Watch wrestling! What knowledge did you learn from your father?

After watching the movie, I believe that every moviegoer can finally get some inspiration from the movie. I have the following experience.

First, life will not develop as expected. You can go with the flow or fight back. The protagonist's father used to be a wrestler who won the national championship. He wanted to win honor for his country, but he didn't have the chance and finally ended his career as an athlete. He wanted to have a son, train him to be a wrestler, and then fulfill his lifelong wish, but it backfired and even gave birth to four daughters at once. Therefore, my father's own life did not develop as expected, and the expectation of training the next generation was blocked, but my father finally trained his daughter into a wrestler and won a gold medal for the country.

Second, the road to chasing dreams is always full of incomprehension and ridicule from others, either disappearing into the crowd or going forward bravely. In order to train his daughters to learn wrestling, his father cut their hair and dressed them up as boys. He and his two children were laughed at by their neighbors. If they always care about other people's opinions and choose to give up, then they can only become as mediocre as those who laugh at them. There is a plot in which a classmate of his daughter's guitar married a stranger at the age of 14, which is a common phenomenon in India. The classmate tearfully advised the guitar sisters not to blame their father, at least their father really thought of them, otherwise they would marry strangers as early as she did, do housework and have children all day, and have no real life of their own.

Third, never judge others with your own ability. Everyone's experience and perseverance are different. Just because you can't do it doesn't mean others can't do it. At the beginning of the film, my father was at work watching a wrestling match and had a little argument with a colleague. This colleague thought that my dad could only talk, but in a wrestling match later, this colleague was thrown out of the water by my dad. When dad took his daughter and boys to participate in various wrestling competitions, he also encountered various doubts at first, but because his daughter received long-term hard training and dad's careful guidance, he finally defeated all the five big and three thick male opponents and became the national champion.

Fourth, support those who bravely pursue their dreams, at least others have such courage. There is an interesting plot. In order to supplement nutrition for two daughters, my father went to a neighbor's house to buy chickens. Originally he wanted 100 rubles, but he could only afford 25 rubles. Dad gave his neighbor a reason. Although he can't give so much now, his daughter will definitely become a wrestling champion in the future because she ate her neighbor's chicken, which is equivalent to speaking for the chicken, and she will definitely not worry about business in the future. Later, my daughter really became a wrestling champion, winning glory for her country, and her neighbors named her chicken champion chicken. It seems that her neighbor's kind action is supporting other people's dreams. We don't need to support any unrealistic dreams, but we should never underestimate the courage of others to pursue their dreams.

Simple things can only be successful if they are done to the extreme over and over again. The eldest daughter, Gita, entered the university after becoming a national champion, but she did not continue to insist on her father's training in the university. Instead, she forgot what she had learned at the request of the coach and began to accept new training methods and skills. In the process of returning home from vacation, she began to educate her sister to give up the old skills taught by her father, questioned her previous hard training methods, but had an argument with her father. Although I got the upper hand in the confrontation with my father, it seems that my new method is very effective, but my sister hit the nail on the head because my father is old. However, it turns out that Gita did not win a game with so-called new skills in various actual competitions. The skills and training of college coaches are common methods for a group of students, but dad's training is aimed at the advantages and disadvantages of guitar itself. Fortunately, in the end, the guitar secretly restored its trust in his father, insisted on the training method from small to large, and finally won.

Six, near Zhu Zhechi, near the ink is black. When I first went to college, Gita met a classmate who enjoyed college life more. When she was with her, she relaxed her training, often went to eat, drink and have fun, began to grow her hair and paint her nails, and often forgot that she was a wrestler. What impressed me deeply was that his father refused to let them eat a dessert on the first day when he made up his mind to train them. He persisted for many years, and finally he broke the commandment under the temptation of his roommate. This is actually just a metaphor, which means that when she was in college, she actually influenced and indulged herself because she was with a roommate she didn't pursue.

Seven, only the people you love will tolerate you unconditionally, and others may be watching your jokes. As mentioned earlier, due to her education at school, guitar and her father had serious differences, and they stopped communicating for a while. However, in the face of his repeated failures and his sister's persuasion, the guitar and his father finally cleared up their differences, and his father began to try his best to guide the guitar again. There are also between mom and dad. Dad was looking forward to having a son, but mom gave birth to four daughters. Dad may be disappointed, but he is not cold to his mother. Dad wants to train his two daughters to wrestle. Mom was confused at first, but she finally chose to support them. What we see in the whole process is that only the closest relatives will tolerate everything about you, and other outsiders are more interested in watching you fail.

Eight, to have a higher goal, rather than almost achieved. Before the international competition, Gita's college coach's goal was just to win a few medals and a bronze medal, but his father's request was to win a gold medal from beginning to end. It is precisely because of this persistence that when the university coach accepted his father's training privately because the Gita sisters didn't listen to his teaching and asked the school leaders to expel them, dad moved the school leaders with the goal of winning the gold medal and prevented the Gita sisters from being expelled.

No one will always be there to help you, and one day you will have to rely on yourself. Father is the spiritual pillar of guitar, especially when guitar knows that her coach can't give her correct guidance in the competition, sitting on the stage is her reassurance. But at the crucial moment of the final, her father was locked up in the grocery store because of being framed, so he couldn't get to the game site to guide. Guitar was once anxious and always fell behind in front of powerful opponents. In the end, she remembered what her father taught her, defeated her opponent and won the championship.

Ten, people only remember the first one, but can't remember the second one. Before the final, Gita asked her father what tactics she should take against her opponents who beat her many times. Her father only told her to make people remember her, and the way to make people remember her was to take the first place in the exam, because no one remembered the second place.

The whole movie is like a long chicken soup for the soul, telling us to work hard, be diligent, have lofty goals, not care about other people's strange eyes, and persist in pursuing our dreams. But isn't that the case? What dreams can be easily realized? If you want to get ahead, you can only pay more than others. There is never a shortcut to success, and every dream must go all out.

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