"The best dowry for a woman is to have a strong bride's family." Do you agree with this sentence? Why?

Agree with this view. A woman's best dowry is to have a strong bride's family, strong enough to support her, which is her strong backing.

Xiaoyu is deeply touched by this view.

Xiaoyu and his brother's daughter-in-law are treated differently. In the eyes of her mother-in-law, Xiaoyu comes from the countryside and her family is very ordinary, but her brother's daughter-in-law is different.

Her father is in business and his family is very rich. The dowry given to her when she got married has opened the eyes of everyone in their small town, and Xiaoyu can't compare with it.

Usually, my mother-in-law always cooks the dishes that my brother-in-law likes to eat. Before cooking, she always asks her brother-in-law for advice and asks her what to eat this time.

Sister-in-law has always been spoiled She has never been in the kitchen, and even the fallen oil bottle can't be saved. Xiaoyu works every day and serves the family to eat and drink.

Every time I go back to my mother's house, what my mother-in-law brings to her brother-in-law is absolutely different from Xiaoyu's. Xiaoyu may think that rural people are easy to send, and shoddy things are ok.

Choose gifts for your aunt and mother-in-law, look at your face and talk. Buy her as many things as she likes.

From the different attitudes of her mother-in-law towards her two daughters-in-law, we can see that having a strong family, being rich and powerful, invisibly raises her social status and makes others look at you with new eyes.

If your mother's house is not as good as your mother's, then you are at her mother's house, and no one takes you seriously. You are whisperd, you must compromise.

Therefore, having a strong maiden is a woman's best dowry.

I am: Qingju time, a person who likes simple life. Welcome attention.

It seems reasonable, but it is not.

1. On the surface, a woman's best dowry is to have a strong bride's family. This sentence seems to be correct. But you think deeply and think long. We can make a hypothesis. Suppose a woman's maiden is very strong, to what extent? Rich and powerful, you can eat both black and white. Then, when your husband marries you, when he wants to change his mind, when he wants to hit you, when he wants to do something bad, and so on, he will weigh it before doing it. From this point in time, this sentence is correct. A woman's best dowry is to have a strong maiden. So you can do whatever you want without scruple.

However, it's hard to say after this time. Let's make another hypothesis. Suppose your family collapses overnight, and you become a poor man without money, power and power. At this moment, without the influence of your family, you are an ordinary person, even worse than ordinary people. You used to be willful with the help of your parents. Now, your willfulness is a joke and a tragedy. If your husband has any conscience, he may forgive your stupidity and ignorance. If your husband has no conscience, then your ending is divorce, or even worse.

Therefore, the best dowry for a woman is to have a strong maiden and a strong self at the same time. Managing yourself well is a woman's best dowry. I used to do medicine business in our town, and his daughter was a rich family. But one day, the business of medicinal materials lost money. He changed from a rich family to a poor family overnight, committed suicide by jumping off a building and divorced his only daughter. The marriage that once seemed happy has become a joke. Therefore, it is good to have a strong family in marriage, but the most important thing is to become a better self.

Recently, I watched Hot-blooded Male Companion. In it, Chong Liming is a good man. He is in a high position but cares about the world, but he is just a flower in a million. There are not many such good men, so sometimes, family is not important. In the play, Mary has a beautiful family, but she gets nothing. Therefore, it is more important to find the right person. In today's society, anyone who leaves can live on. There are not so many fairy tales. Be yourself.

Personally, I feel that besides myself, I really need a strong family to be your backing!

If you meet love rat or a domestic violence man, he will hit the dog according to his master, and bully the woman according to the consequences. Even if a man does not have these problems, it is inevitable that he will bicker in his daily life. No matter how angry a man is, he won't dare to touch you, not because he is afraid of you (usually even a weak man can hit a woman), but because he is afraid of your mother's house.

In my own experience, my family talked about someone before they met me. I heard from our neighbor, the uncle and aunt, that they quarreled for three days and often started fighting. Later, after they broke up, it was introduced by the matchmaker (because I don't know how to make friends, I have to be introduced by others, haha). I met in a few days and got married in a flash. Since we got married, he hasn't touched my finger, only mixed up a few words at most. He also chickened out and refused to let me report him. In fact, he was afraid that I would turn him in. I won't turn him in. First, I am afraid that my parents will worry about him. Second, I am afraid that my father will really get even with him. My father was honest all his life. I didn't see anyone he was afraid of except my grandparents, really.

