Big brother lost money for his son's wedding 15000, and the money exposed his true colors. Should he cancel?

As the saying goes, there are many people who are red, and the coat brother is the truest portrayal. Recently, there has been a wave of hot spots in big clothes brother, but not because of singing, but because of the marriage of big clothes brother's son Zhu Danwei. Some netizens revealed that the frugal coat brother is a luxury this time. The cost of a banquet was 1.288 yuan, and the total cost of catering was 75,000 yuan, but only 60,000 yuan was recovered, so it was still a loss 1.500 yuan. Therefore, many people think that eating with friends and relatives is too boring, so it is better not to hold such a banquet. People who can think this way must have no experience in the countryside, at least they don't understand the current situation in the countryside.

First of all, Brother Tai is a star. After he became popular, he made a lot of money through Shang Yan in recent years. The income of a Shang Yan is at least1200,000. So the cost of this banquet is more than enough for a Shang Yan, which is really nothing compared with those big stars who often hold weddings. In addition, a table of banquet 1288 yuan, which is similar to the wedding banquet standard of ordinary families in the city, is not a luxury. Therefore, from the first brother's own point of view, this fee is easily affordable. Besides, it is also a big deal to marry a daughter-in-law for your son, and it is reasonable to spend money once. I think it doesn't matter how much money the freshman collected or how much money he lost for the banquet.

Secondly, we in China are more sophisticated. It is necessary for us to invite the villagers to have a happy event in the countryside. If it is cancelled, people will laugh and have no friends for life. Besides, most of his family now lives in the countryside, and he is extremely rich. The banquets of local rich people are really not like this. I'm afraid the money for alcohol and tobacco is far from enough. From this point of view, I think the cost of Taige's banquet is reasonable, both decent and not luxurious. Even compared with some banquets that are regarded as stars, some? Poor? .

Then, in terms of money, we collected 60 thousand yuan, which is already a family that values human feelings compared with our side. The better family money here is 40 thousand, and the economic income of rural families is relatively low. It is the most normal thing to pay 50 ~ 65,438+000 with your family. You can't expect to get back 80 thousand pounds or more after spending 75 thousand pounds on a party, can you? Is the purpose of your party for the children's wedding or for making money? Besides, you spent hundreds of thousands and millions. Do you expect relatives and friends to make up for it through money? If you can't get the money for the banquet, cancel it. What is this? It doesn't hold water at all. Of course, there must be people going to eat and drink, which is also common in rural banquets. Just looking at it is not enough. But I think most people will still congratulate.

Therefore, whether or not to hold a banquet is not based on money. If you have a good family, you can afford it. If your family is not good, you should keep it simple. After all, weddings and banquets have been an old tradition for many years. It has nothing to do with money. It just brings friends and family together. This is just a celebration and joy. What did you say?/Sorry?