Three years ago, a single strong woman spent 500,000 yuan to buy a sperm child and gave birth to a five-nation mixed-race daughter. What is the current situation?

There is such a scene in a popular urban love drama called "Crossing the Ocean to See You":

Su Mang, the hostess, found that her handsome husband could not have children after marrying into a rich family, so she chose to borrow sperm to have children under the comfort and persuasion of her mother-in-law.

In the eyes of the public deeply influenced by traditional ideas, this is just to pave the way for a better plot.

Although there is a safe and complete medical system for sperm delivery, it is still difficult for the general public in China to accept it.

However, it is this kind of birth mode that ordinary people can't accept for a while, but it came to a person three years ago. She is Ye Haiyang, a 3 1 year-old Changchun girl.

It's just that this is Ye Haiyang's choice after careful consideration.

I want a home.

Ye Haiyang was born in an ordinary family in Changchun, Jilin. Standing in the vast sea of people, she didn't feel any different.

Compared with a girl born in a water town in the south of the Yangtze River, she is an authentic northerner, with a lively and cheerful personality and a straightforward and free-spirited personality.

Ye Haiyang, who works hard in Beijing, always fantasizes that he can have a spacious and bright mansion, his own lifestyle and relatively free income when he returns to that cold and humid basement at night.

Dreams need hard work, and they also need hard work.

When Ye Haiyang was 28 years old, this initial dream came true. She not only has her own house in a metropolis like Guangzhou, but also has her own company and became the CEO of a cosmetics company.

On the way forward in life, when we get something, we always miss some people or lose something inadvertently.

Ye Haiyang, who has initially achieved his goal in life, found that most of his friends are married and start businesses.

The mother's repeated questioning also made the 28-year-old Ye Haiyang realize that he had reached the age of having children. Only then did she realize that she was still alone.

Whenever Ye Haiyang and friends of the opposite sex appear in his mother's eyes, there are always strange and happy eyes. I hope this person in front of me can become a person who takes care of her daughter's life, and Ye Haiyang has long yearned for love.

Ye Haiyang, who has achieved something in her career, has never met anyone who makes her move in her life.

When night fell, the tired Ye Haiyang returned to her big empty house, with only her own shadow around her.

In the dark, the cold moonlight shines on her, and a sense of loneliness slowly haunts her heart. Ye Haiyang also began to feel that it was time to have a real home.

After much deliberation, Ye Haiyang had a bold idea. Since she hasn't been with the other half, let's have a baby that makes her uneasy.

Cross the ocean to find you

Life is like summer flowers. There are no two identical roads in life, just as there are no two identical leaves in the world. Life is gorgeous, and everyone has the right to pursue his own life.

Ye Haiyang finally strengthened his confidence and took the first step that others could not fully understand. She wants to borrow sperm.

After everything was ready, Ye Haiyang crossed the ocean and came to the United States alone to start picking her own seeds.

After a thousand choices, she found what she wanted, sperm donated by a man with four national lineages.

Ye Haiyang also made all preparations until this seed with dreams was pushed into her body.

Before doing anything, we always feel that we have made all the preparations. Ye Haiyang, who spent more than 500 thousand to buy this seed, felt the same way.

She is happy and full of expectation for the arrival of this new life with five ethnic origins, but she still ignores the lack of a journey.

After pregnancy, Ye Haiyang's weight soared, and the once gentle girl became bloated. Her heart was afraid for the first time. She is afraid that she can't go back. Maybe she even doubted whether she had made the right choice. Her heart is full of doubts.

When she went to the hospital for a checkup alone, other mothers always had a soon-to-be father to accompany her, which made her feel very happy, but Ye Haiyang was always alone.

Perhaps this is something that Ye Haiyang never thought of. She will face such a scene, which is also an emotional lack before she gave birth to this new life.

When all expectations are born, it is the most gratifying and satisfying moment for a person.

Be pregnant in October and give birth once. When Ye Haiyang was pushed into the operating room, her heart was tense and full of expectations. It was not until a cry rang in her ear that she felt it was all worth it.

Give you all the love.

If you ask who is the greatest person in the world, it is undoubtedly the mother. The mother used the needle and thread in her hand to make clothes for her long-distance son. Children have always been the mother's concern.

The same is true of Ye Haiyang, a new mother. This baby girl with five national lineages touches every nerve of her.

Crying is the most direct way of communication between children and mothers, just like a dragonfly, although it can make ripples with just a touch.

Ye Haiyang doesn't dare to sleep for this baby every night. He is even more worried about this baby. She did what a mother should do.

Since you have chosen to welcome the arrival of this life, you will lose your feelings.

Ye Haiyang chose to take care of his lovely daughter alone and gave up love. She didn't want the intervention of another man to affect the quiet life of their mother and daughter. She is willing to be a competent mother and chooses to be a competent father.

"Where am I from?" This is a question that everyone asks in childhood. In 70' s and 80' s, I seem to believe that I picked it up from the roadside, but for 00, 10, maybe no one will believe this answer, even children aged 4 or 5.

Ye Haiyang is also facing such a problem. She thought about all kinds of answers, and finally influenced the girl with a fairy tale.

To explain this problem, Ye Haiyang hollowed out a watermelon and made a video. Tell this new life that she came out of a watermelon.

For adults, it may be just a childish joke, but for children, it is more like a well-meaning fairy tale.

Now the little girl and Ye Haiyang grow up carefree together. Ye Haiyang also came out of the whirlpool of public opinion three years ago, and everything was calm.

Some people say that she is selfish, just to get a child for herself, but not to give her a complete family. Some people say that this is her own choice, and onlookers are not qualified to evaluate it. Some people even rise to the issue of equality between men and women.

I think the reason why Ye Haiyang was able to have children by sperm at that time was based on the social acceptance at that time.