My friends always like to borrow my car. How can we avoid it?

I'll tell you a story, and you'll understand how to avoid your friend borrowing the car.

I once saw a real case-I can't remember their names, but the plot of the story is still fresh in my memory.

Friends A and B are good friends, and friends C and B have a special relationship. C wants to go out on business and invites B to go with him. To show off, B offered that his friend A had just bought a BMW and could borrow it. Unexpectedly, there was a car accident on the way, and the traffic police sentenced both parties to repair the car. Although there was nothing serious wrong with people, the car was seriously damaged. Out of friendship, Party A reluctantly asked Party B to repair the car. As a result, when I went to the garage for inspection, B and C were surprised: the repair cost100000.

B has just been married for three months, and C is in a difficult financial situation. They are in a dilemma. They all have evil thoughts to repair their friends' cars. After stepping on the spot, they rented a car and robbed a gold shop in Fujian. When they got there, they both killed each other, and naturally they were sentenced to death.

Before the execution, wife B met his wife.

Second wife; "Do you regret the disaster of self-immolation now?"

B: "alas! I thought I wanted a better life. "

Second wife; "Life is gone, what can we talk about happiness?

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From this bloody lesson, we can see that borrowing a car not only damages our economy (only we have to pay the repair fee of100000 yuan), but also harms two lives, which is really self-inflicted.

A friend borrows a car, but he can't borrow it with a driver's license, and he can't borrow it without a driver's license. If you start with the loyalty of your friends, once it leads to unimaginable consequences, then the bitter fruit tree you planted will only be tasted by yourself.

Friends can refuse to borrow a car through friends or secretly: if they refuse, they will make it clear where the benefits lie, and if they refuse, they will make friends lose the idea of borrowing a car. The code word refuse to load means that the brakes of the car are not working or the car has a major fault and needs to be repaired.

You can say half-jokingly on the wine table, "The car is my mistress, and I don't want this wife to cheat" ... People who are sensible will understand what you mean, or you won't wake a person who pretends to sleep.

Cars are the means of transportation for modern people, especially in big cities, which are convenient for commuting and living, and have spread to thousands of households.

You said that your friend always likes to borrow your car for the following reasons: first, he has a license plate and no car, or his car is not up to standard.

Second, your model, style, capacity, color and driving comfort are all his favorites. Especially the price of your car, which he envied for a long time. He wants to have it, and he doesn't have enough money, but he still wants to drive it out and make his face shine. Whether your friends like it or not, every time you want to go out by car to enjoy the scenery, the first thing that comes to mind is your friends.

People sometimes make mistakes. The first time a friend opens his mouth, he has to satisfy it out of respect, so that he can shut up. Otherwise, if you refuse him, he will say that you are stingy and heartless, and it will be embarrassing for friends to meet again. Lend it to him, your heart is full of reluctance, and you have to say, "Okay, small things, drive carefully!" " "。

He drove away, and your heart began to tremble. You are worried about whether the car will be dirty and broken. This buddy can't drink, something will happen ... In short, when the car comes back, your heart will be relieved, and you will pray "this time, it won't happen again".

However, if a friend has something to do, he will borrow your car, which makes you very helpless and inconvenient. You said you couldn't always make this excuse in the future. In short, as soon as he called, he was afraid that he would ask to borrow the car, which made him have a shadow in his heart.

In that case, you might as well tell him directly: "I need to use the car every day, and I'm afraid I won't have a chance to lend it to you in the future." Sorry, man. " I think he will be embarrassed if he wants to borrow your car again.

A car is a means of transportation, so you'd better use your own. You are the owner and others use your car. Everything is unpredictable. If something goes wrong, you are the first to be found. You are very cautious. I hope your friends won't give you any trouble. Hello, I'm good, everyone.

