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Measurement determines fate.

Measurement determines fate.

A person's scale is like a container that can be stretched freely, but it can be large or small. And between people, there are also differences in size. In other words, different people have different qualities.

Some people have a large capacity and can accommodate all kinds of people or things; And some people, small in size, can only accommodate themselves and things related to themselves. Most people are in between. For example, some people can hold 10 thousand volumes of poetry in their hearts, but they can't listen to half a sentence of advice; Some people can flatter every word, but can't tell a truth; And some people can tolerate treacherous and cunning people, but they can't tolerate an honest and upright person.

Since there are sizes, what's the difference between people with large sizes and people with small sizes?

In this regard, Mr. nan huaijin said: "The more virtuous a person is, the higher his status is, the more afraid and cautious he is when he encounters something ... Not only the monarch of a country is mainly wary of fear, but also a civilian, and so is it in daily life. Otherwise, he will be complacent. If you earn 1000 yuan, you will be so happy that you can't sleep all night. This is called' petty gain', just like a small wine glass, spilling a little water. Such people can't do much. "

Reading this passage of Mr. Nan carefully, we can easily find that the size of an instrument determines fate. A person with a small measure, as Mr. Nan said, is like a small wine glass, spilling a little water. Such people will not make great achievements and are doomed to failure.

At the end of the Yuan Dynasty, there was chaos and separatism. At that time, Zhu Yuanzhang and Zhang Shicheng were rivals. When commenting on Zhang Shicheng, Zhu Yuanzhang said, "This man is too small to be afraid." Later, Zhang Shicheng was defeated.

A great man will be able to "accept all rivers." Such people have a gas field in front of major events and are more tolerant; In front of small things, I don't haggle over every ounce, very transparent and free and easy. In the complicated world, if we can have such a measure, how can we care about gains and losses, and how can we remember our daily troubles? All the troubles are precipitated in tolerance, and his eyes are only focused on doing himself and doing good things. Such a person is ultimately a very accomplished person.

199 1 year, south African national fighter mandela was elected president. Mandela is a black man. Before he was elected president, he was arrested and imprisoned for leading the masses to openly oppose the apartheid policy of whites, and spent 27 years in prison.

During these 27 years, Mandela lived a hellish life as a prisoner. Because Mandela was the leader of the "reactionaries", he was taken care of as a felon. At that time, Mandela was locked up on a desolate island, and he had to do a lot of physical labor every day, such as fishing kelp from cold seawater, collecting lime, or grinding big stones into small gravel, and so on.

The arrested Mandela is old. But the guards don't sympathize with him, because he is the leader of the rebels, so they always find various reasons to personally attack him and insult him more and more.

However, Mandela did not resist them for this reason, nor did he give up his life because of such hardships. He just silently endured all the hardships. Twenty-seven years later, he was released and eventually elected President of South Africa. At the inauguration ceremony of the president, after introducing the dignitaries of various countries, Mandela solemnly introduced those who guarded him to the world and expressed sincere thanks for their attendance.

When Mandela finished introducing them to the world with a smile, he stood up and bowed to his guardian to show his respect. Mandela's action shocked the world. This fully embodies Mandela's ideological realm, and also makes people present respect Mandela.

Later, Mandela said: "When I walked out of my cell and walked through the prison gate leading to freedom, I told myself that if I couldn't put my sadness and resentment behind me, I would live in the pain of prison forever and it would be difficult to achieve anything."

This is a great man's choice. It is precisely because Mandela can broaden his horizons that he can forget hatred and do what he should do. Only in this way can we have a new beginning and constantly look for the hopes and goals of life. Finally, he was successfully elected President of South Africa.

It can be seen that fate, or the situation of life, is inseparable from our own quality. In fact, all the achievements are actually self-made blessings. Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory. Since we can see eight or nine, we should also see one or two. These two viewpoints are measured in a broad sense. The great wisdom of life, as Mr. Nan emphasized, is not to be a small wine glass. The implication is to be a "prime minister who can punt in his stomach" and "too big to make a profit".

As Hugo, a great French writer, said, "The ocean is the widest in the world, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky."

On the road of life, we should open our minds, use our skills to accommodate some obstacles and challenges, and always maintain an optimistic and positive attitude towards life. A person's demeanor in adversity is the best witness to explain the connotation and depth of his life. And don't exaggerate the small achievements in prosperity, let alone be satisfied. Therefore, Teacher Nan advised us not to be "complacent". After earning 1000 yuan, I was so happy that I couldn't sleep all night. "

In short, measurement determines fate. If you are eager to change your destiny, or want a better destiny, please remember Mr. Nan's advice-be a person with great tolerance and broad mind.