The first batch of 70-year-old "neets", what have they become after their parents died?

The first batch of 70-year-old "neets" had a very bad life after their parents died.

The so-called "neet people" are people who rely too much on their parents. Most of them are lazy and look forward to a better life, but they don't know how to pay, only know how to keep asking their parents for it. In the end, they all became people who could not live independently. Nowadays, not only some young people are gnawing at the old for various reasons, but some post-70s are also typical "gnawing at the old". The first batch of 70-year-old "neets" are now almost 50 years old. Most of their parents are in their seventies and eighties, and some have passed away. With the death of their parents, these neets lost their parents' support and their lives became more and more difficult.

For example, Lao Li is a famous neet in the village. At that time, the situation of the Lao Li family in the village was better. In order to get Lao Li to marry a daughter-in-law, his parents worked hard in the village and even asked Lao Ali to take the class instead. At first, Lao Li was still willing to do it, but after marrying his daughter-in-law, he found it boring to be a teacher. He did a lot of things, but his salary was not high. After that, Lao Li didn't want to work in school. Although parents think their children are unworthy, there is nothing they can do. Although Lao Li has been a teacher for many years, he has not saved any savings. After he married his wife, he lived with his parents and had no savings.

At the beginning, the old couple had a good life. After all, with the help of their parents, they not only built new houses in the village, but also bought some relatively new home appliances. However, their parents can't help him for life. After the death of his parents, Lao Li's life was under great pressure and the days were getting tighter and tighter. Now in his forties, he has two children to support. They could help Lao Li when his parents were alive, but his parents died. Now, the children's tuition and pocket money fall on Lao Li, who has no formal job. It can be said that he is struggling, and the husband and wife often quarrel over trifles.

It can be seen that after the death of their parents, the life of the neet people is not so good. Then, in daily life, how should parents prevent their children from becoming neets? In fact, if you want to prevent your children from becoming neets, you only need to do the following:

First of all, don't spoil children too much. Some parents always like to impose all their love on their children, thinking that it is good for them, but in fact, overindulging their children hurts them.

Secondly, parents must know how to cultivate their children's independent quality. As parents, we should also pay more attention to cultivating children's independent quality. Children should exercise their independence when they are young, try to let them know their own affairs and do it by themselves, instead of asking their parents for help in everything.

Then, don't accept that your children are old-fashioned, let them solve their own problems.