Why don't you want to get married after 00 now?

Many people around me say: If it weren't for the pressure from my parents, I really want to stay married all my life.

I used to regard love as the whole of my life, enjoying the nourishment of love and the company of my lover. Later, I stopped taking love as my necessity. Love is becoming more and more dispensable, and my expectations of love are also lower. This is the reason why most people don't want to get married. Of course, there are many practical reasons to prevent young people from entering marriage.

For men, their rejection of marriage is also obvious, and these practical reasons have to be faced squarely.

Marriage costs too much.

There is too much pressure to get married now. House, car and bride price are all standard for marriage, and the pressure of marriage is all on men.

Hundreds of thousands of bride price and millions of houses. Some women are reasonable and may promise to let the man make a down payment, and the two sides will pay the mortgage together. However, some women will ask the man to buy a house in full, and many loves will eventually lose in the bride price and the house.

For most ordinary families, marrying a wife is something that needs to be hollowed out. We should take out all the hard-earned money that our parents have worked hard for a lifetime. If it is not enough, they will still be in debt. Most people are heavily in debt. Although parents are willing to pay anything for their children in return, some families are really powerless.

There is a boy next to me. His parents are farmers and have worked hard all their lives. The money they earn is just to take care of the smallest life, and they don't have much spare money in their hands. Later, my father fell ill and had an operation. Not only did he spend all his savings, but he also owed foreign debts outside. Boys are diligent, and one person has enough down payment. Later, at the stage of marriage, the woman didn't have a house and didn't want to get married, so she got married.

In the face of reality, the so-called love has finally become a joke. He has been with that girl for many years and has lost it materially. What's more, many people now know each other through blind date, and they don't have much emotional foundation. From the beginning, I just looked at each other's conditions. A house has become a necessity. As long as this is not satisfied, marriage will be in the foreseeable future.

For men, it is often not that they don't want to get married, but that they can't afford it. I will flinch at the thought that I can't meet the good conditions.