Emotional issues. Two people are chasing me but I only regard them as friends.

I think we have to make a decision now, reject one of them, or reject both! Since decisions have to be made sooner or later, of course, the sooner the better! The longer the time, the greater the damage! At that time, it will not be a question of whether we can still be friends. If they find out that you are still having another boyfriend while you are dating them, this is cheating and a character problem, which is very serious!

How to make a decision? This is also a problem! You said you don't like either of them, then, in my opinion, it's better to reject both of them! If you are in a relationship with one of them, if his feelings for you are getting deeper and deeper, but in the end you say that you don't like him... then it is hurt! If you do it now, I think you can still stay friends!

The above mentioned excludes your age! But no matter what, you are in puppy love!

Let’s talk about puppy love again! According to those traditions, puppy love is wrong! In China, most parents and teachers are strongly opposed to it! Puppy love will affect academic performance. Nowadays, almost every parent regards their children’s learning as their top priority. How can they tolerate premature love ruining their education plans? Falling in love is something that happens sooner or later, and it is difficult to make up for the delay in study! Not to mention teachers. They go to school just to study. They are opposed to anything that delays study, including puppy love! However, I deeply disagree with the above! Not that puppy love is right! I don’t agree with puppy love either! But in my heart, I don’t regard learning as that important! The poster is still in junior high school, so you are still immature in all aspects! Since it is puppy love, it must involve love or something, and you are still too young, so the word love is too heavy for you! I don’t mean to belittle you. You really don’t understand what love and affection are now, and you shouldn’t understand either!

What is love?

I love you, do you love me?

A passionate kiss and embrace?

What is love?

This problem is still too heavy and profound!

Some people will understand when it’s time to understand, while some people will never understand in their lifetime!

I have said a bit too much, and I am a bit off topic...

Study hard, although studying is by no means the only way out! But, at your age, what are you doing if you don’t study?

I hope you are in a good mood every day!

I saw your addition!

“I really don’t mean that to you, and I don’t want to think about those things now. I think it’s good for us to be friends, and I also want to continue to be friends with you. Don’t think too much. It’s really impossible now! I don’t want to be friends!”

This is what I’m saying for you! Just say it if you think you can! You must be firm when speaking and don’t let him/them have any illusions!

Don’t worry too much, anyone will be hurt more or less if they are rejected! What’s more, you’ve accepted it before! Injuries are inevitable, so try to minimize them!