If you are not strong enough, people will laugh at you.

When the university is about to graduate, everyone is "overwhelmed" by the graduation thesis, and the tutor is "competing" with us.

One day, the tutor called us to the office and asked us to bring a USB flash drive to read the paper. Basically, everyone has some problems more or less. Careful tutors help us find out and tell us how to correct it.

Roommate A is in front of me, because she has many questions, and the teacher points them out angrily. It took me more than 20 minutes to queue up. I saw her walk away, her eyes full of disdain. It was my turn to play, and I glanced at her expectant eyes out of the corner of my eye. Fortunately, the problem is not serious, but the format and the last few paragraphs need to be revised.

After returning to the dormitory, she said to me, "Bekka (my nickname), we have the most questions this time. I think the teacher is a little angry with you, please correct it! "

Shit, the teacher is very angry with you! Don't feel bad, project it on my head and drag me into the water! My questioning teacher only said two points, okay!

In the face of the shrew's "praise", my heart is like a raging wave after a typhoon. But the thought of graduating soon and never seeing each other again in my life made me endure.

People generally don't pay attention to you, but as soon as you have a "good thing", she immediately says "congratulations", hoping that all such "good things" will appear on you.

Once, because I didn't fill in the form carefully, there were several "mistakes", and the teacher named me in the group to redo it. So roommate B went online immediately, and she said, "Oh, you wonderful work, there are four problems in five forms, and the teacher said you in the group ..."

At that time, I looked at her "voice and smile" and really wanted to have a tear with her. What's so funny? You just want to see my jokes! Laugh to death, you bitch!

After these two things happened, I found that there were very few people who comforted you after encountering things, and many people "hit people when they were down". Some people feel bad about themselves and don't forget to pull a mat to make themselves feel better; People just like to watch you sniff. The more humiliated you are, the happier she will be.

Later, I finally figured out why such things often happen to me. I found the answer from other people's counterexamples-because I am not strong enough to be bullied!

A friend of mine in college is just the opposite of me. She is also my best friend.

My best friend and I seem to have grown up wearing the same pair of trousers since childhood, and the shortcomings are too similar. For example, we forget things and often lose things; Often go out of the dormitory door without a key; I don't like classes. I often skip classes together ... just like me. I'm so happy!

But she's not like me. She is often not in the dormitory, and spends every day in clubs and student unions. She often organizes activities and is flexible. Teachers attach great importance to her. Later, when she ran for vice chairman, her speech became more and more dominant, and I became more and more "degenerate".

The students also treat her differently. She didn't take her key when she went out, and her roommates were very tolerant of her. There are often schoolmates around to please her; Her paper was brushed over and over by the teacher, but her roommate comforted her and felt wronged for her, saying that the teacher deliberately embarrassed her!

Shit! If I were me, I would be killed by jokes or drowned by saliva!

The same thing happened, but it was treated unfairly. All right! I admit that I am not strong enough, and I will always be laughed at.

When you are not strong enough, others can't see your good points. At this time, everyone is a "magnifying glass", and they will magnify your mistakes, or even make them out of nothing. The purpose of doing this is to make me happy when I see you unhappy. It is said that the happiness of others is based on your pain!

When you are not strong enough, what do you take to protect yourself! You are blx at this time, and any words from others may hurt you.

This is a "strong" society, and the tears of the weak are worthless. Don't complain about the "power" of others. Only when you are strong will the world be gentle with you. You are not strong, others will only treat you as a joke.

Those bitches who used to laugh at me, I will give you a loud slap one day.

When you are not strong enough, when you can't persist, think about the eyes that are despised and laughed at by others, and take this as the internal motivation.

To make ourselves strong, we all need to "upgrade" from the outside to the inside.

(1), work hard and make others admire you!

The most terrible thing is not that you have a low starting point, but that you can't see hope and give up yourself prematurely.

Hard work is not necessarily successful, and there is no chance of success without hard work. When you encounter difficulties, you must grit your teeth and stick to it. Work and life are our Dojo, so practice well through work, let yourself gain wealth and stand in a higher position to see the world!

As long as you are willing to work hard, you will eventually turn over. You will not only get honor and status, but also get the attention of others.

(2) Cultivate internal strength and strengthen your heart through reading.

Don't give up reading, although it can't bring you immediate benefits.

The ancients said: there are poetry books in the belly. Although you can't remember the books you read, they are all hidden in your temperament and in your speech. Books will teach us a lot, and you can learn everything from work to life. As you accumulate more and more knowledge, you will become more and more confident and have a deeper conversation with others.

Others only live for a lifetime, but if you spend several generations in other people's stories through reading, your mind will be more mature than your peers and your ability to resist setbacks will be stronger. Unconsciously, your heart is getting stronger and stronger.

(3) Pay attention to appearance and improve your image and temperament through fitness.

Yang Lan said, "No one wants to see your excellent inside through your sloppy appearance". Improving appearance is also an aspect of a strong self.

I have to admit that this is a society that looks at faces! Yan value is higher than opportunity. Although there are few natural beauties, it does not rule out the "beauties" cultivated in the later period.

Wendy Wang, a well-known "smart sister", is over 40 years old, but through fitness and shaping, her figure and skin are kept like a girl!

We are born with defects, but we can cultivate it the day after tomorrow! As long as you eat properly and exercise together, you will also become a temperament beauty!

When we become stronger and stronger, we seem to be wearing a "golden bell jar". At this time, what others say is hard to obey, and it can't hurt us, because we are living another self!

I am not strong now, but I am much stronger than before.

I am on the way to make myself stronger now. Every Saturday and Sunday off, I also meet customers, and if I see one more, I will have one more chance to clinch a deal; Reading books every day has become as natural as eating and breathing; Recently, I am also preparing to enter the gym to make myself better!

When we are not strong enough, we feel that dogs are bullying you; When we are strong, there will be beautiful people in the world to meet us.

One day, your strength will give a powerful counterattack to those who laugh at you!

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I hope my article can inspire you!