Second child video joke

Recently, more families choose to have a second child, and the family has two treasures, which inevitably means that parents need to pay more attention to their children's education. Especially for two children of similar age, it is not easy to ensure that the children get along well. In a second-child family, how to maintain the relationship between children is a very important part of parents' education.

My eldest brother wanted to watch the game, so he switched the TV to the live broadcast of the game. In order not to let my sister change the channel, my brother has been standing by the TV.

Although my brother became a goalkeeper, this did not prevent my sister from wanting to sneak attack, so my sister "patrolled" back and forth by the TV set, looking for opportunities to change channels. But after wandering for a while, my sister still didn't succeed, so my sister gave my brother a push with some emotion.

But my brother is not to be outdone. He didn't want his sister to take the initiative, so he responded very hard in this shoving. The two children are deadlocked like this. Because of the right to use TV, the two little guys are a little nervous.

The father sitting on the sofa is also very entangled in this. Seeing two little guys fighting over TV, Bao Dad didn't know how to intervene. So Bao Dad silently took out his mobile phone and took this video, hoping to get help from netizens.

The replies of netizens are also varied, and each has its own views. Some netizens said that they would beat their younger brother. After all, the big one has to give way to the small one. Some netizens said that whoever gets good grades will listen to him and he has the right to choose. Some netizens said that it is better to make a rule. You watch it today, and he will watch it tomorrow, so that the children will not argue.

Obviously, when dealing with the second child relationship, parents really need to master many educational skills. On the one hand, they want to maintain the emotional relationship between their children, on the other hand, they want a bowl of water to be flat. In fact, when dealing with contradictions and differences between children, parents' coping attitude is largely the embodiment of their own educational ideas.

Teach children to hug each other.

When children have conflicts, parents should know how to deal with them in a positive way. When children are tit for tat, parents should teach their children how to hug each other actively. Obviously, a hug will resolve many contradictions and make opinions and differences better resolved.

2. Praise the children more.

The child's mind is very delicate, and his parents' praise is highly accepted. Therefore, when parents find the bright spots on their children, they must give praise without hesitation, so that the bright spots on their children can be positively strengthened.

3. Don't compare children at will

Every child is different, and their characteristics will be different. At this time, parents should respect these differences and treat them differently. Blind comparison is not suitable for children's education.

4. Create intimate time alone with children.

Children will have a certain sense of competition for each other's existence. At this time, it is necessary for parents to create some time alone with their children, which will make them feel that they are the most special in their parents' eyes. Parents' love for themselves is not robbed because of each other's existence.

5. Provide opportunities for children to work together.

When children finally accomplish something through their own efforts and tacit cooperation with each other, the intimacy between children will increase, and this sense of joy in completing tasks together will make children more able to regard each other as their best playmates.

6. Parents should let go appropriately.

Obviously, when children have differences of opinion, they can also solve them in their own way. After a long time, they will naturally have a way to get along. Careless intervention by parents is likely to hinder the handling of problems between children.

In the education of the second child, parents should not only master the skills and wisdom of education, but also know how to express their love for their children and let them feel the equal and balanced love from their parents, which is very important for the emotional maintenance between children. What do you think of the education of two children?

On the topic of parenting, let children grow up healthily.