Understanding of self-confidence and struggle

Self-confidence in Xinhua dictionary is: believe in yourself.

Believe in yourself, although it is only four words, it is not easy to do it. You must go through failures, setbacks and tests in life to truly know how to believe in yourself. And what we have to do is to know ourselves, to know ourselves, to make friends, to learn knowledge, to try more, and to make this foundation of believing in ourselves.

To fight or strive with all one's strength.

If you want to fight hard, you must go all out. We only like to do it, and we have a clear practical purpose.

Only with correct and effective methods and guiding ideology can we really give full play to our full strength.

Success comes from confidence and hard work.

Be confident and work hard, and success will come.

So I went online to find other articles, after all, my qualifications are still relatively shallow. Just finished the college entrance examination, full of fantasies about college life. I will also seize this opportunity to learn to be independent, confident, hardworking and love life.

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Beaver in Toronto

One of my high school classmates came to Toronto for a meeting, so we had an opportunity to get together. I don't have a car and I can't drive, so I'm sorry.

I can only take her to the streets downtown.

When crossing the road, I saw that the yellow light was already flashing, so I stepped up my steps and trotted over; And looking back at friends is still the same.

Steady, smiling at the original speed. Everyone laughs and sometimes laughs, even in a foreign country.

Friends who are in a bad situation in foreign countries sometimes laugh. But until today, I still clearly remember her smile, a kind of

A penetrating smile, calm and confident. It suddenly dawned on me that I haven't seen such a smile for a long time, and I haven't seen it myself for a long time.

With such a smile, even with such emotions, my mouth twitched slightly.

I am afraid of accusations from others, especially foreigners, because I know that when such accusations are expressed in words, they do not exist.

I don't know who I am. They only know that I am from China, so I embarrassed my compatriots. Further on, my compatriots will be there.

Accuse me, they will think that my quality is very low, because people like me have made China so backward and have no dignity. is it

? I used to be, but now I doubt it.

The first time I crossed the road in Toronto, I didn't understand how these things worked, although I understood that the red light had stopped.

Green light release. Moreover, in the days in China, I have developed the habit of the boss driving and others giving up their seats. At the crossroads

I saw a car coming in the distance, so I stopped. I don't want the car to stop. It took me a long time to remember, okay.

People have priority, so they hurried over. I can't help feeling that the quality of foreigners is really high.

It turned out that this was not the case. Once, a car came from behind, we walked in front, and the driver scolded Canada.

National scold, I haven't figured out where I violated the rules, just say I was slow to cross the road? But the yellow light is still on, because

As far as cars are concerned, the red light is still on. I don't know why, and then there were several such situations, so I began to ask my questions.

Take big friends for example, they don't care, you are not wrong. What's more, once, a Canadian buddy was with me.

When I left, I also encountered such a thing. My brother screamed at the car in the distance with his middle finger soaring into the sky. But I don't think I can do it.

Sample to do, because I will lose face in China.

Then I pay more attention to the experience of walking on the streets of Toronto, and more and more things make me unable to understand.

. Judging from my experience in walking around the streets, no matter how foreigners are, on the surface, they won't drive to compete with you for horses.

Road, and roared in front of me are mostly the faces of China and the Middle East. They are on the road, not on the road.

I just want to ask you, is it the same for foreigners to walk in front of them I don't think so

, because it will lose the face of China people.

Later, I bought a bike so that I could travel long distances on the streets of Toronto. I didn't buy that rubbish.

My old car, I bought an almost brand-new light blue sports car from my friend.

So I can fly in every corner of the city at a faster speed, which means I am at the same time.

Occasionally you can meet more events and get more information. And in a data without any statistics, it is also strict.

I found some strange things again. For example, in a critical state, the yellow light is off and the red light is off.

Or at the intersection without lights, there are cars coming from different directions; China's measures are always stalled, and foreigners are rarely seen.

Same, use priority. In fact, in most cases, we don't have to stop and wait for the bus to pass before moving.

On the smiling faces of my friends in the sun, I suddenly understood these problems. At least for me, I have lost too much.

Self-confidence, after I came to this strange country. My language is not good, so I avoid conflict with anyone. This is my fault.

I will first think it is my own fault, because my language is not good, which is caused by my misunderstanding. I think external conditions

Change denies myself. And friends are smooth sailing, going abroad, high-paying research work, excellent spoken English, everything.

Everything made her have no self-denial, at least without external pressure. I admit I'm vulnerable myself.

A person with external influence, a truly confident person, no matter what the external environment is, will never deny himself. I see

Most new immigrants subconsciously behave like me, and I know people who are as successful as friends.

Not much, so I think it's normal, but in my friend's smile, everything speaks for itself. At this time, I really hope

All the compatriots here can have a successful career, so our environment will be improved a lot, because people are in this society.

When their status and class are in the middle, they have no reason not to be confident. Others have no reason to laugh at them.

