What are some useful tricks for coaxing children?

My four-year-old already knows how to trick us. However, at this stage, he still sometimes resorts to some tricks.

1. It’s all because the mother held her in the wrong posture just now

I took my child to get a flu vaccine. He reacted more sensitively, had a fever, and had cold hands and feet (experienced parents know this is If the body temperature continues to rise, the child will feel very uncomfortable at this time). When you feel uncomfortable, you will find fault with your mother: you need to be hugged, accompanied, clingy, humming...

If it happens during the sensitive period of order, good guy, you have to drink several bottles a day.

Why is it that little things are bothering me today (I really forgot about Datiao’s mother). Looking at the baby, whose face was red and about to burst, I had an idea:

Oh my, I understand, my mother's posture when holding you just now was incorrect. Let's change the posture (when we came here, we held him like a bundle of firewood across our waist).

Then I changed my position, hugged him and laughed, successfully resolving a crisis that continued to stalemate.

2. Help Ledi drink some water, and help the little elf in the belly eat some vegetables

Drink more water when you have a fever. We have many methods, such as reading In front of a picture book, you have to drink water for the little characters in the book. But what about when you are not studying (children will be even less willing to drink water if their throats are sore):

Help mom drink some water, she was thirsty from studying just now

Dad can’t go to work alone? Do you know if you have any water? Help Dad drink some water.

Help Super Wings drink some water. He should be thirsty during the mission.

......

My child Very sincere and will really help you drink.

Some children don’t like eating vegetables very much. We were more persistent at first (now that he is more Buddhist, it’s OK if he has some varieties that he likes to eat). We read popular science picture books and told him There are no barbs on the hands after eating green vegetables, but in practice, he sometimes resists, so we said:

The elves probably want to eat this green vegetable...

< p>Then he helped the elf to eat it seriously. He was really a very honest child.

3. Anthropomorphic techniques (asking for opinions on toys)

My toys are not allowed in the bedroom. Even if you ask your child to take them, he won’t. Because I told him at the beginning:

Toys also have their own home, and he wants to sleep in his own home.

So he would insist on sending them back to his home before he went to bed. Please allow me to laugh to the sky for ten minutes. You must know that he was only more than one year old when he was raised, and it was very useful in the days after. Hahahahahahahahaha

Now that I am 4 years old and have entered a period of frequent social interaction, what should I do if the children are snatching toys from each other? I put my finger on my mouth and said "Shhh":

I heard the ruler When you speak, please keep your voice down.

Then:

Hello ruler, I am so-and-so’s mother, oh, yes, yes, yes, okay, okay, I understand, this will hurt you a little. ,OK. What to do? Oh, okay, okay, let them play for ten minutes each. Well, I will remember to set the alarm clock.

After listening attentively to me answering the call from "Ruler", the little people were distracted and actually forgot about "I have to have this one, and nothing else will do."

This personification technique/storytelling is relatively well accepted by children and can be used in many places, not limited to the two examples given.

4. Talking sarcastically (never stand up)

Still today, he was lying on the floor groaning and rolling around in discomfort, and asked me to carry him to the sofa. I don't want to hug. He said he wanted to roll onto the sofa, and I said:

Keep rolling like this, it’s beautiful! You can't transform, you must not stand up, no, lie down quickly (you have already stood up with a laugh), keep rolling, no, don't come over. Go back quickly...

The key is the atmosphere. Maintaining a pleasant atmosphere is the real purpose.

Sometimes his dad and I will pretend to "whisper", shh~

5. Let's play a game

This trick can be used at any time , a very common thing, as long as you say it is a game, the children will get excited. Your game is clumsy, and the motive is obviously inducement or something. My family is very tolerant, and they will cooperate and be cheerful if they see through it.

Including but not limited to: boring driving, boring sports training, boring all the time.

Our commonly used games include: talking about antonyms (suitable for me when I am driving and can only talk to him), and talking about tongue twisters (don’t mention it when the children say "the class leader does not fight the class leader" in a coquettish voice) How funny, you must try it at home), guess riddles and test the meaning of English words. If you can interact: hide-and-seek, some small competitions (scissors, baggage and hammer are one), imitate each other, guess expressions...

6. Then let me test you (I will also let him depending on the situation) Test me, or "supervise" us to abide by the rules)

This is something he knows the correct answer but doesn't want to do but has to do. I asked him a question:

A. Don’t wash your hands before eating

B. Wash your hands before eating

The correct answer is:...

He is always very motivated to choose the correct answer. This saves us from talking about hard truths.

Then I said:

Congratulations on getting the answer right, then let’s wash our hands (washing our hands is just to give an example).