Humor and social eloquence

People pay more and more attention to the importance of eloquence, and verbal humor has become the highest standard to measure eloquence. Therefore, it is particularly important to master and use humorous skills in verbal communication. Learn humor and eloquence every day to make your life colorful. So what methods can improve our sense of humor? The following is my carefully selected humor and social eloquence, hoping to help you.

Today's society is a society of competition and cooperation. Only by being good at communication can you succeed. There is a golden saying in business, a promotion in politics and an old saying in life. A good word warms three winters, but a bad word hurts six months.

Whether you can speak in modern communication affects a person's success or failure. Humor is the display of wisdom and talent. In a quiet life, humor is a ripple in the lake; In the heroic endeavor, humor is the spray in the torrent; In the predicament of failure, humor is the starlight in the night.

Self-deprecating humor makes people feel humble and open-minded, which can relax the tense atmosphere and bring strange hearts closer. John, a famous American black lawyer. When Mark published Emancipation of Slaves, most of the audience were white, but they were generally hostile to black people. Therefore, he gave up the original "opening remarks" and said, "Ladies and gentlemen, I came here to add some color to this occasion, not to make a speech." "The whole audience laughed, and the opposition was dispelled by laughter. A few hours later, the venue was in order.

Teasing humor makes ordinary things interesting and adds a landscape to ordinary life. A chess fan, whose chess skills are not high, loves chess as much as his life, and has repeatedly lost chess with others. Someone asked him the result and replied, "I didn't win the first set, he didn't lose the second set, and I didn't let him kill the third set." In the end, people have the final say, he doesn't want to! " This kind of face-saving ridicule makes people laugh, and there is also a naughty and lovely ridicule.

Metaphorical humor can make people feel profound knowledge and rich associations, and bring your thoughts to a vast space. A reader called to see Mr Qian Zhongshu, the author of Fortress Besieged. Mr. Qian replied, "You eat eggs and feel delicious. Why do you want to know the chicken that laid them?"

Antagonistic humor embodies wit and agility. One day, the great German poet Goethe was walking in the park and met a critic who opposed him on a narrow road. The arrogant critic said, "Do you know? I never give way to fools. " Goethe said, "I am just the opposite." Say that finish and let the critics pass. This antagonistic humor is intriguing.

Humor is also the diluent of marital conflict. An amateur writer and his wife didn't talk to each other for several days after their quarrel. The wife wrote an application for divorce in a rage. Seeing the seriousness of the problem, the friend had a brainwave, picked up a printed rejection slip and played a joke on his wife. He wrote: "The manuscript was received, and after repeated research, it was not adopted. Now return the manuscript. Thank you for your support! " His wife couldn't help laughing when she saw it. The husband and wife made up.

Humor has brought a lot of laughter to the world. Humor inspires people in laughter. Life is beautiful because of humor, and life is relaxed because of humor. Humor is an irresistible landscape in life!

The most basic characteristics of humorous eloquence:

First, it must be interesting or ridiculous.

This is the aesthetic feature of humor. Humor is to make people laugh, but to achieve their own happiness by satirizing others. That kind of humor is not beautiful at all, and it makes people feel bad, causing many people to resent themselves.

Second, it must be meaningful.

Humor must not be like garbage, lost and forgotten. Be sure to remember carefully, it will still be funny in the future. Therefore, humor must be appropriate. If you always act like a clown, nothing is serious. Naturally, we can't feel the real meaning of relieving our mood behind humor, but we all know what the other party is going to say, and there is no fun at all.

However, humor has little to do with irony. Humor is called "a gentle and beautiful girl", while satire, like a dagger, hurts people.

Suggestions on cultivating humorous eloquence;

1, has a profound life experience.

2, keen insight and imagination

3. Noble and elegant demeanor and a confident, optimistic and relaxed mood.

4. Have good reading and writing skills and language skills.

You can't really understand humor if you don't use it correctly. Humor will lead to many different opinions, and not being optimistic will suffer.

Humor is the lubricant of life communication and plays an important role in people's lives. But we can't forget that life is colorful. Therefore, when using humor, never abuse humor. A punch line can bring relaxation and strength, but a steady stream of punch lines, jokes and satires can also cut off communication. We may meet such people, which will make us feel at a loss and have to escape from the powerful humorous bombing.

Sometimes we will meet people with witty remarks, but don't start from the heart of competition. But to listen to his connotation and learn from each other's strengths. If you have an unfair idea in your heart and just want to overwhelm the other person with humor, it may make the atmosphere tense, arouse the hatred of the other person and lead to other people's attacks on you in the future. Humor is to make communication more harmonious, communicate with people with laughter generated by humor, and make the atmosphere very pleasant.

We can watch a few funny jokes first:

-Snakes, ants, spiders and centipedes play cards at home. After playing for a while, everyone discussed buying drinks. The snake said, I have no feet. I'm not going. Let the ants go. The ant said: A spider has eight feet, more than mine. Let the spider go. Spider said: My feet are no match for centipedes. Release the centipede. Centipede helpless, no way, who let me have long feet? So the centipede went out to buy drinks. For more than an hour, the centipede didn't come back. Two hours later, the centipede didn't come back. So everyone let the spider go out and have a look. As soon as the spider went out, he saw the centipede sitting at the door. The spider was very angry and asked, why don't you go? Everyone is waiting. The centipede was also anxious and said, nonsense! You have to wait for me to put on my shoes!

A snail was walking on the road and a turtle ran over him. Later, the snail was sent to the hospital for emergency treatment. When the snail regained consciousness, the police asked about him. The snail replied, "I don't remember. He was too fast."