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What should I do when I have conflicts with my family?
Family members are people under the same roof. When you get along with each other for a long time, it is inevitable that you will encounter disagreements in your feelings and life. Fighting for the front will only increase the gap between them. In the process of family communication, there are happy and smooth times and conflicts. Once a conflict occurs, China people like to take two extreme ways to deal with it: one is to avoid the conflict and deal with it coldly with patience, unwilling to argue with their families and unwilling to find a third party to decide; One is to shout loudly, get emotional, and force others to accept their own views and obey their own ideas. Both of them are wrong, especially the latter tends to intensify contradictions, from normal communication to quarrel, and soon from quarrel to physical struggle, which leads to domestic violence. The correct way is: when conflicts arise, we must follow the principles of empathy and reasoning and speculation, that is to say, we should calmly state our reasons on an equal footing. If we disagree with others' reasons, we can only convince them by reasoning, presenting facts and using speculation, without forcing them to accept your point of view. If both sides don't accept each other's views, you can say, "We can't reach an agreement. Let's put it aside for the time being and debate it next time." Or find a prestigious third party at home to decide. Don't raise your voice and get emotional. As the saying goes, "rationality is not high." Loud voices will only intensify contradictions and will not help solve conflicts. Composition 2: "Composition: Contradictions Happened" 5 words
Contradictions happen
, which will happen all the time. Anyone can quarrel with each other in any place as long as there are contradictions.
I have a sister who is ten years old. A friend is eleven years old. Almost every time they meet, they will quarrel and copy a sentence or two. At this time, I will come out to interrupt and they will stop. But one quarrel was different. It used to be a joke, but that one was different. That night, they were all in my house, adults were chatting in the living room, and we were all running back and forth in four rooms. There's nothing to do. We sat on the bed with glassy eyes, but Zhu Kewen (sister) kept moving there, which made Hu Wenqi (friend) and me uneasy, as if she would fall at any time and pull us down. However, this idea was soon dispelled, because Hu Wenqi suggested that we could choose photos on the computer. I breathed a sigh of relief and secretly rejoiced that I finally didn't have to suffer from my sister.
Within a few minutes of sitting in front of the computer, they started quarreling, and everyone thought the photos they chose were the best. Ten minutes later, they were still quarrelling, and the quarrel was around my ears, and the saliva was constantly sprayed on my face. My mood almost collapsed and I was furious: "Are you two finished?" If you want to make a noise outside, don't affect me. " So, I invited them to the adults. I told the whole story word for word, but they pretended to have nothing to do with themselves and went back to the back room. Hu Wenqi asked, "Obviously this one is good-looking, why do you say that one is good-looking?" At this moment, I can understand his feelings. Zhu Kewen couldn't say it, and his side was very quiet. I took the opportunity to insert a sentence: "Sit down and calm down. Everyone is a friend. Why?"
these two people are getting better, and quarreling is even worse. Composition 3: "I have a contradiction with my friends, 2 words" 23 words
I have a classmate named Chen Jinling, who is sometimes kind to me and sometimes always curses. Her hair is black and shiny, her skin is white and red, and she likes singing, dancing and painting. She is thin and short, and likes to wear skirts. It's summer vacation now, and she feels very hot. She stays at home all day, reading, watching TV, eating ice cream, doing homework and drawing, and sometimes doing housework. When the weather is fine, she will ask me and my classmates out for a walk and play. When she gets more than 98 points in the exam, she smiles and plays with us. When she gets less than 95 points in the exam, she will be furious and sulk in her chair. My classmate Chen Jinling is the monitor, I am the vice monitor, and we are both surnamed Chen, and our grades are in the top dozens, which is very predestined ~ Second grade of central primary school: Chen Jing instrument
Chapter 2: Write my good friend's composition in 2 words
Write my good friend's composition in 2 words, and you will never guess who my "good friend" is. Its name is "cigarette card". The patterns hong my cigarette card are really colorful, including Xu Beihong's Chinese painting, the characters in Water Margin, the world scenery, and two-part allegorical sayings, all of which I collected through painstaking efforts. I have a very old cigarette card, which was printed in February 1994. This one was bought by me with 2 cigarette cards, and it is also my favorite. Now I * * * collect more than 1 varieties and more than 2
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cigarette cards. I like cigarette cards, which make my life full of fun and increase my knowledge.
