moment did you die of love? Su Hu thought, probably at that moment, he came out of the kitchen and found that the whole family was eating happily and completely forgot about her.

If I had known this, why should I be so humble in love? Why insist on an impossible love? Why do you wronged yourself, and when you broke up, you saved it again and again?

You have to hit the south wall to turn back and give up at the last minute. Su Hu wry smile: "In love, untimely persistence is really poison."