How do you understand other people’s jokes?

A little girl confided to me and said:

"I hate the boy at the back table very much. He often pokes me on the back with a pen. I reminded him many times. Didn't listen.

What's even more outrageous is that one time in class he actually picked up my suspenders with a pen. I was so angry that I turned around and knocked over his desk, and then the whole class Look at me.

The teacher asked me what I was doing, and I was too embarrassed to say anything. Then the teacher scolded me. I was so wronged that I cried in class. "

What she said brought back my memories. When I was in junior high school, I often had a little kid who would poke me with things.

After repeatedly failing to correct his behavior, I suddenly threw the stool back, turned around and knocked down his desk with my kick. He fell down with the desk and stool together, and he was in a miserable state.

We were in Chinese class at that time, and the Chinese teacher took us both out and gave us a lesson.

I feel guilty, but also happy because he really won’t dare to mess with me next time.

For me as a boy, it is not difficult at all for me to resist like this, but for a girl, it is really helpless sometimes.

Personal experience, your attitude towards jokes depends on your attitude towards jokes. I tell the truth as a joke, and others take it as a joke; you hope that others will understand your joke, so you use Take your jokes seriously because you want others to treat your jokes with this attitude. I hope you can understand. It's not that you can't take a joke, it's not that you have such a bad temper. Summary: Your jokes are all serious, and other people’s jokes are just jokes. People always like to use joking as an excuse to do things that hurt others to seek their own happiness.

In the end, when the victim is unhappy, they will say: You can’t afford it, you are so stingy.

It seems that "joking" has become a cloak for people to release their malice. As long as they wear it, they will not be responsible.

Everyone knows how sad it is for those who have been hurt.