Chapter III: I helped my classmates write 2 words
I helped my classmates (2) Qian Jiehui of Hongwen School in Fengxian District, Shanghai. On Friday, my deskmate was sad because he didn't copy the homework assigned by the teacher well, and all the homework on the blackboard was wiped by his classmates. Besides, the teacher said that you can't miss a word of homework. When I was anxious at the same table, it suddenly occurred to me that the teacher said, if the students next to me don't copy their homework well, please lend them a copy. Thinking of this, I gave my homework notebook to my deskmate without hesitation. The deskmate took the homework notebook and copied it quickly. When he finished copying his homework, he happily returned it to me, and then he played happily. (Instructor: Huang Yuanjie)
Chapter 4: My Good Friend's Composition 2 words
In this beautiful world, there is a person who is not as great as a mother's love and so selfless as a father's love, but her love is to stand by your side quietly and listen to all your troubles and happiness when your parents are away. This person's name is friend. Inscription
Someone once told me that friends are just passers-by in your life, and they are not worthy of your nostalgia, let alone your cherish. I used to believe it, but after I actually handed it in, I found that it was not like that.
I remember that snowy night. I hid in the balcony of my bedroom and cried secretly, letting the tears slide quietly across my face and fall quietly without interest. She came back from studying at
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last night and went to the balcony to see me crying. I tread softly and don't turn on the light, for fear of scaring me. She sat down naturally and asked me kindly: What's the matter, do you miss your mother, or who bullied you? At that time, because I especially wanted to talk to someone, I told her without thinking: Ye Zhirui in our class was going to break up with me, and I didn't want to. But she said that the reason why she broke up with me was that I had a bad temper. When I got better, she would play with me again. Ye Zhirui is my best friend at school. I have always been accommodating to her. I don't know why. After she broke up with me, no one in the class played with me. I don't know what to do. After I finished this, I was crying. While wiping my tears, she looked at the silent sky and said to me: Actually, you know, when I first came to this school, I was also very lonely. No one talked to me and I was treated as a stranger by my classmates, but I refused to admit defeat. I kept saying to myself, It doesn't matter, I must be strong and I can't let others look down on me. So, you should be strong and be yourself. I will always be with you, be your best friend, and never say goodbye to you. Let me give you warmth. Stop crying, okay? I nodded like a child who did something wrong and gently took her hand. I stopped crying and looked at her with a smile.
From then on, we became friends who talked about everything. When I am happy, she will be happy with me; When I encounter difficulties, she will face them bravely with me; When I am lost; She will try to make me happy again. At that time, I was really happy (reposted at wWw.zAIdian.cOM: 2 words of contradictory composition between my friends and me), and she was always such a good person. But God is always so unsatisfactory that she left me.
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During the summer vacation, she called me and asked me a strange question. She said, What if I can't come back? At that time, I thought she was joking, so I smiled and said it was impossible. Who knows, before long, all this has become a reality. I called her in tears and asked her why again and again, asking her to say it was false. But facts are facts and cannot be changed. Throughout the summer vacation, I used time to heal my wounds and recall the happy bits and pieces of the past. Finally, I decided to face it bravely. Whether she is with me or not, we are still the last friends. Through this matter, let our friendship become stronger. Now, when I have time, I will call her and tell her what interesting things happened that day and share them with her. She often chats with me and writes to me. Sometimes, although she is far away, I feel that she is in a corner beside me, watching me quietly.
Yao Yao, I want to tell you that even if you are not with me, even if you leave me. But you are still my dearest friend. Meeting you in my life is my happiest thing. Remember, no matter how far you are from me and where you go, you and I are my good friends. This reminds me of Mr. Yu Qiuyu's words:
Is it easy to come to the world once? Is it easy to meet once?
Is it easy to call a friend? It is still the same sentence
Learn to cherish and be careful. Yao Yao, having you is enough.
article 5: composition: my good friend writes 2 words
[composition: my good friend writes 2 words]
Ji Ruyi's personality is lively and cheerful, and I feel very happy with her, so
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article: my good friend writes 2 words. Because our personalities are very similar, we soon became good friends who talked about everything. We talked about interesting things in our respective schools, our beloved toys, and small games on the computer. Our laughter echoed in the room.
