It's not a problem to be best friends with your mother-in-law.

It's not a problem to be best friends with your mother-in-law.

It's not a problem to be best friends with your mother-in-law. As we all know, if we want a long-term marriage, we must first get rid of my mother-in-law, handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, turn passivity into initiative, take the lead in this relationship, and even win over. Let's take a look at being girlfriends with my mother-in-law.

It's not a problem to be best friends with your mother-in-law. 1 women are also of this nature. Anything you like may be liked by your mother-in-law, but because of your status, you are embarrassed to speak, so you often need to speak first to solve your mother-in-law's boredom.

Food partner.

Such a plot can often be seen in Korean dramas. The old lady complained in front of her daughter-in-law for three days: "People want to eat something good when they are old, and I don't know why they are so greedy." In fact, not only Korean old ladies are greedy, but also China old ladies. Don't forget that food is the best communication prop.

So, don't patronize yourself as a gourmet. Once a month, I occasionally put off appointments with friends and take my mother-in-law to eat snacks and delicious food that she has never eaten. Even if it doesn't suit her taste, there is a saying that "eating people is soft-spoken" and will not be praised. I'm sure she won't say you are wrong.

Love to eat the same food, plus your mother-in-law is a cook, so much the better. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can study how the dishes in other restaurants are cooked. After a long time, with the friendship of classmates, how high is the probability of friction?

Surfing the Internet.

Who says that only young people like surfing the Internet, and the elderly are slow to respond? Nowadays, more and more old people have become netizens. Therefore, as long as your mother-in-law can read, you should quickly give her computer literacy, so that the old lady can follow the fashion, and secondly, you will finally have a chance to educate her.

Although it may be a little bitter and tired, you will soon find that it feels good to be trusted by her. Mother-in-law will naturally appreciate you while broadening her horizons. Where did she get the time to find fault with you?

Shopping.

It is a woman's nature to love beauty. No matter what age a woman is, she believes that shopping, especially clothes, will always be her favorite thing to do. Mother-in-law has always taken her grandson with her, so her clothes will definitely not be too particular and she has no time to go shopping. Especially after the baby goes to kindergarten, isn't it time to dress up the old lady?

In the process of shopping, I not only relaxed my mother-in-law's mood, but also found that they actually like plaid skirts of the same style and curtains and tablecloths of the same color. These common languages can be a bridge to build friendship between two people.

It's not a problem to be best friends with your mother-in-law. The first move is to grab her stomach.

There is a saying that if you catch his stomach, you catch his man, which is very useful for your husband and more useful for your mother-in-law. When watching TV, I can often see that my mother-in-law likes to say in front of her daughter-in-law, "Hey, I am old and have no appetite. I don't know what to eat." At this time, you should ask your husband, your father-in-law, what your mother-in-law likes to eat best, and then take her mother-in-law out for a big meal with her own salary or private money. Maybe she will say that you are wasting and can't keep the house. You can confidently answer her, "In order to make my mother-in-law eat well, I would rather eat almost as much as myself and save money for you to enjoy!" My mother-in-law must be very happy when I hear this. Besides, her mother-in-law has a short mouth and eats your big meal. Although she won't praise you at home, she won't say you are wrong in front of others, will she? It's easy to take my mother-in-law to a high-end hotel or a snack once or twice a month, but the effect of easing the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most obvious.

The second trick: teach your mother-in-law to play computer.

I believe that computers are more popular at home now, but for the older generation, what computers can do and bring is still not well understood. At this time, you can teach her to simply use the mouse, open the webpage and click on the webpage, scenery or video she wants to watch. If your mother-in-law's education level is high enough, then you can apply for a QQ number for her, add her son's daughter's number, and teach her how to video and pronounce, which is of great help to the mother-in-law who misses her son and daughter. Although the process is a bit complicated, the time is a bit long, and enough patience is needed, is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law much better? Her free time has finally passed, so she won't always look down on you. Just a reminder, remember to buy a pair of reading glasses for your mother-in-law, so that she can watch the computer conveniently and show your concern.

The third measure: shopping

Women like shopping, which is a natural hobby, so do the elderly like it? The answer is yes, no matter what age, women will never forget to dress themselves up. My mother-in-law used to be young, she loved to dress up and wore fashionable and beautiful clothes. Now they are wrinkled and out of shape, but there are still cosmetics and clothes suitable for them. If you take them shopping, choose suitable clothes and shoes for them and dress them up, they will be in a good mood, take care of their children at home and do housework harder. Moreover, proper shopping is equivalent to exercise. Exercise is good for health and can reduce the occurrence of various diseases. We can have a good chat when shopping. Maybe you still have the same preferences, then the bridge of friendship will naturally be built.

The fourth measure: gossip

All girlfriends have a common topic, that is, gossip about others, saying that people are long and short, and that you and I are little secrets. At home, you can cook with your mother-in-law and listen to her talk about who gave birth to the child and who quarreled. She must be happy to respond to her appropriately, feeling that the old woman is not talking to herself at last. Speak well of your father-in-law in front of your mother-in-law, speak well of your husband, and give an example of how your husband loves her mother-in-law. This sounds sweeter than honey to my mother-in-law. A daughter-in-law as smart and sensible as you is no better than her daughter!