Poor kid's joke.

Some parents don't have high income, but their children are dressed "brightly" and dressed in fashion. However, no matter how well parents "package" their children, paper can't hold fire after all. Outsiders will still see the potential inside story through the child's performance and know that the child is a "poor child." In life, this phenomenon is more and more. The public regards this behavior as "exquisite poverty", and the family level is average, but they insist on getting rich and raising children.

Parents only earn 3000 yuan a month, but they raise their children in a "delicate and poor" way. In fact, outsiders have long seen through it.

Xiao Qiang's mother is a cleaner and her father is a migrant worker. The total income of a family of three people can be about 3000 yuan per month. Apart from the necessary utilities, most of my parents' money was spent on supporting Xiao Qiang to go to school, and I couldn't save it at all.

Some people may ask: Xiao Qiang has just entered primary school, and his expenses are not big. How can parents not save money? That's because Xiao Qiang's parents especially believe in the saying of "enriching their sons" and insist on dressing up their sons as "noble sons".

Dad said, "No matter how poor you are, you can't be poor. I want to give my children the best. " Mother said, "Yes, we are only children. We should work harder and earn more money. Don't let your child dress too badly! " "

As a result, all the shoes parents bought for their sons were brand shoes above 500 yuan, but they wore cloth shoes of more than 20 yuan. Parents buy clothes for their children for hundreds of dollars, but their own clothes are patched.

On one occasion, Xiao Qiang happened to bump into his classmate while wearing designer shoes. The classmate asked him angrily, "What are you showing off for wearing so well?" Xiao Qiang was blushing and thick-necked, becoming angry from embarrassment. He pushed his opponent to the ground and beat him wildly.

When this happened, my parents were called to school by the teacher. The teacher communicated: "Your children always show off their clothing brands in class, and outsiders will know that your home conditions are actually not so good. You see, your child's self-esteem is so strong that even his classmates can't stand a joke, so they fight. You really don't have to force yourself to raise your son beyond your ability. " My parents began to reflect: "I really shouldn't be poor and exquisite to raise my son, suffer for myself and lie to my children."

What's wrong with the "exquisite and poor" parenting style?

Raising children in a delicate and pitiful way, to put it mildly, tells parents to "love the baby" and doesn't want the baby to live a bad life. But to put it bluntly, it may be ugly. Perhaps it is the vanity of parents, worried that their children will be looked down upon.

But if the family is not rich, it is obviously wrong for parents to raise their children in a poor way. Because of this, it is actually bad for parents and children:

First of all, parents earn too much money, which will aggravate the pain.

It seems to be raising children, but in fact it sacrifices parents. Parents are not rich, so they save money for their children. Parents have to bring them if necessary. But if you spend it on children's dress, it will be a bit extravagant and wasteful, which will only make parents work harder to make money.

A sensible child will feel sorry for his parents and live a life full of guilt. Children who are not sensible will take it for granted, continue to spend money on their parents and develop the bad habit of being extravagant, which is not good for parents and children.

Secondly, whether a child is noble or not does not care about his appearance.

Dressing a "poor child" as a "noble child" makes the child "noble"? No, whether a child is noble or not lies not in whether he looks fashionable or not, but in whether his cultivation is noble, whether his conduct is upright or not, and whether he is kind at heart.

Exquisite children raised by the poor and the rich are prone to vanity and love to compare with others. Children can easily become overbearing and arrogant because of their excessive inferiority, coupled with the exquisite and poor support of their parents.

In addition, parents' income is not high, but they are exquisite and poor everywhere, which is really unnecessary. Outsiders can see through everything at a glance through the performance of children.

How can outsiders see through that children are "poor and exquisite"?

Let's continue to analyze Xiao Qiang. When others play jokes on him, Xiao Qiang is not thinking about solving contradictions, but becoming angry from embarrassment. Such a move is not generous enough, perhaps just because Xiao Qiang thinks the other party is insulting himself. This is the biggest drawback of raising children in a delicate and pitiful way: a blx.

It is true that children are poor, vanity is at work, they can't accept any attacks from others, and they are easy to get angry and serious. Children raised by their parents are delicate, poor and rich, fragile, vain, timid and cruel. Outsiders can see through it at a glance, blx's children.

To tell the truth, when children are at school, it is good to dress warmly and clean. Parents really don't need to blindly pursue brands and dress their children too brightly. Especially for poor parents, there is no need to raise their children in a naked place. Otherwise, it is easy for outsiders to see through and laugh at children, but it is self-defeating.

Are there any children around you who are raised by rich parents under poverty and exquisiteness?