Because you can't laugh at a mainstream. Thanks to my friend, I hope she can live a better life, which is good for me.

Speaking of it, I can learn about another life through her life, which I may not have a chance to know.

Some friends may ask, is it true that only successful people have a good attitude? I don't think so, but a secure economy is.

The basis of all this, at least for most ordinary people, because there is always a saint in 500 years, even so, it is also.

Not all of them will immigrate to Canada. The pipe said: you are full of money, but you are shameless.

Toronto immigrants, most new immigrants are worried about all kinds of things, in this socio-economic state.

Many things are not satisfactory; At the same time, individuals have their own development direction and goals, and no one can blame others for saying this.

Is right, that's wrong. Because even under the unified moral public opinion, the same thing may have different explanations. exist

In Plato's dialogue, there is a discussion about thieves. It is generally believed that thieves are bad, but if a person steals one,

Suicide tools are given to people who want to commit suicide, so what is the explanation for this behavior?

I saw someone tell me the other day that China and his wife didn't queue up to get on the bus at the bus stop, but have you ever thought that maybe this woman is?

Because she is pregnant, should the man find her a seat? It's hard to beat him. Tell him to yell, my wife is pregnant. There will be other very

There are many explanations, so if you haven't seen them do this many times at the bus stop, then your blame will be given to others this time.

People bring harm, but you gain benefits from it. If you win points morally, you will benefit others at the expense of others. Jesus said, if

Whoever thinks he is innocent can punish her. Everyone is guilty, just different. Don't criticize easily.

Others, especially in the name of morality.

Similarly, under different personal circumstances, everyone has the right to choose his own behavior without interfering with others.

By the way. This is the meaning of a sentence in the United Nations Declaration of Human Rights. Sorry, I can't remember exactly what it is. Open books * * *

You can see the original in the museum.

You can't expect everyone to seek truth tragically like Nietzsche, nor can you all create art crazily like Van Gogh.

After all, there are not many saints, as long as people and life are understandable within the scope permitted in the moral sense; counter

In short, if you meet someone who lives seriously, you may easily accuse you of abnormal behavior and fantasy in the future.

As a notorious philistine, the best way is to bless these people who have different views on life, because they are

Pioneers are exploring the greater possibilities of life.

I said so many digressions just to say that blaming others too much is a potential sign of self-confidence, and this.

This kind of behavior does not help others to make progress. An equally confident person doesn't care about other people's comments at all, because he thinks it is meaningful, and this kind of

There are differences between life attitudes and views on life, and there will be differences, and there is no way to adjust them.

. But there is a difference: confident people will not interfere in other people's lives, while unconfident people always have to persuade others to increase.

Increase your confidence.

As mortals, although we lack external conditions to make us confident, we believe that it is only temporary. Forget the people who lost people in China.

Face, if it is detrimental to national dignity, you can't afford this responsibility. As long as you play the game within the rules, your behavior does not violate the rules.

Recite your moral code (assuming that everyone has a conscience than normal people); That should be justified. Here we come.

Nobody owes you anything here, and neither do you. At this time, we are here for a big reason.

Similarly, when a nation has self-confidence, many things are not important. What if the Japanese printed a newspaper in the Tang Dynasty?

There are many lowly people in China, and everyone will treat them as jokes. At the same time, South Korea won the fourth place in the Cuju competition, which is very news.

It may not appear on Datang News Network. On the contrary, information about the popular navel dress in the Tang Dynasty may appear in various countries.

In the analysis and research institute, the unanimous conclusion is that Datang's financial industry will hit a new high. You'll say I'm Q, but it's true.

Well, the ancients said: man is a good teacher. I'm not a saint, and I can't avoid customs. Although I swore not to interfere with anyone, it was broken.

Quit, eat two chicken legs. Originally, this article was written in May, but it was never published. I wanted to send it a few days ago, but it came out of the jar.

Something happened. I was afraid of adding fuel to the fire, so I put it off until today.

Welcome Brick!

I am a little beaver. I have a light blue sports car and a bike. If you watch it on the streets of Toronto next time.

I saw a beaver riding a light blue sports car, that's me, walking in the streets of Toronto.

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Self-confidence is a state of mind, a trust in oneself, and a trust in non-ability and potential ability. All you can do is.

Believe that you can do it, be brave to show your ability, and show off when you should, not afraid of people making irresponsible remarks.

This kind of self-confidence is the premise and the first level of self-confidence. If you have a

Trust, and there is no external influence, then what is reflected is to do what you can. You can't do it.

Even if you can't do it, accept it frankly, and you won't feel inferior, which won't affect your confidence in what you have the ability to do. mankind

No one is perfect, everyone has something he can't do, and people are social, and there will always be people who do different things about your incompetence.

This kind of evaluation, even slander.

At this time, people are often hit because they are not confident in their own abilities and are not confident in their own abilities.

