What "nicknames" are not called, which is not good for children's psychology, but unfortunately many parents don't pay attention to them?

What "nicknames" are not called, which is not good for children's psychology, but unfortunately many parents don't pay attention to them? First, "nicknames" are based on body shape. I have a friend in my mother's hometown. They are all brothers. When I was a child, I grew up in the countryside. My parents don't have much culture and art, so I asked the village teacher to help me name my children. In addition to announcing their names, parents also gave nicknames to the two babies. Because both babies were born very heavy, the eldest brother was named "Gangzi" and the second was named "Erzhuang".

There is also a family whose grandmother named it "dog". The old man thinks that the uglier the child's name, the better, and the future will be healthy and safe. Despite this nickname, there is no idea of joking. But invisibly, this nickname will also affect a person, which will make people feel a little insecure and feel that they are not good enough and lack self-confidence.

Second, the post said that a family would do the work of "garbage sorting and recycling" in the countryside. Parents detain garbage every day, so their bodies are always dirty. Because of work, I usually pay less attention to my children, and my children's clothes and pants are not particularly neat at school. Some people with incorrect ideas began to give people nicknames, calling others "shabby", and just because others were engaged in "garbage sorting and recycling", they gave me the title of disrespectful people.

Children are a little introverted, often called so by classmates, and their temperament is getting weaker and weaker. Once in class, my stomach was uncomfortable, but I was afraid to tell the teacher, and finally I pulled my pants alive. The nickname incident and this incident have been teased by students for many years. It is very likely that the person who named this nickname did not mean it, but the speaker did not mean it. People with high self-esteem will violently resist and have a bad temper. Weak personality, very easy to become introverted, do not like to deal with people.

Third, the nickname from the name "Kai Yin" has a long history and the writing is the essence. Different types of words have different names and meanings. Originally a meaningful name was inadvertently called by others, but it became another name that was not very pleasant to listen to. For example, "Fan Tong", which is often passed on the Internet, is called "rice basin" by others. A few lines of words that were originally relative have become a person's "nickname" because of pronunciation errors. This kind of address will make children very resistant and can't understand why parents want to name themselves. This bad feeling makes children afraid of being recruited, leaving psychological trauma invisibly.