In view of this situation that others come to borrow the car, we can find several reasons to refuse. First of all, you can get rid of it with other things. For example, if someone borrows your car, you can say that I have something to do later and I want to drive. Don't be shy when someone borrows your car at this time. After all, the car is your own, and others can borrow it only when you are not using it. But there is another kind of person in the world, the thick-skinned one. If your reasons are not sufficient, it may be difficult to refuse. At this time, you can tell him that the car is broken and the brake system is not sensitive. Recently, you dare not drive by yourself. When he hears this, he will probably give up. After all, he can't joke about his life safety.

If you get married and someone comes to borrow your car, you can refuse it on the pretext of family. After all, the phenomenon of being afraid of his wife is quite common in society. If you say your wife won't let you borrow the car, there's nothing anyone can do. Another is that you can directly explain the serious consequences of borrowing a car, that is, once an accident happens, the owner will be responsible, whether the owner drives himself or not, so that when he realizes the seriousness of the problem, he will not ask someone to borrow the car casually. It can be said that the problem of borrowing a car is a headache for many car owners. If there is no problem, once there is a problem, it is your responsibility, and some people borrow the car and don't like to refuel, and they make the car messy. Such people can be said to be very incompetent. So when you don't want to lend your car to others, you can try the above method, which is quite effective.

Men should follow the three no-borrows: don't borrow their favorite car, don't borrow their own house, and don't borrow people who work together.

Don't borrow your favorite car.

A man's favorite car is his second home.

Men drive their favorite cars and take their favorite people to the places they want to go! [flash] [flash]

Men need to take care of their wives and children at home, care about their parents, be dutiful sons, husbands and fathers, and maintain the relationship between their wives and children and their parents; Men are soldiers outside, even if they are humiliated, they are fearless, but for the home behind them!

Only when a person sits alone in the car is he himself. You can cry, you can laugh, you can complain about injustice, you need to lick the wound and hide the wound that you don't want to be seen by your family! ! [Cool drag]

It is the most intimate spiritual sustenance for a man not to borrow his car.

In addition, if a man really lends his car generously, he will be fine when there is no accident. Once there are some problems, such as the car being scraped, the penalty being deducted for violation of regulations, etc., it is also possible for a friend to take the initiative to solve these things. If he doesn't notice, should you remind him? Should I remind him if he ignores it on purpose? If he insists on being irresponsible, will his friend do it? [dizzy] [dizzy]

In modern society, there are not so many life and death and * * *, a friend in need is a friend indeed, and there are only feelings that are killed by trifles! !

There is a saying in the interview that neither the car nor the wife is borrowed. Although it is only a joke, it is enough to prove the importance of cars to us.

I can lend you money, but I still can't borrow the car. This is what I once said to a friend. It may be a little unreasonable, but it can save me the trouble I may bring after borrowing the car.

Cars are not lent out. Expensive is only one aspect, not the main aspect. Mainly related to traffic violations, accidents and even human lives.

We will also be more careful when driving by ourselves, obey the traffic rules, don't run red lights and violate the rules. But the person who borrowed your car is different …

Some people, because the car is not their own, will not be so reluctant to drive, so they cherish it. Small bumps in the car are small things. If you run a red light or something, you will not only have to deduct money but also deduct points. A traffic accident is even worse.

Finally, I borrowed the car kindly, because there was a traffic accident, and I might turn from a friend to an enemy.

So this friend always likes to borrow his car. When worried objects and friends borrow your car, they will refuse it directly. There is no need to make any excuses. He always borrows it. You can't always make excuses.

Explain to him that you can't borrow the car. A friend can understand. If he can't read it, he won't borrow it again.

Of course, you may not be friends anymore!

In any case, it is best not to borrow the car, not only for your own good, but also for the borrower's good!

I can drive you, but I can't lend my car to my friends. If my friend keeps asking, I will consider whether this friend should keep a distance.

The car is your wife's and yours. No one can borrow it. [tact] [shyness], although it is not good, it is good to be responsible for yourself.

Don't shy away, borrow …

When something really happens one day, you will know how to avoid it …

You'll understand what this means,

If I know today, why should I …

Then be generous to her!

Just say that the capital is too small and I want to make money by car.