What is a woman's best investment in her life?

27-year-old Li Shaoran took the postgraduate entrance examination for three years.

Mom said that girls study for self-confidence and independence.

Looking back now, the first postgraduate entrance examination was sloppy like a joke.

When I was a junior, I saw that all the students who came to school in autumn were unknown small enterprises, and my classmates around me also had the idea of taking the postgraduate entrance examination, so they signed up with them.

At that time, I didn't have any plans for the future, so I randomly chose a school with little difficulty and prepared for the exam half-heartedly.

In the end, the public class didn't cross the line, so I had to choose to adjust.

Adjustment is the most important thing for people to see the difference in academic qualifications. With the same score, the school will definitely give priority to better people in undergraduate universities. I tried it for a whole month, called for advice every day, joined the adjustment group in colleges and universities, and asked for the contact information of my senior schoolmate's tutor. It didn't work in the end.

After graduation, I went to a small factory as an assistant and endured the so-called wine table culture every day. Working for two months is like twenty years. After thinking for a long time, I decided to climb up again with the help of the rope of postgraduate entrance examination.

With a salary of 8,000 yuan for two months, I rented a house near the target college and began to prepare for the exam. Because I wanted to change the status quo so much, I studied day and night during World War II and didn't feel any hard work. Unfortunately, because the exam was too tense, I filled in the English answer sheet incorrectly and failed again.

After two postgraduate entrance examinations, I got good grades in professional courses and failed in public courses. I am unwilling, but I dare not take the exam again.

I am 27 years old. I am a graduate student for three years, and I will go to work after graduation. The news about women's employment discrimination has been constant. When I am 30 years old, I must consider the rules of modern society.

I found a full-time job and intend to give up the postgraduate entrance examination. But the next family dinner completely changed my mind.

When my relatives heard that I failed in the postgraduate entrance examination twice, they said, "It's useless for girls to read too many books. They are always getting married. " The gentle and introverted mother immediately fought back at the dinner table. "I let my daughter study in order to make her an independent person. She can support herself without getting married, and she has confidence and confidence at any time. "

My mother is just an ordinary rural woman. I didn't expect her to say such a thing. After dinner, she told me again and again, "You can take the postgraduate exam. It doesn't matter if you get married and have children later. "

After listening to my mother's words, I have fighting spirit again. My working hours are from nine to six. I get up at five in the morning and go to bed at twelve in the evening. I spend every minute of my free time studying hard.

Because the salary is not high and I want to save some tuition in advance, I can only live in a dilapidated house near my unit. In winter, there was no heating in the room, so I couldn't sit still because of the cold, so I ran to the public toilet to speak for Yuba.

After the exam, I took a week off. As soon as the curtains are closed, I wake up every day to review. I ate two quick-frozen dumplings when I was hungry.

After the exam, I said to my mother on the bus home, "I really tried my best." My mother comforted me and said, "I know, it depends on fate." I know you work hard, so it doesn't matter if you don't pass the exam. "I remember three years of youth in an exam. As soon as I got off the bus, I squatted on the side of the road and cried and vomited.

In the next few days, I pretended to go to work as if nothing had happened. In fact, I read the answers every day and evaluate the scores crazily.

The day the results came out, I was attending my best friend's wedding. Seeing the notice in the group, I immediately ran to the bathroom to check the score.

I passed the initial test with a low score.

The next thing went well. I passed the second interview and got the admission notice from Wuhan University. In the past three years, I have come into contact with many new fields at school and found a job in a bank, which I never dreamed of before.

After three years' delay, my married classmates laughed that I still got the same salary as her, but my mother's words made me not regret this choice.

I hope I can help you. Good luck.