We are not angry about money, we have no money; Not because we have the right. We have no right! It is the ordinary working class (in my father's time, there were many opportunities, but I used to let him be the head of the township. Father's character is too upright, he doesn't like intrigue in officialdom, and he finally chose to be a worker. He is also a technician in the unit and never obeys the leader, because he doesn't like the leader at that time, but he sympathizes with the bottom workers and has a very good relationship with them. The unit is notoriously irritating, and everyone calls him "the scapegoat". Neither money nor power, but also some loyalty! Therefore, my husband and in-laws never dare to hit me, haha.

It can be seen that the strength of the family is so important! The premise is that you must be reasonable and do everything impeccably!

My mother's brothers and sisters and grandparents are kind and cowardly, and they are 100% good to everyone, but they can't get sympathy and love from their families. My uncle and aunt helped my daughter (when she got married, she didn't need money and didn't have a wedding) to raise her two grandchildren. My uncle gave them food and drink, but my son-in-law didn't give them living expenses and said nothing. He also helps them do farm work for free. Once my uncle and son-in-law ran home because of the rain, and the son-in-law immediately took out a bowl of stew from the cupboard and ate it, leaving my uncle hanging aside without a word of courtesy. . .

My son-in-law cheated, so he was bullied. Uncle, they dare not complain more, but the daughter still wants it.

Go out to earn money like a donkey, and all the money earned will subsidize the family. She and my uncle are responsible for the children's expenses, and the money earned by her husband belongs to him. . .

Say 1000 to 10000, except for my cousin's personal reasons, my uncle's family is too weak. Without a strong family (not a strong self), you will always eat a bowl of rice in your life, and you are doomed to be angry all your life! !

In fact, the truth of a family is the same as that of a country. When your country is strong, foreigners who go abroad will not dare to bully you, and vice versa, right? !

The best dowry for a woman is to have a rational and powerful parent, not a family with a few dollars. Her daughter is as bossy as her parents. There are some people in reality, but there are also daughters with good family background and poor self-cultivation. This is only when she is lucky.

Get married at the age of 27 and walk on the wedding stage yourself!

As a married woman in her thirties, I quite agree: "The best dowry for a woman is to have a strong family".

Let's talk about what is powerful first.

1. A strong girl means that a woman should have strong parents.

What is a strong parent?

A truly powerful person should be strong in heart, full of energy, knowledgeable and wise. If a person is rich in spirit and strong in heart, he will not be poor in material things.

Strong parents can teach their daughters to look at the world with mature eyes and treat things with caring heart.

A rich heart is the real wealth.

2. A strong girl has a rich material foundation.

The ancients said that raising a son in poverty and raising a daughter in wealth is very reliable.

Children who grow up in well-off families are confident and happy both psychologically and physically, and will not be lost because of the little care and flattery of others.

Such a woman knows how to find a soul mate, and she can be the helm of a happy family. Isn't there a saying that most men are children? So a good woman is not only a man's lover, but also his mentor.

If you are not strong, you are not a good wife?

But unfortunately, there are happy families and many unhappy families.

I got married that year. At that time, I especially liked watching weddings in foreign movies. The bride took her father's hand and walked slowly to the groom. The father gave his daughter's hand to the groom and thought it was a kind of inheritance. Passing on his love for his daughter to the groom is the best interpretation of his daughter becoming a wife.

However, due to family reasons, I chose not to let my father appear when I got married. It was just me and the groom, and it was a bit lonely to walk on the long wedding red carpet.

Therefore, I have always admired those women who can stand on their own feet, those women with weak families, and have become their strong backing with their own efforts. Isn't such a woman stronger?

I hope every woman can become a powerful "dowry" in the future!

Personally, I think what women really need is a strong family. But a strong bride's family doesn't have to be rich, let alone powerful, but when this woman suffers indignities, she can stand in her position, protect her, support her and feel sorry for her.

Just like a friend of mine, the family condition is very good. When she got married, her family married off her daughter's house and car, and she also helped the man in her career. However, this man has a bad habit of drinking. After drinking, he began to find fault and hit people. My friend couldn't stand it, so he went home and discussed the divorce with his parents.

However, my parents' reaction made my friend shudder: "What, you want a divorce? Where do we put the faces of the old couple? " "You have more than 30 years old. Who wants you at this time of divorce? " "You were born in the X family, and death is the ghost of the X family." That's all.

Friends have to make do with their husbands.

