Why are many men unwilling to bring older women now? What is the reason?

Many men would rather find a woman who has no children after second marriage than those older women. Nowadays, men, especially men of a certain age, are more and more rational and consider more and more aspects in the face of marriage choice. So why don't men want to marry "older women"?

1, arrogant older women

Some girls are excellent, and they have been excellent since childhood. In her eyes, they are the best, and only they deserve their own. Most of such women are spoiled by their families. Overrearing a daughter is not necessarily a good thing. Sometimes she has to bear some blows and setbacks to grow up healthily, especially in her mentality. I really have good conditions and don't want to be low. After marriageable age, he was unwilling to make do, and then he was neither high nor low. Let's just say you deserve to be single

2. Older leftover women of Xueba.

I used to see that female doctors were called the third kind of people on the Internet. At first, I didn't understand what it was. Later, I learned that female doctors are the so-called "three highs" group, with high education, high income and high age. In fact, it is difficult for female doctors to get married. In this era when only young and beautiful people can marry well, people who are willing to become female doctors are really different.

A person's youth is limited, and time is like running water, which is gone forever. A July flower rhapsody, a woman is thirty bean curd dregs. A woman's best years are between 18 and 28. That bully girl is still studying hard at school at this age, but she doesn't listen to anything outside the window. She just wants to get a doctorate. As a result, the doctor was admitted. Looking back, she is old. And the higher the education, the higher the natural horizon, and the harder it is to find a partner. When she suddenly felt it, the pressure was like a mountain, which made her collapse instantly. So sometimes female doctors really exist in the third category.

3. fantasize about older women.

Some older women may be single for family reasons and even have no love experience. They are more idealistic about love (experience comes from the plot of romantic TV series). They always hope to wait until a perfect prince charming appears, others always disdain, always find fault with what appears around them, and finally pick themselves alive. Obviously in his thirties, I still want to talk about my girlish heart. If a man wants a girl's heart, he goes to a woman in her twenties. Why are you looking for a girl in her thirties?

4. Older women with high incomes.

The paragraph that often appears on the Internet says, "I have been afraid to make a boyfriend recently. My monthly salary 1800, even overtime. With such a high income, I am afraid that he will cheat me when looking for a boyfriend. " Although this is just a joke, the reality still exists. High-income leftover women are suspicious and look down on their other half. They always think that he is a failure. Who dares to do this? Now women want dignity and men want face. Who can stand it? Moreover, women's income is much higher than that of men, and outsiders will inevitably say that they eat soft rice. That sounds terrible. And many rich women have bad temper and are quite difficult to serve.

5. Older women who are tired of playing.

Now there is a kind of leftover women in the society. When they were young, they thought nothing, squandered their youth to the fullest, enjoyed their old age and lived a frenzied life. In short, it is the Dance Academy for her. More than 30 years old, tired of playing, found an honest man to marry. I'll go. Why are honest people so unlucky? I don't know who the honest man has offended. I want to be a catcher and take over the whore who has been played a lot.

Finally, the most critical issue is that many times, men want to get married, and "older women" don't want to get married yet. I think it is better for older women to recognize the reality and do what they should do at any age. Don't wait until they are over age to do it. It's too late to regret it. It can't be said that no man wants to marry. Let's just say that most of them are unwilling to get married.