Do you have any depressed friends or family?

Yes, I know four. They are all seriously ill and take antidepressants all the year round, but three of them are particularly active in their work and have happy families, so I can't say anything. The other is bored at home every day and refuses to socialize.

Many people don't understand depression and think it is melodramatic. That's what I thought when I didn't contact people with depression before. After careful understanding, it is actually not, but a mental illness with abnormal brain waves. The symptoms of the disease are similar. There is a documentary about the hospitalized patients with this disease for more than two hours. They will be paranoid (want to be killed, think that others have a crush on themselves) and extreme. After reading it, you will know that it will change a lot.

Let me talk about my three friends who don't say that others can't see depression. Both (a man and a woman) are 87 years old. The man was depressed because of his parents' divorce and the woman died because of her father's car accident. Take medicine all year round. Both of them are very active and hard-working, especially the man is often busy all night and socializing is normal. After returning to the male 70, because the company was under too much pressure, he was depressed and manic, and he lost his temper inexplicably after taking medicine for a while.

Besides, the one who doesn't want to go to work and stay at home is also because his junior high school parents divorced, and he can't accept the changes and gaps in his life and got depression. Being hospitalized two or three times a year is extreme. For example, if he is asked to find a job, he will say that he will be replaced by artificial intelligence in the future and cannot accept being laid off. I feel ashamed of my failure in the interview and want to jump off a building to commit suicide.

In fact, extreme, paranoid, manic ... Many phenomena are common diseases of depression. In severe cases, you should trust the doctor's treatment and go to the hospital instead of struggling. Exercise more and work harder at ordinary times to keep yourself busy. Don't think about it. The companionship of pets and their families is very important to help them get out of trouble.

After my father died of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage in mid-June, 5438+last February, I was very sad and blamed myself! At the same time, it has entered menopause!

Since Qingming, I suddenly feel very anxious and nervous, and my scalp is inexplicably tight and fried ... I have poor sleep, low mood and fidgety. The most important thing is that I always cry inexplicably and feel that I have come to the end of my life ... I can't see hope!

I didn't want to go there or meet anyone during that time. Stay at home alone, close your heart, and become more and more silent and boring in a closed room ...

Although I also actively participated in outdoor activities during that time, I also went out to play with my sisters in the group. Every time I go out with them, I am in high spirits, but I am depressed and have a terrible headache! Coupled with poor sleep, swollen eyes and yawning all the way! Listening to their laughter in the car, but I just can't open my eyes. ...

They like to take beautiful photos in various poses, but I can only stand by and watch silently ... so my sisters think I am a little out of touch. In fact, I also want to, but I can't lift my spirit and interest! So I am also very helpless!

It was not until this month that I slowly, gradually let go of my thoughts and sadness about my father! My heart gradually calmed down. Once I let go of this burden, I felt my anxiety and mentality gradually calmed down and healed ... The feeling of compassion before disappeared, as if I had found the starting point of my life again, and the sun and rain were shining brightly. ...

People with depression, not in my family. I get depressed occasionally, but I'll get over it. This disease is not terrible. You have to find out why. What is the reason? What is it? Find it and solve it. If it can't be solved and you can't figure it out, then don't think about it. I remember that teacher Yu Dan told a story about The Analects of Confucius in Lecture Room. It is said that a monk went down the mountain with his disciples. There is a river at the foot of the mountain, and the river is very urgent. A woman on this shore wanted to cross the river but didn't dare. At this time, I saw that the master didn't say anything, and the apprentice didn't dare to speak. So he walked 20 miles and walked. The apprentice asked the master, how can you cross the river with a woman in your arms? Hearing this, the master asked. This story is very instructive. Simply put, people put it down when they want to pick it up, and don't always keep it in their hearts. No matter what you always take seriously, it's a thing, but it's not a thing to let go! People are happy every day and unhappy every day. Why not? Having said that, I hope I can help some friends. Finally, I wish you all a happy holiday and full of happiness!

Ex-boyfriend is depressed!

When I first met him, he was very funny and often told jokes, which completely made people not see that he was depressed. When a group of friends were eating, his hands shook badly. I asked him what happened, and he said the symptoms after taking the medicine, because I didn't ask questions when I first met him. Later, he pursued me, but I had no real feelings for him. I didn't agree with his pursuit. He began to be unhappy and sent a circle of friends all day saying that he didn't want to live. I tried to persuade him out of tenderness. He told me that he was depressed, and I couldn't bear to hurt him. I hope to help him overcome the disease. Actually, I was naive.

He is selfish, knows that I don't like him, and keeps me in various ways. Are depressed patients so selfish? Every time I say I'm leaving, he wants to die and live, and he makes up many imaginary scenes and wants to commit suicide. And when he is angry, his eyes are obviously different from those of normal people. I'm really afraid that he will drag me to jump off a building.

I dare not say that depression is a mental patient, but his eyes are really terrible, and I am more and more afraid of him. I went to his home to find his mother, who showed me his medical records. It turned out that he (bipolar disorder) had jumped off the building and was pulled back. This disease has been very serious for ten years, and there is no cure at all. I said I wanted to leave him, but he always threatened me with death and drove me crazy.

Later, I looked up a lot of information, and the only way was to rely on him and take medicine well. People with depression don't want to take medicine, and the side effects of medicine are great. After taking it, they have slow reaction, poor memory and sleep all day, so he always doesn't want to take it and secretly throws it away, but if he doesn't take it, he will get sick and lose sleep every day. In the world of depressed patients, people all over the world are restless and want to harm him. He looks happy when there are many people. When you turn around, you suddenly become silent or lose your temper and hurt yourself. Later, I secretly left his world.

I tried to help him at first, but I didn't help him. Instead, I drove myself crazy. It's been six or seven years, and I wonder how he is now.