How does it feel to spend the New Year with relatives and be scolded all over?

At the end of the year and the beginning of the year, the Spring Festival, the most important festival in China, is coming. The Spring Festival is a reunion festival. During this period, the seven aunts and eight aunts in the family will get together, and there will inevitably be a topic to discuss together. At this time, many things, such as children's grades, family income, neighbors' gossip, etc., have become topics of discussion at this time. Some adults don't like the Spring Festival the most, because they will not only be one year older, but also answer questions from various relatives, which is really tiring.

During this time, we can relax during the holidays, but our relatives seem to want to let themselves go. Some old people are old-fashioned and don't like what young people do, so they will criticize young people one after another during the Chinese New Year. If an elder mainly speaks, then others will also echo, and will inevitably encounter the baptism of a storm. It is normal to be scolded by relatives all over. At this time, everyone generally chooses to listen silently.

I believe that anyone who hears so many people blaming themselves at the same time must be very wronged. No matter how many mistakes you make, you should not be disappointed on such a happy day. Besides, relatives are the closest people to you. If everyone has an opinion of himself, it must be that his own approach is really inappropriate. At this time, you might as well reflect on yourself and see if you can correct your shortcomings.

Everyone makes mistakes, as long as they can correct them. I believe that after the correction, relatives will not hold on to this problem again. However, some people just watch the excitement and are not afraid of major events. They always sow discord between them. Don't be soft on such relatives. If you just retreat, it will be too passive. It is better to explain your point of view in front of everyone. No matter whether someone is considerate or not, as long as you do it right, you don't have to be too entangled.