Another colleague's sister, from an ordinary family, also suffered the same thing. The husband was violent, and the family rushed over at the first time. Her brothers taught the man a good lesson. Afterwards, the man did not know how to repent, and her family decisively filed for divorce, preferring to lead an honest life rather than live with such people.

Finally, with the help of her family, she won the custody of the child and the woman returned to her family. In her mother's words, "We are not angry about this. Your mother can support you for life."

Therefore, a woman's greatest dowry is to have a strong family. This sentence is true, but this "strength" must be to stand by the woman's side, support her, face unreasonable demands, and hurt her behavior, even if it is to stand up and speak for her.

When she is forced by her husband's family to have a second son, her family can help reply: it is the same for boys and girls.

When she wants a divorce when her husband betrays his family, the family can hug her: leave, your happiness is more important than face.

When she needs the help of her parents to take care of her children, her family can be duty-bound: OK, my grandchildren are all my treasures.

For a married woman, a strong and rational family is her eternal harbor.

I don't agree with this sentence, and I have seen many parents who are strong, but they are unable to bear it, which will only harm their parents.

I read a story about a woman who has three brothers in her family, and they are also very kind to her sister. After the woman got married, once her husband abused her and beat her, she ran back to her mother's house and cried. Her brother couldn't stand his sister's injustice and ran to beat her husband. As a result, her husband was injured. When she saw it, she was very distressed. She blamed her brother for doing it, and she felt sorry for her husband. This brother can only hate iron for not turning into steel. I think many people have seen such a thing. If a woman doesn't have a correct outlook on life, it's useless for her family to be strong. Instead, it will become a tool that the husband's family can use.

I also watched the TV series Double-sided Adhesive. Sow feet keep squeezing their families for the home of male pig's feet. It is because her family has the ability to protect her that it will cause tragedy.

Many, many such things happen. In fact, to tell the truth, it is very important to have a strong family, but what is more important is what kind of person you are, if you are not a correct, independent person who knows how to love yourself. It doesn't matter who is strong, no matter how strong her family is, it is impossible to live in her husband's house at any time to monitor. So the key is to rely on yourself.

A strong girl is icing on the cake, not a gift in the snow.

It is good to have a strong family, but I agree to have a strong self.

After all, the family is good. If you are angry, there is a backer in your marriage, and the man will take care of everything.

But marriage is ultimately between you two. A good marriage or a good long-term relationship still pays attention to a balance of values.

Your survival value, your reproductive value and your emotional value are more than those provided by the man, so you will have more initiative in marriage, and it is the man who compromises when things happen.

Two people are fighting for value, whose value is low and whose demand is big; Whoever needs more will change.

Having a strong family will lay a good foundation for you, but you personally need to constantly improve your value, make yourself better and better, make your life more exciting, and turn the relative uniqueness into the absolute uniqueness.

Relative uniqueness means that you are his best choice at present, and absolute uniqueness means that you are also the best choice of others. The higher your value, the more potential choices you have.

In that case, he won't dare to treat you badly.

Therefore, a strong self is the best dowry.

Hello, everyone, I'm a man. However, I disagree with this statement. I don't think the bride's family is the best dowry. After all, it's her family. If you use the strength of your family to cultivate your own strength, it is the best dowry.

I live in the countryside, very poor and have a daughter. Speaking of dowry, I really want to show off. From her daughter's elementary school to college, the whole family is saving money to support her daughter. My daughter is also very competitive. She graduated from college with honors. After graduation, she started her own business and opened a cram school for students. There are nine people under her, and her monthly income is considerable.

During this period, a young man in the city took a fancy to his daughter, and the young man's parents also agreed, praising his daughter for her hard work and ability. When the young man's parents saw us, they always said, "We are satisfied with such a hardworking and capable daughter-in-law."

Therefore, what I agree with is: "It is naturally a good thing to have a strong mother family, which can only satisfy a temporary thirst. Being strong is a woman's dowry that never fades. "

Thanks for reading and welcome to share.

No, your mother's family can't be your forever support. The most decent dowry for a woman is a decent education, an independent spirit and a decent job. Many rich girls, the daughters of the second generation of officials, walked sideways ten years before marriage, so that one day their parents went bankrupt, their husbands developed, men began to put themselves down, and women were abandoned by their husbands, which became the original match of tragedy. However, women who are excellent in themselves are different. Excellent and well-married women are icing on the cake. If they are unlucky enough to get married, they can support themselves. Therefore, no matter how much money a son or daughter has, it has nothing to do with your child. You must force your daughter to stand on her own feet, and your boy to stand on his own feet …