Think you are timid and can't do anything. In fact, the success of a thing often requires many factors, but in fact you only need

If you have the ability to do the key factors well, you may succeed, but if you have the non-ability among the non-key factors, you will not succeed.

Affect success, but often under the influence of the outside world, lack of confidence in non-ability will lead to lack of confidence in the whole thing, which will lead to

Lead to failure.

Southern nocturne/editor

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2004-09-04 06:32 Beijing Youth Daily reported that China women's volleyball team was called "smiling hero".

Chen Zhonghe, head coach, said in Beijing yesterday: "If the Paiguan Center trusts me, I will continue to lead the China women's volleyball team to new heights."

Climb the peak. "

Chen Zhonghe expressed this wish at the gift ceremony held in his honor by Fujian Yibang Group yesterday afternoon. In recognition of Chen

Coach Zhonghe led the women's volleyball team to regain the Olympic gold medal for the motherland after 20 years in Athens. Fujian Quanzhou real estate is limited,100 billion.

The company specially presented him with a set of senior duplex villas worth 6,543,800 yuan. Chen Zhonghe was very modest. He said, "This country.

There are too many favorable comments about me personally. The achievement of women's volleyball team is the result of several generations' struggle. I just made a little contribution.

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Chen Zhonghe made the following comments on the current women's volleyball team. He said: "If the spirit of women's volleyball is understood as two words, that is'.

Struggle', the current China women's volleyball team inherited the fighting style of the old women's volleyball team. We are not as good as Russian team Gamova.

The performance of China women's volleyball team depends on the collective strength and comprehensive technical strength. "

Chen Zhonghe said that he encountered many difficulties in his teaching for several years, "but it was these difficulties that made me stronger".

After the Olympic Games, coach Chen Zhonghe's contract with the Crown Dispatching Center has expired, but he said that he really wants to lead the women's volleyball girls to go on.

Go ahead bravely until the Beijing Olympic Games is more brilliant. He also said that if he can continue to be the head coach of China women's volleyball team, the next step is mainly.

The job is to select new players in the women's volleyball league that started on June 65438+1October 65438+1October 8, and transform the current team to one third.

To adapt to half the players.

Author: Liu Ailin

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The spirit of "struggle" has universal significance in the mentality of young people today. But what I want to say is, some kind of compulsion.

The nature of the disease often stimulates a person's "hard work" mentality, but this is somewhat abnormal.

For "struggle", the dictionary explains it like this, "try your best to fight for it." In some cases, what we are interested in is important.

Of course, things should be "fought for". But if there are too many people in this state of tension, does this mean that we are?

Isn't it a civilized society, but a savage society where the law of the jungle prevails? Besides, "strive for" is implicit.

It contains a premise: take away what belongs to others. This is quite different from the Olympic spirit. Kundera in Immortality

To put it more thoroughly: "Struggle is the opposition between one person's will and another person's will, with the aim of defeating the opponent and making him kneel for mercy."

Kill him if possible. "

When I was studying, I was instilled with the so-called philosophy of struggle and the exaggerated bitter experience of scientists. struggle

Philosophy must be dead by now. But what about the legend of scientists? I have to say, from primary school to undergraduate education

The aim should not be to train all students to be scientists. And such an educational goal, even if achieved, is impossible to achieve.

It's no use arriving: they are all scientists. Who will operate the machine? I even want to ask, why should everyone work hard?

Strive to become a scientist? Know that there will only be one scientist in a prefecture-level city? What is the purpose of our education?

Just to train all the students in a city to be losers?

Of course, today's students will not receive such education. But the concept of "struggle" is still seen in youth magazines.

To put it bluntly, this ideological basis is still the thought of small farmers: the property of the whole society is limited, so don't fight for it, don't.

People took it away. The popularity of Love Will Win in the whole country shows that this idea is still very popular among adults. But I have to say,

From the perspective of the whole society, money is not earned (that is the logic of gamblers), but created. Zhou Xiaochuan, Governor of the Central Bank

In a speech, I talked about "Pareto Optimality Theory". Pareto improvement means that it can be achieved in the following ways.

Appropriate institutional arrangements or exchanges can at least improve the welfare or satisfaction of some people, but will not reduce the welfare of all others.

The degree of benefit or satisfaction. And this, I think, is actually the essence of institutional innovation.

The purpose of ordinary people is simple: to live a life without too much suffering. Scientists, athletes and others.

The essence of a professional's profession is hard work (regarded as hard work by ordinary people). Don't bother scientists, give them too many arrangements.

Leisure and entertainment will be very painful for them; Similarly, if too much hard work is arranged for ordinary people, ordinary people will also suffer. scientist

The purpose of struggle is to make life easier for most people, not to set an example of hardship.

Education is just a sieve, not a whip. Don't think that education can change people's genes and whip an ordinary person into

Inventor or sprint champion.