Why do more and more men not want to get married?

Many people get married just to find a long-term meal ticket, not someone with whom they can buy groceries and cook together.

Many men don’t want to get married if it’s just to find a meal partner, and they can still enjoy a good meal alone.

Whether it is marriage or love, we should give to each other, instead of being obsessed with what can you get when I am with you? Often the less you care about, the more happiness you will have.

I saw this marriage recruitment information: I am a girl, and the marriage recruitment requirements are as follows: a car, a house, a stable income, and savings, preferably a handsome guy!

Netizens commented: What a good girl, with very low requirements! Netizens left messages saying that they met the standard and asked for a chat~~

Yes, in the past, the wedding room was a public room where the family lived together, and there was no so-called furniture or dowry. Nowadays, a car rental and a deposit have become the basic requirements for marriage and making friends. Just like the line in the predecessor: Most love is in the hands of those who have less bread! When it comes to marriage and love, they are like house slaves. Most people are not even qualified to be house slaves!

Many people do not want to get married, but they dare not get married! Why do more and more men not want to get married? "You can't give me love, but you still want to share my bread."

There is such a story on Zhihu:

The male protagonist broke up with his girlfriend of two years. The reason is very simple. I bought her a drink while watching a movie. As soon as she got it, she threw it on the ground. She pointed at her nose and scolded me in public: Why didn't you buy me ice in such a hot weather?

My friends and family came to persuade me, but I was really desperate. I no longer wanted to be like a dog and put on a smile every day to coax her. I originally planned to get married after graduating from graduate school, but there was still one year left. However, during the two years I was a graduate student, I had to deliver meals to her on time, give her gifts on major holidays, use a doting tone when chatting on WeChat, and get angry and start crying when her attitude was not good. . No matter what you do, I will accompany you.

I really understand, doesn’t getting married make me live like a dog?

The end of the story: The male protagonist said: Someone asked me why I was so nice to her? I want her to be my girlfriend, I want her to marry me, I want her to be loved equally, I want her to let me go!

Some boyfriends complained, saying that women are afraid of encountering mothers-style mates, so isn’t the girlfriend’s endless behavior that makes people suspicious every day not father-style mates? I can’t afford to pay this kind of IQ tax, and I don’t dare to marry this kind of movie queen.

Many people think that getting married is easy and that as long as two people love each other, it is enough to fight the whole world.

But the blind date made me understand that I am not even capable of dealing with two old people. As soon as I sat down, the other party's parents asked, "What is your education level?" How many apartments do you have at home? What unit are your parents in? Do you have a high IQ? How should I answer these many practical questions?

In fact, marriage is not just two people, but two families!

Perhaps only one day you no longer regard marriage as a formality, but return to the essence of its ritual, will you be more able to follow your inner choice.

This process may be long or short, and requires mutual tolerance to complete it.

Whether or not to get married is always a choice between you and me. How far you can go with him will be known by trying to get married.

If the other person is hesitant, you can use this time to examine your heart. Are you willing to be more patient with the person in front of you and wait until the time is right, or do you have other considerations?

After all, any form of emotional relationship can survive. Meeting, acquaintance, knowing each other, and falling in love are all free step by step, and they can also choose each other in the future.