Ji Ruyi is not only excellent in school, but also versatile ~ She has learned a lot of skills in her spare time. Look ~ She is not only a small calligrapher, but also an expert in table tennis, chess and swimming
After listening to my introduction, do you also want to make friends with her?
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5 Composition 4: "After Conflict with Teachers" 12 words
Conflicts with teachers. Generally speaking, misunderstandings between teachers and students are common and normal, and it is normal for teachers to criticize students, but there will never be a problem of "revenge", and teachers will not be so stingy as to ignore students. Therefore, as a student, we should treat the teacher's criticism correctly. There is no teacher who is not good for the students, and there is absolutely no need to worry about it. Therefore, when this happens, first of all, we should face up to our mistakes, accept the consequences, and sincerely apologize to the teacher. Only in this way can we let go of the burden, otherwise we will always be bitter and affect our physical and mental health and development.
so, what should be done to make up for the conflict with the teacher?
Suggestions: 1. Make an objective analysis to avoid preconceptions jj.bcjy./
First, think that the teacher intentionally loses face for the students in class; The second is that the teacher "bears a grudge" and says hello to him. In fact, the causes of these two views are subjective doubts and are not realistic. Because there is no objective analysis of the problem, the irrelevant things are subjectively linked together, resulting in trouble. Of course, teachers should also make convincing criticism on the basis of careful investigation to avoid misunderstanding and students' harm. Students should also be able to produce contradictory subjective factors. In this way, the contradiction between teachers and students is easy to solve.
suggestion 2: be psychologically compatible, be more tolerant and understand
Everyone lives in a social group and contacts some people every day. It is rare to be unified in communication, and some "bumps" will inevitably occur. If the small friction is handled properly, it can be "turned into a jade"; If it is not handled well, it will leave a "hidden danger". When the teacher is lecturing in class with great interest, there are students passing notes below, and sometimes it is unclear who passed the notes first. In the communication between teachers and students, if there are differences and frictions, we should think about whether the other party is intentional, whether their words and deeds are misleading, and how we should correctly understand our own shortcomings and mistakes, that is to say, be open-minded. In this way, you will be calm and reasonable, and you will admit your mistakes if you are unreasonable. At the same time, think about the teacher and exchange places to understand. There are so many students in the classroom that problems have occurred, and it is difficult for the teacher to judge accurately. Therefore, the teacher is a human being, not a god, and it is impossible to work miracles, so mistakes are inevitable. In this way, understanding will be tolerant, contradictions will be solved, and a closer relationship will be established between teachers and students.
Recommendation 3: Respect teachers and avoid public arguments
In China, the relationship between teachers and students is divided into old and young, and it is also an equal relationship between comrades. Teachers and students should be sincere, friendly and frank. When there are differences and conflicts with teachers, students should take the initiative to exchange views with teachers individually, state their ideas and listen to the teacher's advice. They must not argue with teachers in public to prevent the differences from becoming public and expanding, so as to safeguard the prestige of teachers and create favorable conditions for eliminating differences.
Recommendation 4: Seek common ground while reserving differences and avoid conflicts
If it is difficult to agree on the differences with the teacher for a while, you can seek common ground while reserving differences and reserve your own different opinions. If a teacher makes unfair treatment, he should remain calm. In addition to further complaining his opinions to the teacher, he can also reflect them to the higher-level organizations through normal procedures to safeguard his legitimate rights and interests.
Suggestion 5: Improve self-cultivation, respect teachers and pay attention to teaching
Teachers are communicators of human culture and play a bridge role in the inheritance and development of human culture. In the growth of students, all teachers' hard work is condensed. Today, respecting teachers has become an important manifestation of respecting knowledge, talents and science, reflecting the level of spiritual civilization of the whole society. Respecting one's teachers is the most basic moral requirement of students. Composition 5: A conflict between my family and me in 4 words
A conflict between my family and me
Conflicts often occur. Sometimes conflicts arise when you make a mistake and don't admit it. You didn't make a mistake ~ you were wronged by others ~ and there will be conflicts. Once I was wronged by my mother for no reason.
In the summer of 25, my mother bought a beautiful vase at the flower and bird market.
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