What should I do if I break up with my good friends?

You can't force yourself to give up this friendship with peace of mind. If the other person really regards you as a friend, he won't dislike you. Maybe the other person didn't really make you a friend. Give up what you should, since you know you can't stay, why embarrass yourself?

The most important thing for friends to get along with each other is to understand and help each other. They are equal, and there should be no such bored attitude. If that's the case, you should consider what's wrong with your friendship, whether you can still resolve the contradiction, and whether it is necessary to continue to be friends. If it's just a single rejection by a friend, maybe you can understand it, maybe it's because the friend was in a bad mood at that time, etc., and you can also give yourself a psychological comfort. If this is always the case, there is no need to continue.

I had a very good friend before. We were classmates in high school, and we both stayed in the same city to work after graduating from college. In this way, there will be more time to meet each other, eat and play. Slowly, the good part of each other, there was a time when I was not very happy at work, and my heart was very uncomfortable. I often complained to her and confided to her. Once I went shopping with her, and then she took the initiative to ask me about my work. At first, I consciously reminded myself not to complain all the time, just say a few words lightly to deal with the past, and not always impose my complaints on others.

? But she always asks me, and I think she really cares about me, so I talked to her more. Then she dumped her bitter water for a long time like her. At first, it was nothing. She gave me some advice and pointed out what was wrong. I didn't hold back at that time either. Maybe I said too much and she didn't want to listen, so she indirectly changed the subject and then talked about her recent affairs. She said that she has not been very happy recently. One of her colleagues is breaking up with her boyfriend and sending her negative energy every day. Now she is particularly annoyed and unwilling to contact her more.

? I understood her implication at that time, maybe I was too sensitive. However, we haven't contacted each other for a long time after that. Maybe we both know each other well and don't want to talk about it. Later, I realized that for those who don't cherish you, there is really no need to continue to stick a hot face to a cold ass. If you should let go, let go. The earth will turn the same without anyone. It is the most important thing to make yourself happy. There is no need to worry about it.