My wife and I go back to my parents' house as soon as we quarrel. What should I do?

As the saying goes, "the water spilled by the married daughter", although I strongly disagree with this statement, I have to bow to reality.

If your wife quarrels with you, she will go back to her parents' house. If she goes back to her parents' house more often, the gossip of her neighbors will come. Only you can't imagine that without them, these people are waiting to see other people's jokes.

Think with your toes. Is this humiliating? Is it annoying, but you have nothing to say?

So where is the root cause? My wife quarreled with you. Why do you want her to quarrel with you? Isn't the wife used to coax and protect? She was very sad after the quarrel. She doesn't think she can stay in this house. She feels that her family is her eternal haven, and she will be very comfortable when she goes home. At this time, your home is sad in her heart, and only family can give her warmth.

There is no difference between two homes, the difference is the people who live in the house.

Think about why you two can't keep her in your love nest, and what is the reason for the quarrel? Why does she think her parents are better than you? Why did you push her away and let her go back to her family? Aren't you afraid of the accumulation of contradictions? Won't she come back once she returns to her mother's house?

But don't worry too much. Since you quarreled, she went back to her parents' house, which means that you two quarreled a lot. After going back and forth many times, she will come back again, and she still has concerns in her heart and can't let go. It's good to be back. Try to control yourself and don't let yourself go to the brain. What are the benefits of being in the dark?

Home is not a place to reason, wife, nor is it someone you can convince with reason.

Put away that preaching, women are trying to coax.