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Even if middle-aged people have no friends, why do they say they don’t have to force themselves to be in groups?

There is this sentence in "Chongqing Express": I don't know when it started, but there will be a date on everything. The saury will expire, the meat sauce will expire, and even the plastic wrap will expire. Expiration, I began to wonder if there is anything in this world that will not expire. ?

Indeed, most materials in life have a shelf life, and even friendship is no exception. You think that the other person is a helper in your life, but in the eyes of the other person, you are just someone who can bring benefits. Just people.

I have watched "The Legend of Zhen Huan" many times, and every time I see the death of Shen Meizhuang, I burst into tears. Whether it is the initial "promise" or the last "Concubine Xi", from beginning to end, Shen Meizhuang is always there. Calling "Huan'er", Shen Meizhuang's death took away the last tenderness in Zhen Huan's heart. With the word "Irrespectable Friend", she protected Zhen Huan throughout her life.

This kind of friendship makes people envious, jealous, and hateful. When you reach middle age, you should treat friendship more purely. Even if you don't have friends, don't force yourself to be "social".

Part 1. Real friends rely on attraction, not on flattery.

As the saying goes, true friendship can only be seen in times of need. The friendship between friends is not maintained by ordinary chatting. True friendship can withstand the test of time and environment, and is not the usual hypocritical flattery. Just like in "Thirty Only", Gu Jia thought that by integrating into the "wife circle", she would be able to bring orders to her company, but In the eyes of other wives, Gu Jia is just a person who desperately wants to integrate into a class that does not belong to her.

Gu Jia also lost herself and wanted to take shortcuts, but ended up falling into Mrs. Li's circle. It was precisely because she took over a tea factory that could not make ends meet that Gu Jia gained more sincerity.

As the saying goes, "Different people don't work together". Only like-minded people will be attracted by the temperament of the other party. If you blindly fawn over and please yourself, you will be wronged and it will be just a joke in the eyes of others. .

Part2,

Instead of socializing with friends and eating and drinking, it is better to spend time with your family

Lin Li gets drunk every day. For this reason, he quarrels with his wife After countless times, Lin Li said: "Do you think I am willing to go out to socialize every day not for the sake of this family, or to provide you and your children with a better quality of life?" ?

My wife didn’t understand that she could achieve great things by relying on her ability in the company and being drunk all day long. She also didn’t understand his wife’s complaints. Lin Li just wanted to escape and stay with his so-called friends. , not long after, his wife was diagnosed with breast cancer. Lin Li asked his former friends to borrow money to deal with the emergency. As a result, everyone made excuses to shirk the situation. Only then did Lin Li realize that the friends who hung out together all day long did not only eat and drink, but also pursue pleasure. When it comes to business, no one is willing to lend a hand to help.

Life is cruel. If you don’t experience troughs, you can never clearly see who is sincere and who is hypocritical. When you reach middle age, instead of eating and drinking with your friends all day long, it is better to spend time with your family. Only your family will support you unconditionally.

Part3,

Reluctantly being gregarious is a waste of your feelings and time

When you reach middle age, don’t force yourself to integrate into a class that does not belong to you. , if you are not good enough and your professional skills are not strong enough, your connections are worthless. In fact, no matter how many friends you have, it will be useless work.

True friends do not depend on the length of time, but on mutual attraction. Only when your relationship becomes equal will the relationship be harmonious.

Part4,

Throw away useless social interactions and have more time to enjoy life

In the variety show "Mars Intelligence Agency", Qian Feng asked Brother Han , why did you delete me?, Wang Han returned? I deleted Chen Kun and Fan Bingbing? Later, Wang Han explained that when the number of friends reached 100, he thought it was a terrible thing, so he would delete certain ones. My friend, I am living a very comfortable life now.

You think that by adding WeChat and leaving your phone number at a party, you can call yourself a friend. When you need help, the other party will use various excuses to shirk it. In most adults, In this world, if you cannot provide the other party with corresponding rewards and the effort is greater than the gain, no one is willing to wade into troubled waters.

So, when you reach middle age, you should make appropriate reductions, throw away useless social interactions, and spend more time enjoying life, so that your life can be more colorful.

The older I get, the more I understand that not everyone can exchange their sincerity for their sincerity. As I grow older, I look back and see how many friends I once had a good time with over wine, but now I can’t even see each other. How many friends who once confided in each other and talked about everything now only like each other in the circle of friends.