Don't joke that water should respect people.

A person, after all kinds of vicissitudes, will inevitably change his personality!

From a frivolous teenager to a stable middle age, and finally gradually become a mature and stable old man!

People can grow up instantly after experiencing a major change, or they can grow up slowly after experiencing various hardships!

And a person's mature performance begins with knowing how to respect others, which is mainly reflected in the following aspects:

1, respect other people's circle of friends.

Birds of a feather flock together, people are divided into groups, everyone has his own social circle and circle of friends, and these circles are a happy place for people!

Sometimes, we often warn people close to us not to be with anyone often, because that person has many bad habits and will be infected!

It is true that those who are close to the ink are black, but smart people will not ask people around them to stay away from anyone. All he has to do is respect his circle of friends!

Of course, the premise is that we must "get rid of silt without dyeing" and "take its essence and get rid of its dross"

First of all, you should be honest, fair, upright and selfless. No one can pollute you!

A mature person will not judge other people's circles!

Don't speculate or slander other people's friends or relatives for no reason!

Don't take pleasure in making fun of someone's friends.

Really mature people know how to respect other people's circles. Everyone has his own shadow in life. Even if you see through other people's lifestyles and attitudes, don't speak thoroughly, let alone comment! Otherwise, it is obvious that you are stupid!

In a word, it is "the dog takes the mouse and mind its own business"!

Respecting other people's circle of friends is the greatest trust in a person's character!

2. Respect the habits of others

A gentleman is informal.

To achieve great things, you don't have to stick to certain details.

If your friend is addicted to alcohol, don't persuade him to give up drinking, because the more you persuade him, the farther your relationship will go!

Some habits can only be changed when they feel wrong! It's no use persuading you!

For example, if you drink until the doctor talks, you will naturally be afraid. If you are afraid, you will quit!

What you can do now is to respect his habits and ask yourself not to drink!

Do you want to pay this person, or do you want to tolerate some minor problems!

For example, between husband and wife, the husband snores, so maybe they are divorced? If so, it means that feelings are a big bubble!

Clear water makes no fish, while people look at it without friends!

Some small things, should be tolerated or tolerated, otherwise you really can't make friends!

A mature and steady person will not haggle over every ounce, but will accept it generously!

As long as it is not the general direction, problems in principle can generally be overcome!

After all, no one is perfect, and the communication between people can always last through mutual accommodation and tolerance!

As soon as I mature, I understand this truth!

This is a kind of respect for others, and others will like to associate with you more because of this!

3. Respect others' choices

Life is full of choices: study, work, get married, buy a house …

We are often at the crossroads, but we don't know which direction to go, because every choice we make represents a change in life!

Everyone makes a choice after careful consideration, and we should respect their choice!

No one can be responsible for another person's life, only oneself can be responsible for your own life, so the road you choose should be finished on your knees!

You should support a person when he is ready to do a job. After all, he has made up his mind.

Others' choices are not necessarily right, but there are always their own reasons.

For example, there must be a reason for others to divorce. You don't persuade them to leave, so you don't know if they will experience more pain.

Once someone has made up his mind to do something, don't argue with him, encourage him, support him and respect his judgment!

A mature person knows how to respect other people's ideas, their choices, and what they choose, and of course, they have to bear the consequences themselves, no matter what the outcome is!

Maturity is like an old man who has an insight into human nature. He knows without saying, sees through without saying, and many things have to be experienced by himself to grow!

After all, in this world, not all feelings are interlinked. Without the experience of others, there is no capital to convince people!

Respect others' everything, tolerate everything, be broad-minded and fat, and enjoy yourself!